TTC Thread 15...........a thread full of babydust.

Still thinking about you Hester! I'm not your stalker honest! We're all here for you... (it's fastasleep, being sort of vaguely festive, if you hadn't noticed!)

Glad you're ok Tania! You go girl! BD lots!!

Hi girls thank you so much for all your kind words it really made me feel better.
Not really sore today not bleeding either so iam still going to ttc this month regardless what dr says.
Hester are you about really worried about you hope your ok and just too busy to pop in.
Girls expecting a call from my gyno today i will fill you in later.
Bye for now
Love you all
Tania
xx

we've been v quiet today girls, r there any testers coming up? i'm cd17 (a new pack of sticks - which r a diff lot no and work just the same) and on a green day, I assume that would be 5DPO (assuming O was day 12 - I had the O on days 12 and 13)

jeds - did ur green light come on about 4/5 days after u'd OV?

massive hugs to Hester whatever the news!!

No jingle I haven't! Unless I didn't notice it!! Don't congratulate me please ...no way near the big O yet, calm down cockenzie Hester where aaaare you!! My nails are quite gone!

Oh Tania (((hugs))) What an insensitive doctor Sorry.

Hope you get more answers next time you speak to him.

i've got a nasty feelin something bad's happened, (I only mean AF has come) and she's feelin a bit down. I think, but hopsfully it's not the case thou, I ama bit worried, we'll see how she gets on over the next few days I think?

(hester if u r there lurking about hon ((((hugs))))) it's ok, and u stop in when ur ready)

Tania sorry about result!
Get all your questions ready for when the quack speaks to you again!

HESTER! where are you love?
are you alright?

ooh did i miss something, has FS had a bfp?

fastasleep- 10 days b4 testing and get ur bfp?

i feel so guilty and insensitive now to think about getting pg after what tanya has been thru

i am so rubbish at comforting someone in dire straights.cant find the right words, as its not something i guess u can feel unless u are in the situation , but i hope tanya, that u do feel better soon.

so sory Tanya about those news - hope u feel better soon not just physically but also emotionally.like the girls just said, at least (i know its not exacttly a consolation and u would like to get pg now) but its not like doc told u that u wont ever get pg again.Its all very easy to say, but hope u cheer up soon.big huggies with lots of choc and wine

Big hugs Tania- for you - insensitive git!

Well, it's not going to be me to start a new thread yet. I'm cd29 and 15dpo. Woke up this morning suddenly feeling really sick and tired having had bad AF cramps all last weekend, so toddled off to get a Clearblue and.... BFN. Oh well.......

(However, 'tis not over yet, I didn't get a pos until 5 weeks with ds so you never know....?)

Morning all. Tania (((hugs))). I totally agree with everyone on how insensitive doctors can be.

CD 28 for me today. AF is due, and I can sure feel her coming. Testing would just be a waste of money at this point.

Hester, where are you? You need to be the one with good news today.

It's quiet here today! I hope everyone's ok, Tania - hope you're not hurting too much, physically and emotionally! hugs Hester!!! I'm biting the nails I've only just grown waiting for your result!! (I've honestly never had actual nails before, such a bad habit nibble I'm trying to grow them for a spa day I've been promised! )

(((Tania))) you poor love. Drs have such poor communication skills - they treat everything as a medical fact and so often forget that it's a person's real life they are talking about. It makes me so . Please try to put his manner aside and focus on what he said. As has been said before there are solutions to your problem it's just that it will take more time than you were hoping for. I know how frustrating and upsetting that must be but please don't give up hope as all is far from lost. Give yourself some time to recover from this op and to fully understand what the next steps are. At least you now know what is stopping you from getting pg and can focus on doing something about it rather than imagining what might be wrong. Lots and lots of tlc, love and babydust heading your way and in the meantime go and give that DS of yours a big squeeze

(((Hester)))...thinking of you...

{{{hugs}}}}Tania, sorry to hear things weren't great, hope it all gets sorted out soon, lol x

Tania, just logged on for the 1st time in ages and really sorry to read what you went through yesterday. Doctors can be insensitive gits at times

Try to remember the positive things he and the nurses said (I know it is hard) and as someone else says - it has happened once so it will not take a mracle to happen again. You just need a bit of tlc first, thats all.

Sleep well honey and don;t lose heart - we are all here with you.

Tania2 - I'm so sorry you had such a horrible experience yesterday. Please please stay positive - there are more channels they can try!!! Ignore the doctor - he delas with these problems every day so I guess it's just routein to him - he should have been more sensitive!!!

I'll keep my fingers firmly crossed for you and cheep checking in.

Hester - good luck - hope you get your BFP

Love (oh and babaydust) to you all xxxx

Thanks girls you are all very sweet.
Have to go to bed now still very tired and sore will read thru post tomorrow when it all sinks in.
Hester how are you been thinking of you today.

{{{{{Bigger hugs for Tania}}}}} my last post seems insensitive now! Ernest was completely right!...Can't say anything better than that!

Tania, {{{{{hugs}}}}}}
I am so sorry to hear your news.. The doc could have explained more to you, how bloody rude of him...
Tania you can do this as your a strong person.. it may take time but you'll be a mummy again soon

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

jingle and hester you cracked me up! STILL sending Hester good luck vibes constantly!! (((hugs!))) So sorry about the bad news Tania, insensitive doctor I'm sure they'll be able to help you though! (((hugs for you too!!)))

Come on BFP!!! You know I'm ovulating bang on Christmas Day if my calculations are correct! I'm going to cry so much if I'm not pg by Jan though, much like Hester this month, poor love

Tania, I'm so sorry to hear about the results of your operation, but even more sorry to hear how the consultant handled the situation. You may not feel like it at the moment, but I would write a letter expressing your distress in the way you were treated. I'm not suggesting you demand his resignation (!!) just let him know how disappointed you were by his attitude. To him it may be routine news, but to every woman it's much more than that.

I hope when you see him next week he is in a better mood for a start and for a second can offer you more hopeful news (((((hugs)))))

tania, I'm sorry i didn't have chance to wish you luck before your op. I'm sorry you've had this shock. I hope I don't offend you, but in a way, it's good news, pet. I mean, it would have been more frustrating if they found absolutely nothing wrong with you. At least now you & the docs know what's wrong & they can do something about it. They'll take really good care of you, get you all unblocked & squeeky clean & then you'll be raring to go. I know it must have been a huge shock, but at least now you know why and can tackle it. i don't know what they do to unblock, don't know anything about it, but they must have seen this problem loads of times before. I'm sorry he was so blunt with you, but at least he's going to call tomorrow, not having to wait around for weeks. hope you have the chance to discuss with dh & maybe even some more wise mners who'll help you think of what questions to ask him Get a good list together. it's easy to forget or not even think what to say or ask.

(((((((((((((big hugs))))))))))))) from me