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Early symptom spotters and testers!

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ElleBelleLou · 31/10/2022 12:42

Hey all

I thought it would be nice for us to have a thread to discuss symptom spotting, early symptoms and early test pictures (if you are someone who likes to test early)

I am currently 5 DPO, TTC Baby #1 with my amazing partner after a miscarriage back in March.

I'm going out for some drinks on Thursday and will be 8DPO - I obviously won't drink if there's any sign or symptom that I may have conceived so I'd like somewhere to discuss any potential symptoms and everyone else's experience.

Please join me on this thread and let's symptom spot and chat together 🤍

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AgeGapBbe · 16/01/2023 16:01

I’m so sorry to read that @ElleBelleLou

Wonkyjelly · 16/01/2023 15:50

I ovulated somewhere between the 6th & 8th Jan. So I’m between 8-10dpo BFN so far although if I did a one armed handstand and then flipped to hopping on one leg I could swear there was a shadow 😂😅 probably line eyes! Will test with a frer tomorrow morning x

BeaKind · 16/01/2023 15:38

@ElleBelleLou glad you are feeling a bit better 💐 there may not be anything specifically wrong, it might sadly be just that you have been unlucky. A close friend had a couple of losses then fell again and it stuck and she has a beautiful little girl and now pregnant again with her second. This time it happened very quickly for her, I think first cycle trying and she’ll have two under 18 months 😁

I’m CD10 but irregular cycles so who knows when I’ll ovulate 🤷‍♀️ but I’ve signed up to a study where I’ll be given something to help me ovulate which is exciting. I feel like time is ticking by so quickly. My boy is 2 now and I wanted two close in age 😫

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ElleBelleLou · 14/01/2023 14:49

Hi everyone, thank you for your well wishes, I am doing okay. All my pregnancy symptoms are fading away now (though the bleeding is showing no sign of letting up yet!), but I'm happy I can eat more than I had been - I lost a fair bit of weight, so need to get myself back up to a healthy weight now.

I'm back at work today, so back to normality. I thought it would help but I feel like I've been dreaming through my entire shift - very ready for 5pm.

My amazing DP has been my rock throughout this - when we're ready, whenever that may be, we're going to speak to the doctor to see why we've had 2 losses. It's 2 losses in 10 months - makes me think something can't be right.

Genuine thank you for your kind words - how is everyone getting on? xx

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peaky297 · 13/01/2023 19:42

@ElleBelleLou I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. How are you feeling? X

Tartanhaggis · 13/01/2023 02:18

@ElElleBelleLou so sorry to hear this I hope you're ok x

BeaKind · 12/01/2023 13:00

@ElleBelleLou so sorry to hear this lovely. How are you feeling today?

Maxime34 · 11/01/2023 21:11

I'm so sorry to read this @ElleBelleLou I feel like this whole thread is routing for you and I'm so sorry to hear what's happening. I had three MC last year so Im here if you need a virtual hand to hold. Be kind to yourself. Xxx

MrsL22 · 11/01/2023 19:46

@ElleBelleLou I’m so so sorry. I know how hard this must be and how sad you must feel.

I also know there is absolutely nothing anyone can say to make it easier. But we are all here for you and will be for however many months it takes 💕

Wonkyjelly · 11/01/2023 18:38

@ElleBelleLou I’m so so sorry. Sending you so much love ✨❤️

monsteramunch · 11/01/2023 18:35

Oh @ElleBelleLou I am just so very sorry 😞

Really hope you have people to lean on in real life but we are here for you too of course.

Sorry Flowers

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ElleBelleLou · 11/01/2023 18:29

Also I forgot to add - thank you for the support you have all shown me 🤍

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ElleBelleLou · 11/01/2023 18:29

Hi everyone, another update from me

Unfortunately I started miscarrying yesterday, and after a very very rough day I believe I have passed the pregnancy now.

I'm sorry it's not a more positive update from me - but I am sending love and babydust to every single person on this thread xx

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Tartanhaggis · 11/01/2023 11:46

Wonkyjelly · 10/01/2023 18:20

@Tartanhaggis any news lovely? Hope you’re doing ok xx

@ElleBelleLou thanks for the update, definitely sounds like you’re still pregnant. I am keeping everything crossed for you, I’ve had one loss and I totally empathise with you for the fear and worry you’re facing. Hope you’re doing ok xx

@Wonkyjelly I did a clearblue normal test and there was no blue line. If my period doesn't turn up il do another frer when two days late x

@ElleBelleLou I'm not entirely sure what day I ovulated on but I think I was 4 days before period due when I wrote my messages. About 11ish dpo but not 100% on that.

