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Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 21:40

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

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FfayeN · 20/11/2022 18:13

mummatara · 20/11/2022 16:59

@MrsCristianoX 😂 I love our crazy club 🙊 lol I was a little shocked how strong the frer was was def expecting a little faint one! I'll test tomorrow with the IC and it will be negative you watch now I've peed all over £20 😂

😂 this really tickled me! The things we do to TRY and stay sane 😅 xx

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MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 18:09

@calimc83 I'm not going down compare and contrast yet otherwise I'll be in the fully crazy club (there's still time for that😂) If there's nothing on a test tomorrow I'm out this month. DH was watching me last night and asked if I had lost weight. I said yea I haven't been feeling well so he asked if we were pregnant. I said no but Af due Tuesday. So I don't have to sneaky hide tests anymore 😅 actually glad he mentioned it we haven't really spoken about it since fertile week.

@mummatara I binned the test earlier and my one step dried slightly darker. Imagine if it was a new pregnancy. You two are super fertile!!! Are you gonna ring epu tomorrow? Xx

mummatara · 20/11/2022 17:33

@calimc83 it did rise ever so slightly today but not enough of a rise to signal anything there are always small fluctuations it should read more clearly like this one. They were so faint all week then Fridays you would have called negative I could just see a light shadow in certain lights and when it dried there was nothing there at all

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calimc83 · 20/11/2022 17:07

@mummatara ohhhhhhhh just posted and MN hadn't updated your latest post. Those are strong lines on the frer and the 1-2 weeks...🤔🙈..x

calimc83 · 20/11/2022 17:04

@MrsCristianoX I can defo see a line on your 2am test. Have u compared with the one u took the other day? @mummatara I haven't a clue about temping 🙈 but does it look like your temp is rising today or have I totally read your chart wrong, I think If you've been dtd since the D&C there's every chance it could be a new PG, especially if your cheapies were pretty much negative? X

mummatara · 20/11/2022 17:01

@Indianna2006 😂 haha it's our favourite thing to do

mummatara · 20/11/2022 16:59

@MrsCristianoX 😂 I love our crazy club 🙊 lol I was a little shocked how strong the frer was was def expecting a little faint one! I'll test tomorrow with the IC and it will be negative you watch now I've peed all over £20 😂

Indianna2006 · 20/11/2022 16:58

@mummatara 🙈🙈 what a bloody pickle. It’s a fair line on a frer. But with no other frer from another day with comparison hard to know. Could still be residual as frers are very sensitive but 🤔🤔 another cheapie tomo I think! Let’s analyse these lines!!

mummatara · 20/11/2022 16:56

Oh I just looked it up apparently that weeks indicator can show 1-2 with 10mil so there goes that theory 🤣 I'll just see if the cheapies get darker and ring the EPU tues/weds

MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 16:56

@mummatara 😳 holy crap..that's a strong line. It's the increasing one step that gets me too thinking new pregnancy too. Don't worry about the crazy..come join me over here 😂

mummatara · 20/11/2022 16:51

@Indianna2006 a total conundrum 🤯 I think I'll be very shocked if it is a new one don't even know if you can be pregnant without a temp rise 🤷🏼‍♀️ I suppose the temping could be off though pre mc i did it this way and it wasn't an issue I got an obvious rise. I take my temp at all different times I just make sure I've had a good block of sleep. some nights I get a fairly full night and others DS decides sleeping is optional 🙄

@MrsCristianoX oh I can still see a line on that test 😍 def hold off on the wine until you take a different one 🤞🏼

@FfayeN eurgh doesn't it just 😭 I've been really fine considering how long it's taken but honestly this morning when it was darker I was like ffs I'm so fed up of this now 😂 my cycles have been anywhere between 26-33days I would hate to even try and guess. Last D&C she took 5 weeks to arrive but I had much higher hcg then as was 12 weeks at that point and hadn't started to drop. Sorry you're feeling rubbish could be a little bit of everything catching up with you. I love greys ❤️

@pangolin84 yay for temp rise 💪🏼 those sound like promising days got everything crossed for you 🤞🏼 it's the temp rise that's really throwing me off and making me think not. Sometimes I wish I didn't have to know everything that's happening with my body 🤣

