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4 DPO

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ttcnumber2x · 10/12/2022 23:03

Is anyone else 4 dpo??

We only managed to dtd once as then we got ill and our toddler was poorly too 😩

So I'm not very hopeful but really want it so bad to be the month. I wanted a much smaller age gap but my toddler is already 20 months. Just praying it happens soon

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Golaz · 18/12/2022 11:04

Ahh sorry to hear those whose af has arrived.

Congratulations @Char899 !

im 11dpo today. Have managed to hold off testing as I hate the disappointment and then wait for the inevitable, but I did pee on an OPK and it was v v negative 😒. Guessing this is a bad sign at 11dpo?

AmieMac93 · 18/12/2022 07:13

AF showed early guys. Looks like I'm out this month. Good luck everyone!
Xx

Laul89 · 16/12/2022 22:25

@AmieMac93 thank you ❤️
I really wish I had never tested early, told myself I wouldn’t ever do that but it’s so easy to get caught up in the excitement. So this month I definitely won’t rest until at least 22nd/23rd (that’s if AF doesn’t show up before then!)

My husband has also booked a night away for us tomorrow and I’d love a few glasses of wine but don’t know if I’m being irresponsible 🥺 might be better just to stay away from it all together!

Fingers crossed for you too 🤞🏼✨🫶🏼

Happyhappy39soon40 · 16/12/2022 18:10

Char899 · 16/12/2022 16:58

So relived to see this today. Top picture is yesterday and bottom today. 10dpo

That's great progression. 😀😀💪🏾

Char899 · 16/12/2022 16:58

So relived to see this today. Top picture is yesterday and bottom today. 10dpo

4 DPO
Char899 · 16/12/2022 16:33

@RainyDaysByTheFire definitely still hope! Defo ds when you implant. I don’t think bfps at 9dpo are that common!

@ttcnumber2x lots of time to DTD in that period then! Fingers crossed for next month x

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ttcnumber2x · 16/12/2022 16:10

Well I'll now be ovulating again in that weird bit in between Christmas and new year where no one has anything to do haha

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NarnieJoy · 16/12/2022 15:02

9dpo and didn’t test this morning, I think I am going to hold on until next week as I don’t want to make myself sad too soon

RainyDaysByTheFire · 16/12/2022 14:50

I psyched myself out and tested with a cheapie dip test today (9dpo), BFN and waste of a test, haha why am I like this 😂

Do you reckon there's any hope still?

AmieMac93 · 16/12/2022 10:53

@ttcnumber2x sorry to hear that

Make the most of it this Christmas though, you never know what next year brings
xx

Char899 · 16/12/2022 10:48

Thank you for the congratulations everyone ❤️

@ttcnumber2x oh I’m sorry to hear af arrived. Fingers firmly crossed for next month. Make the most of the Christmas period x

Happyhappy39soon40 · 16/12/2022 08:30

@ttcnumber2x sorry to hear that.

Don't be too hard on yourself. These symptoms play serious mind games with us all.

NarnieJoy · 16/12/2022 07:32

@ttcnumber2x hope you are doing ok, so hard when you get a wonky cycle. Rest well this weekend and look after yourself xx

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ttcnumber2x · 16/12/2022 07:05

Morning ladies,

AF arrived this morning.. I'm so confused this is such a short cycle for me.

Fingers crossed you all get your Christmas BFP

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AmieMac93 · 16/12/2022 00:23

@Laul89 I completely understand, I had a chem after a mc, that little line is what you cling onto so I'm really sorry you went through that.

It's also left me scared to test. I'm going away this weekend so I'm going to stay on the soft drinks and try not to test until after I'm back

Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻 and hope you don't get the awful flu
x

Laul89 · 16/12/2022 00:10

@Char899 congratulations!!! ❤️

CD27 over here.. desperately trying not to symptom spot but I have had a headache tonight with an on/off sickly feeling, mouth feeling quite watery at times! I hope it’s not me coming down with this killer cold everyone has! AF due on 21st the same as some of you on here! Will hold off testing till 23rd.. would like to hold on longer due to a chemical last month but am due on a night out then. I feel terrified to test this time as I’m scared of the bleeding starting again like last time 🥺

Char899 · 15/12/2022 22:14

@TheShellBeach ohh thank you so much ❤️

TheShellBeach · 15/12/2022 21:22

@Char899 I am so glad to see that line. I followed your thread last month when you had the chemical. Good luck for a progression this time.

Happyhappy39soon40 · 15/12/2022 20:19

@LeeCee welcome and your not out until af arrives.
@ttcnumber2x hold the faith.

Just realised that my af is due 19th (my bday 🙄) and not 21st.

So 4 days until she's here

LeeCee · 15/12/2022 19:40

10 DPO now and starting to get some cramps. I'm so gutted. I was really hoping for a Christmas baby 😥

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ttcnumber2x · 15/12/2022 19:18

@Demjay seems a bit late, I don't know though.. just this is usually what I get before AF. Normally at least 12 days. This would be a really short cycle for me if I came on tomorrow

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NarnieJoy · 15/12/2022 19:11

The only thing I have is kind of tacky yellow coloured CM… but I know that generally CM can’t tell you anything about implantation

Demjay · 15/12/2022 18:52

@ttcnumber2x could it be implantation? 😏. How long is your LP normally?

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ttcnumber2x · 15/12/2022 17:48

@NarnieJoy the month I was pregnant I had no symptoms so don't count yourself out!

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NarnieJoy · 15/12/2022 17:05

I am feeling no symptoms… I hope to have at least sore boobs by monday! I would like to have some symps at least

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