Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

@FfayeN hey ❤. Yes, we are! When I was TTC and someone would share their positive test news on the thread, it would always give me hope. Same now, for some reason it gives me hope when there are other people with similar stages.
Feeling a bit negative today thinking of all the possible bad outcomes, I know it's not helpful and I need to stop! Definitely developed anxiety with the whole TTC business. Still planning to go ahead with the early scan but will see how I fcloser to the scan, might ask for the scan to be pushed back another week if EPU allows...
How are you?? How are you feeling about your trip away?

@mummatara Happy birthday! I hope all your dreams come true! x

@MrsCristianoX @FfayeN yea I know I should leave it until Thursday there is just this horrible compulsive need to do it for some reason. I don't feel stressed about it I just can't help myself I know there's nothing I can do to change when I ovulate etc it will happen when it happens but it's like I want to know the day it happens for some weird reason 😂

@Indianna2006 thanks lovely 😂 that's hilarious and totally something I would do 🙊 the things we resort to 🤣

@mummatara happy birthday lovely. Cocktails and wine atm sound blissful. Ive resorted to sniffing DHs cider cans 😂😂 bad times.

@FfayeN this is a trial month..no doubt I'll be back to them in December 🙄 DH seems pretty up for it atm 🙌 his work trip has been put back to January, honestly you can tell a man is organising this..too much 'faffing'!! Not that I'm complaining

@FfayeN DH doesn't know I'm using this😂 It was well stuck this morning I had visions of me yelling at him to get it out..I mean it's on my bedside table he just hasn't noticed 🙄

@mummatara it's weird the middle one looks nearly blank. It's so frustrating waiting for it to leave but I feel in one week it should have dropped significantly 💕

@FfayeN only CD11 but I'm just trying to DTD every couple of days. I have trust issues with OPKs 😂

These are the tests they really are all over the place 🙄 I've just done another and it's come up with a very clear line straight away it's been about a minute 🤦🏼‍♀️ I'm destined to forever have hcg in my system it seems 😂 I've tested everyday since Thurs I honestly can't help myself it feels like it will never leave even though it really wasn't that high 2 weeks ago 🙄

@TheBirdintheCave @MrsCristianoX @FfayeN thanks ladies....for the record I'm never drinking again 🤣🤣🤣 well it's still very up and down one I took yesterday morning was a proper line though did take a good 5 mins to develop. I'll send you the ones I've take since I started bleeding a bit later

@FfayeN still here 👍🏼 pulled it out at 7 this morning but it was well stuck in. I panicked for a bit but it came out no bother.

@mummatara wine rocks though 🤪 hope you had a lovely day xx

@mummatara aww happy birthday 🥳
Cocktails are over rated and expensive..no loss 😅 is it still faintish?

@TheBirdintheCave im in the exact same position as you😂 Think I might leave it in all night. If you don't see me message tomorrow I'm dead either through too much suction and I've pulled my insides out or toxic shock. Wish me luck 😂 I'm just going by EWCM this month bloody fed up with those sticks

@mummatara Happy birthday! :D

The toddler managed to crush my boob this morning when he wanted a hug in bed. They're currently sore anyway so that really did not help matters 😂 Feels like he burst a cyst or something 😨

Currently lying in bed waiting to take the Ferti-lily out before we go to sleep 😴 Temps are still normal but EWCM has come and gone. Not sure if O has actually happened or not 🤷🏻‍♀️

@MrsCristianoX I'm all good thanks for asking ❤️ it's my birthday today. We've drunk allllllll the wine 😂 had a awesome dinner and been to a cocktail bar which was very disappointing 🙄 they were understaffed so we had 3 drinks in the space of 2 hours 🙄 DH has passed out on me and is now snoring his head off after i informed him we couldn't have any bedroom fun until next week 😂 I poas this morning still positive but no shocker there im hoping since it was low maybe mid to end of next week 🤞🏼

@mummatara how are you keeping lovely? Xx

@bunnykins123 @Indianna2006 it was my first time using and i didn't read how to twist the umbrella bit back up so I started watching the video with my hand in trying to flip it. Ffs totally missed the easy bit. The video was like 'don't forget to orgasm' I'm like really? This current situation is NOT ORGASM INDUCING. I'm not doing OPKs this month. For some reason they freak DH out😂

@Indianna2006 gotcha that's really helpful. I was a bit worried that maybe I was pushing it too far up, but it sounds like I've cracked it which is reassuring. Still haven't figured out how to flip it, but maybe I'll try that tonight. Annoyingly, my cycle is totally off this month. It's cd15 and I'm still getting flashies with no indication that peak is on its way. Why is it that when you're ttc your cycles go haywire?!?!

@bunnykins123 yes everyone would be slightly different depending how long there vaginal canal is 🙈 but yes mine basically was all up there.
If mine was in right place and suctioned right up by my cervix. The ball at the end of the thing would basically be at the entrance of my vagina. 😂
if that’s helpful to anyone..haha.
It can go pretty deep. If you got more than half that length at the end sticking out it’s prob not nowhere near deep enough to work.
the cervix goes higher as well as ovulation so it is like RIGHT up there 😂😂

@Indianna2006 good to know about the discolouration of the fertilily! I'll probably use mine for a few more cycles. Did you find that once it was properly 'in' that pretty much the entire stringy thing was in there too? I think I was expecting a bit more left out, like a tampon so got all worried it would get lost in the void 😂 I defo think girl based on your nub pic!

@Indianna2006 thanks lovely xx I was worried but I'll defo leave it longer next time

I'm thinking girl because compared to my boys I was an absolute mess with my DD. Healthy and happy is all we can pray for, 🙏😘