TTC Thread 15...........a thread full of babydust.

damn - just noticed the time - got to dash. will catch up with you all later. have a good afternoon. RD xxx

hi jb - hope your friend's dream comes true when I was pg with DS I dreamt that DH had died and when a friend of mine was pg I had a dream another friend of ours died. Apparently it's a very common dream - not really about death, but the start of something new - like with tarot cards. So, in the nicest possible way I would love to dream about death again!!

no u not alone.how do u have to paint ur house? is it a new house?

cramps are going down, easing down now . so hopefully its ov time

any luck with the gyno yet jeddah?

I am rudy, good to hear from u hon, finally I have a chat bud :o he he (the persona thing - according the the book it's right the 'm' flashes from any day it think's ur AF is due)

hi jb - u still there?

jeddah - I think it is probably just flashing because it is your first month using it and so it flashes M from the first day someone (anyone!) might have AF. In the same way that the first month you test from 6 - 23 cus your O date could fall anywhere in between and it doesn't know you personally yet! (Speaking of which, I'd pictured you as tall with long dark hair for some reason!!)

tbh I don't take much notice of the first month with persona for that reason - I'm CD24 and it was red again so we may BD tonight just for the hell of it but can't believe I would O this late.

any one there? :( i'm all alone....

morning jeds, yes that's what the 'm' stands for - AF is due within ... hold on i'll grab me booook the next few days, (looks up over glases after reading) I thought ur cycle was about 30 something ish? (oh well, as long as u can go for at least another 4 days then it's lookin good.

My friend told me today, she had a dream about me the other week (dh was up on the comp - as he always is when I have friends over, we were in my front room having a cuppa, and I told her I was PG, it was a sunny day apparently.) She seems to think we're quite close and it won't be long before we're PG, so i'm hoping!:o I always thought we'd catch around April time thou, don't know y. still hopefully we'll all be PG and put an end to this madness! lol.

Finally my house is tidy, so lets go and mess it up again by doing yet more paintin... off to the bathroom, but I think i'll sit with u guys for a while with a nice cuppa.

pooka - did u buy ur persona on ebay too?

whats that 'M' means?

I'm day 13 now, I think. Last month cycle was about 34 days long. But this month AF very short, so who knows? Think part of my problem with calculating dats is I'm never entirely sure when my AF has arrived - tends to starts off pretty feeble before escalating about 2 days later. Persona has arrived, so will start trying with that next AF if no luck in December.
Good luck Tania! And fingers crossed for everyone else too :)

Tania whats happening honey????

nicks good luck sounds good!Q!!!!

I am cd26 tday and the bloody persona was flashing 'M' this morning....I was very shocked as if af arrives that means I would have a LP of 6 day!!!!!!!!!!!
I suppose it means from anytime onwards.....you persona users....can you help?
hi JB!

nite and sweet dreams.thx i am calm now.will tell af to keep away from u tanya

night tania, fingers crossed for u.

Well good night girls off to bed now its nearly 11:30pm. Fingers crossed i dont have a visit from af during the night or in the morning. Will pop in in the morning and let you all know. he he.

calm ur slef cockenzie...... I have good news! (my friend the one I was worried was PG..... well.... Shes not my god I could scream! he eh, actually so could she, it's the first AF sh'e seen in 4 months of coming off the pill, bless her sh'e so excited, hopefully now her AF will be regular etc.. she's off to buy the OV kits!)

V quiet on herre today thou, where is every one.... I'm off to tidy up for a bit.

i just heard the MOST HORRIBLE thing i could ever hear on a programme.some woman married to a man who wants babies and told her to start a family. she answered 'no, i dont want kids, it may just change my shape (she got a gorgeous body btw, fantastic figure)i dont want to change the way i look'.HOw SELFISH can a creature like that be?

oh, thats not all.i used to watch that programme at 1pm'LOOSE WOMEN'with Chris Evans ex wife.the things she said about pregnant women made me want to grab the telly and smash her face!!!!!!!!!arghhh!!!!

thx twiga. will do.well apreciated

CocKenzie, am CD16 today so as you can imagine have been on the case for the last few days! We try to bd as much as poss from about CD8 - CD20 to cover all eventualities and any other time we feel like it really. If both tired/stressed with work etc try to make an effort for CD12-Cd16 if nothing else. HTH

SPECIAL REQUEST FOR XMAS

would yous all mind emailing on this thread ur pictures?

u quite rite tanya.the thing is my mil is the kindest and sweetest lady i kno.i love her more than my own mum.and she got a heart in gold.also, i am a very shy and reserved person, very drawn in.so i would NEVER dare telling her off (althou even dp told me i should) but i just cant.but when it comes to my dd i do DARE now.and also, what goes against me, is that i am the least tactile,persone u will meet.i just but in, am too straight to the point cos i dont know how to do these things.so i keep them in until i start boiling.but when i know that i hav to put a stop, i try undirectly somehow.

My Mil is kinda the same she just doesnt realise when to butt out thou. takes over things that iam doing with ds. She is really my only babysitter and without her i would be really stuck at times so i bite my tounge alot dh on the other hand gets stuck into her at times i think on my behalf for eg. We are over there for dinner and ds starts to winge for milk at Nan I say no you wait till after dinner you can have juice instead. (knowing if he has milk he wont eat dinner) MIL then starts to make him a bottle of milk saying just alittle wont hurt i again say no and she proceeds to give it to him...well i nearly lost it bit my tounge then turned to dh and gave the death look that my FIL noticed and then FIL and DH told her off and reminded her who the mother is and to listen to me. Dinner was very quiet that night. we have a reasonably good relationship i will tell her most of the time if i dont like what she has said or something and she has told me how she really likes that about our relationship with my SIL she is too scared to even give the kids a drink SIL doesnt envolve them at all.
It sounds to me that your MIL just wants to show off her pride and joy also she is proud of her grandchild. I found that since i relaxed abit about it all i am less stressed and i just let her know when she is out of line. It works well with us.

sory for mad spelling

come on , any more bfp!!

know what u mean tanya.its bcos she got a job 2 years ago now but just been mad permanent.she was too scared to tak time off in case she gets sacked.but this year she is 41!