So I know you will all think I'm bonkers but I actually just thought sod it and did the frer and digital. I have absolutely just wasted about £20 🙄 but I'm sure those weeks indicators don't show up until about 50mil? Surely my blood test that was 114mil 11 days ago wouldn't have only dropped such a small amount 🤔 I know there are no answers but honestly it helps me so much that I can tell you all my crazy ❤️

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MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 16:10

@lovenaps yep took the picture and crawled back into bed. I'm like defo nothing and went to sleep. My eyesight isn't the best at 2am 😂 I've actual proper tests ordered for tomorrow ( I have an emergency FRER but am scared to do it today🙈) I will update tomorrow xx

lovenaps · 20/11/2022 15:58

@MrsCristianoX I can definitely see a faint line... and I know from experience that lines always look fainter in photos. I think it is positive?! Did it appear within the time frame?

MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 15:11

@pangolin84 I hit the same days as you this month! 12dpo I think x

MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 15:10

@pangolin84 every other day is recommended I think xx good luck this TWW ❤️ For me wine is on hold until I can brave an FRER xx

pangolin84 · 20/11/2022 15:09

@mummatara How strange… I don’t see how it could be increasing unless it’s a new pregnancy?! There can’t be any other explanation, surely.
The lack of temperature rise is very odd though 🤔

pangolin84 · 20/11/2022 15:06

Good luck for tomorrow @FfayeN ! Will be thinking of you.

@MrsCristianoX How frustrating! Looks like there’s a faint line on that 2am test though.. how many dpo are you?

Got a promising temp rise this morning, so I’m pretty sure ovulation was yesterday. If correct then we DTD on O-1, O-3 and O-5. Every other day is definitely our limit, I have discovered. Last night was an absolute no-go 😂

MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 14:55

@FfayeN enjoy your rest 💕 I slept 14 hours Friday night/Saturday morning and still woke up tired 😴

MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 14:54

@FfayeN yea I'll defo test again. I just don't know. I feel absolutely sick as a dog. I have FRER and clearblue digital ordered for tomorrow

FfayeN · 20/11/2022 14:50

@mummatara this journey just never stops throwing curve balls does it! It's frustrating to not know what's going on. When do you think AF would be due?

@MrsCristianoX oh hun, same as above, what an absolute bitch of a test!!! Are you going to test again tomorrow just incase? Do you only have IC? Would a FRER offer more clarity? Sending hugs to both of you 😘.

I feel awful these last two days. No idea if it's run down from my course, pregnancy, or a winter cold setting in...either way send me to bed with a tea and some greys anatomy 🤣 xx

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MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 14:33

@Indianna2006 cake 🤢

This is the test I took at 2am..

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Indianna2006 · 20/11/2022 13:43

@mummatara 🤔🤔 it’s deff getting darker isn’t it. What the! And considering how long it was going faint for. Deff agree with others. New pregnancy perhaps.
hmm and from your time line. Could be legit. From when you seemed to get positive opk. I know I got positive opk whilst I still had pregnancy lines faint ones. And the opks were positive for a few days for me rather than my usual 1 day. I did then get a temp rise tho. But because of the mess of hormones it was harder to see. As my temp had only really lowered since the mc. Hmm few more days might tell if they keep getting darker. What a conundrum.

@MrsCristianoX sorry lovey 😘 cup of tea and cake for you. Or wine like you said. Even better!

@FfayeN best of luck for tomo hun. It’s so anxiety provoking I know. But just try go and hope for best. I have my fingers crossed for you. 😘😘🤞🏼

mummatara · 20/11/2022 13:40

@lovenaps so hard isn't it. I have a frer in the draw and a digi weeks indicator suppose I could see how faint the line is on the frer but it probs would be wasting it 😂

I think the only thing that makes me think it's not is my lack of temp rise

mummatara · 20/11/2022 13:38

@MrsCristianoX yes after a few sips you won't remember the sickness just the glorious taste of vino 🙊 so hard isn't it those bloody IC are just so addictive because they are so cheap but they can get you in a right tailspin of is it isn't it. And we all saw the line on it 🙄

MrsCristianoX · 20/11/2022 13:29

@mummatara @lovenaps bottle of wine and a straw with my name on it today. If I can get it down still feeling a bit sickly. I'm sure I'll manage 😅 yea but I'm not sure about one steps and early testing xx