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Early symptom spotters and testers!

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ElleBelleLou · 31/10/2022 12:42

Hey all

I thought it would be nice for us to have a thread to discuss symptom spotting, early symptoms and early test pictures (if you are someone who likes to test early)

I am currently 5 DPO, TTC Baby #1 with my amazing partner after a miscarriage back in March.

I'm going out for some drinks on Thursday and will be 8DPO - I obviously won't drink if there's any sign or symptom that I may have conceived so I'd like somewhere to discuss any potential symptoms and everyone else's experience.

Please join me on this thread and let's symptom spot and chat together 🤍

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peaky297 · 02/01/2023 15:54

@ElleBelleLou congratulations on your positive tests! ✨️
If I'm not pregnant this month then I am officially going cuckoo - mega mood swings, headaches and the sorest boobs known to man! 🙈 I'm also so tired all the time. Think I'm approx 9dpo roughly - AF due Thursday.
I took a superdrug Early detection test on a whim this PM which was a bfn. Have a FRER ready for tomorrow morning, so 🤞🙈
The not knowing is the worst isn't it!?

ElleBelleLou · 02/01/2023 14:53

@BakedBean2016 sorry to hear about your bleeding! Definitely don't stop trying - I'll keep my fingers crossed for you xx

@Wonkyjelly welcome!! I have used Flo for years and always found it really accurate with ovulation date etc (I can tell from ovulation cramps and symptoms I get which match bang on with Flo). I hope this is your cycle and we see a BFP from you soon - fingers crossed! xx

@hopeandpray1988 welcome!! Good luck with this cycle 🥰

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hopeandpray1988 · 02/01/2023 14:47

Hi, hope it's ok to join. I've read through the feed and you're all so lovely and supportive. 🙂 great to see some of you have had your positives recently too!

I'm just coming to the end of my period before we start ttc baby number 2. We've waited slightly longer than had planned due to personal reasons but now I'm worried in case it takes a while to conceive number 2. I've been tracking bbt and ovulation the past few months but my cycles vary in length from 28 to 35 days. Just hoping we don't miss ovulation or stop doing the deed too early in the month etc.

Keeping everything crossed 🤞🏻

Wonkyjelly · 02/01/2023 14:28

Hello! I’ve just read this entire thread and it’s made me so happy to see the BFPs and the support you’ve given to each other.

I have 2 children and we’re trying for number 3. First month trying, I fell easily first time with my 2 but that was 8 years ago and 4 years ago so I’m aware age isn’t so much on either of our sides.

I track my periods though Flo but it’s all a bit of a minefield to me still. We’ve been having unprotected sex since my period ended (started period Christmas Day - JOY! 😂 and ended on 28th) the app says my fertile days are 31st-6th. My periods do come near enough the same time each month but Flo says my cycle is average 23 days.

Ive always been a super keen tester, so look forward to seeing how this goes 🤗✨

BakedBean2016 · 02/01/2023 12:23

@ElleBelleLou so pleased for your positive tests, I’m sadly out having had bleeding all day yesterday…. Will give it a few days to confirm with a test, my only symptom was sensitive nipples which has almost disappeared now and I had back ache throughout which has eased.
Still very upset about it but we won’t stop trying
Sensing you lots of positive vibes that your nausea eases a little soon ❤️❤️

ElleBelleLou · 02/01/2023 12:06

Hello all! Loving seeing more new people on this thread - feels like home to me 🥰

Today is the day AF is due but my positive tests are still going strong. Been feeling crampy and having bleeding here and there but nothing heavy - the worst thing at the minute is constant nausea I literally can't eat until 6pm earliest or it wants to come straight back out I don't know how to cope with it!

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MrsL22 · 02/01/2023 11:12

Oh noooo! 😂 I’ll limit to one a day.

bubblebab · 02/01/2023 10:30

I went through 26+ IC tests the few days before AF showed this cycle 😂🙊

MrsL22 · 02/01/2023 10:08

Welcome @NatGee 👋🏼
I’m 8dpo today and also tested but surprise surprise BFN 🫠
2023 will definitely be our year

NatGee · 02/01/2023 00:04

Hello may I please join? Really loving this thread, read the entire thing and the amazing support going is commendable. Usually you're made to feel slightly bad for testing early but you ladies full embrace it! I'm ttc#1 cycle 8 dpo 8. Tested today and it was a bfn. I never usually test as I have no reason to but this cycle I got intense ovulation cramping and my boobs are mildly sore. I'm cheering you all on, fingers crossed 2023 is our year 🤞🏽

MrsL22 · 01/01/2023 23:09

I’ve bought some cheapies and will just use those until much later or until / if I see any faint lines

peaky297 · 01/01/2023 22:46

😆 I learned the hard way last month - probably went through about 50 quids worth of tests 🙈
I am constantly tempted though, so I totally know where you are both coming from!

bubblebab · 01/01/2023 22:45

I'm on CD2 and counting down until I can test 😂

MrsL22 · 01/01/2023 22:29

8dpo tomorrow and I know the first thing I will want to do is test. Setting myself up for the BFN 🙈

bubblebab · 01/01/2023 22:28

@MrsL22 I agree - I have no self control 😂

MrsL22 · 01/01/2023 22:03

If you have any FRER or other early detection I would 1000% be testing. You’re a better person than me 🤣

peaky297 · 01/01/2023 21:29

Thanks ladies!
I didn't test for ovulation, but from my dates / EWCM I think I'm about 8dpo today... probably need to wait until at least 10dpo for a reasonable shout?

MrsL22 · 01/01/2023 20:57

@peaky297 and happy new year to you too!

This definitely sounds promising! Are you planning to test soon?

bubblebab · 01/01/2023 19:53

@peaky297 dark and puffy nipples was a symptom for me with DC1

Fingers crossed 🤞🏻

peaky297 · 01/01/2023 19:46

Hi everyone and happy new year!

How are you all?

I am nearing the end of my TWW... AF is due in 3 days and my god, my boobs are so effing sore! I usually get sore boobs with pms, but this is much worse and more centred around my nipples, which also look a bit darker and puffier than usual - is this a sign!?

I'm also more tired than usual, but again this could be a mix of.xmas week and pms!

MrsL22 · 01/01/2023 16:20

@BakedBean2016 I’m sorry to hear this 😢 I know first hand that there’s nothing anyone can say that makes it better. Rest up and keep your hopes up for future cycles. Your time will come x

BakedBean2016 · 01/01/2023 14:54

Sadly I’m out again, had brown spotting yesterday, this opening after our New Year’s Day walk I’ve come home to bright red blood when wiping.
This will be second mc in a row 😢😢 beyond devastated and too early to be seen by EPU

BeaKind · 01/01/2023 09:30

Congratulations on your bfp @ElleBelleLou!

I’m 8dpo now and tested but bfn. Was hoping for a New Year’s Day present 🙂

Happy New Year everyone. Hoping it’s a good year for you all 🥳

MrsL22 · 30/12/2022 16:13

@monsteramunch my understanding is you can expect to ovulate around 12-24hrs after your LH surge which is what dictates a positive OPK. Therefore I would be guessing you’ll have ovulated around CD 17/18 making you 4DPO??

monsteramunch · 30/12/2022 16:13

Should have added we DTD Mon and Tues too.

So to recap my oversharing (sorry!) succinctly:

A positive digital CD 13, a positive strip CD 15 and we DTD CD 9, 10, 11, 13, 14, 17, 18.

Still feel like the days might have been wrong even though I know logically that DTD every other day in the fertile window is apparently usually enough of a chance.

Not much more we could have done bar swinging from the chandeliers in front of family at Christmas...!

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