Anyway iv had a negative test which was yesterday so I think I'm out ...although i am still holding on to a tiny bit of hope 🤞 we've been TTC for 12 months thinking of waiting another 6 months then heading to docs. We have had two early losses I am almost 38 though so I didn't expect an easy journey this time x

Hope everyone is well ❤️‍🩹

Wonkyjelly · 10/01/2023 18:20

@Tartanhaggis any news lovely? Hope you’re doing ok xx

@ElleBelleLou thanks for the update, definitely sounds like you’re still pregnant. I am keeping everything crossed for you, I’ve had one loss and I totally empathise with you for the fear and worry you’re facing. Hope you’re doing ok xx

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ElleBelleLou · 09/01/2023 14:05

Hi everyone just checking in!

How many DPO are you@Tartanhaggis - sorry if you've already said, having a stealth scroll at work so can't go too far back.

I've finally managed to get a hold of my doctor this morning to let him know I'm pregnant. Did mention my pain and bleeding but they don't seem too concerned - gave the impression that they won't bother with anything until I'm further along than 5 weeks, which is what it is.

I've been cramping heavily today, and some blood when I wipe after having a wee. Not sure what it is but it's the same that has been on and off seemingly since I found out I was pregnant.

Trying to make myself feel better by acknowledging my extreme nausea and my sore nipples etc - they must indicate something is growing.

I lost my last baby at 7 weeks, I think I will just be constantly worrying and tiptoeing around myself until I get past that point.

I hope you are all doing okay ❤

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Tartanhaggis · 09/01/2023 09:19

This morning's frer. A little more noticeable than yesterday but still vvvv faint . Dunno what to think of these but I'm going with negative for now

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Tartanhaggis · 08/01/2023 17:22

Wonkyjelly · 08/01/2023 16:56

@Tartanhaggis I think I can see a shadow, but not much colour in the line. Hopefully a test tomorrow will be clearer for you and be a BFP🤞🏼x

Yeh that's what I see too. Thanks for replying. Il do another in the morning x

Wonkyjelly · 08/01/2023 16:56

@Tartanhaggis I think I can see a shadow, but not much colour in the line. Hopefully a test tomorrow will be clearer for you and be a BFP🤞🏼x

Wonkyjelly · 08/01/2023 16:54

@Mammma91 i have everything crossed for you because that looks like a BFP! Clear blue have never been that great for me, have you got and FRER? X

Tartanhaggis · 08/01/2023 14:35

Hi everyone I got A very faint line on a first response which came up straight away can anyone see it. Would these show a faint line like this regardless. I don't think I had a faint line when Iv done one before . I had spotting 4 days ago. 4 days left till AF is due . Not sure when I ovulated x

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monsteramunch · 08/01/2023 13:48

15DPO today and AF due today / tomorrow.

Little recap of my symptoms at the moment...

Cracking headache, super sore boobs (much more than I usually get before AF) and for the first time very sensitive nipples.

Also still more CM than usual for this time in my cycle, but not as much as the last few days when it was WAY more than usual.

BAD insomnia the last two nights. About four hours each night argh.

Also much less mood swing-y than usual for this time of my cycle, but annoyingly I've fallen on the sad side of those mood swings so feeling pretty down.

Keep going down the rabbit hole of googling statistics and treatments and freaking myself out as we've been TTC for a year now and I'm so worried it's not happened yet.

I've stuck to my pledge not to test until AF is late so I won't be doing it until Tuesday. And maybe even longer. I've found it really good mental health wise to make that pledge to myself as otherwise I end up testing daily from about 9DPO and feel miserable for the whole week.

Really, really hoping we might be in with a shot this month. We timed everything really well (almost every day in fertile window) so we couldn't have done more!

monsteramunch · 08/01/2023 13:47

Mammma91 · 08/01/2023 13:33

yesterday at the top, this morning at the bottom. Clear blue digital says not pregnant but I am 3 days late now.

Ooh these look really promising!! Got everything crossed for you Flowers

Mammma91 · 08/01/2023 13:33

yesterday at the top, this morning at the bottom. Clear blue digital says not pregnant but I am 3 days late now.

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Mammma91 · 08/01/2023 13:31

Morning all. So sorry to those of you who have had the arrival of AF 💙

I took a test this morning and it’s a faint positive. It’s just an internet cheap one, I only have a clear blue digital left.

We’ve had 1 chemical and 2 misscarriges in the past year so trying not to get get my hopes up yet 🤞.

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