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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 21:40

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

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mummatara · 22/11/2022 21:22

@bunnykins123 nope just to come back on Thursday for another 😭 why are there no quick answers frustrated. I think if it was a lot lower than that I would be thinking it's just residual but because it's so close there's every chance it dropped and is now coming back up as a new pregnancy or it could just be dropping that last 100 sooooo slowly 🙄

bunnykins123 · 22/11/2022 21:19

@mummatara well on the one hand it's going down but on the other, it still poses questions about whether it's residual or a new pregnancy. Did they say anything on the phone?

mummatara · 22/11/2022 21:09

Ok so I really really don't know what to think the result is hcg 90. It was 114 13 days ago

mummatara · 22/11/2022 20:53

@calimc83 🤣 love it that's so random

calimc83 · 22/11/2022 20:52

@TheBirdintheCave mine asked me today if pizza was made in a cement mixer 😆🤔 x

mummatara · 22/11/2022 20:52

@TheBirdintheCave 😂 no he's not he's 2 in Feb we've got a lot of toddlering to go still 🙊 they are hilarious sometimes. He actually has started coming out with the funniest things recently

@calimc83 thanks lovely xx

TheBirdintheCave · 22/11/2022 20:44

@mummatara Or wait, is your DS older? I can't remember 😂

TheBirdintheCave · 22/11/2022 20:43

@mummatara Toddlers are so strange sometimes. Ours was lying in the bed before then suddenly started singing 'A moo moo there... a cow... e i e i o.' 😂

calimc83 · 22/11/2022 20:27

@mummatara ahh I bet! Good luck, thinking of u xx

pangolin84 · 22/11/2022 20:15

Sorry it’s late I’m only just catching up now. I’m so sorry to hear your news @FfayeN, that is really devastating 💔
Sending virtual hugs, it really is so shit. Life’s a total bitch sometimes.

mummatara · 22/11/2022 20:08

Gah the closer I get to calling the more nervous I feel 🙈

lovenaps · 22/11/2022 19:49

@FfayeN thinking of you constantly and hoping that your day today wasn't too bad ❤x

mummatara · 22/11/2022 19:22

@FfayeN I have a feeling it's going to come back about 70 right in the middle of could be either way 😂 looking at pictures of other tests online with hcg about 100 I'm not sure the line looks dark enough for a 100ish level 🤔 I'm just trying to put DS to bed and he's fake snoring I'm trying so hard not to laugh 🤣🤣🤣

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FfayeN · 22/11/2022 18:53

@mummatara hopefully that figure will even give you an indication from the number you had from your last one! Xx

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mummatara · 22/11/2022 18:03

@calimc83 they don't like to say anything really just tell you we have to wait to see what the second one is before they go forward with anything else they just say could be either

@FfayeN not really when I spoke to them on the phone she just said its possible it's a new pregnancy but also could just be lingering hcg. I told her about the tests but tbh I don't think they care what the tests say. I suppose they are just too busy to worry about what you've done at home 🤦🏼‍♀️ lol I'm with you in the common thing it's frustrating. Glad you got a nice doctor that did the bits you wanted ❤️

Didn't get the test done until 5 so need to ring about 9 and see if it's back that's basically bedtime 😂 hopefully they might answer the phone quicker though 🤔

MrsCristianoX · 22/11/2022 17:50

It would be an actual miracle 😂 ill update when the bleeding starts🙄 maybe DH is just irresistible to me in my desperate state @bunnykins123 I don't think I ovulated later but who on earth knows

@FfayeN hope you got through today ❤️ and the gynae was some help xx

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FfayeN · 22/11/2022 17:41

@mummatara did they have any suspicions?

@calimc83 @bunnykins123 I am feeling ok. I've been fairly productive, doctor I saw was brilliant and she's putting the referral through and did the swabs I asked for just incase. Less helpful though is how common everyone feels the need to tell you whilst you're going through miscarriage, almost like it's par for the course. I don't find that approach helps at all....I WANT ANSWERS (in a neurotic crazy person voice 🤣).

@MrsCristianoX I have everything crossed for you xx

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calimc83 · 22/11/2022 17:32

@FfayeN how are u feeling today lovely? @MrsCristianoX Ohhhh could it be a BFP do u think?? My tests were pretty light in the v early days. Hcg takes 48-72hrs to double doesn't it? @mummatara glad u have managed to get some blood tests, hope u get some answers soon. What did EPU think it could be? X

mummatara · 22/11/2022 16:44

@MrsCristianoX oh no how odd I'm really really hoping that's no chemical for you ❤️ nothing is ever tmi in this group 😂

bunnykins123 · 22/11/2022 16:21

@MrsCristianoX agree with @FfayeN - my cm dries up pretty much before AF 🤞 could you have O'd later?

@FfayeN totally understandable that you had a melt down. Keep me updated regarding Dr S clinic - I'm interested to know how it goes. How have you been feeling today?

@mummatara that's good that you'll get answers asap. Oh tell me about it! I had blood tests every week for a month and 1 week they even went up by a couple of points. Obvs panic mode (I knew I wasn't pregnant) but was freaking about so many scenarios. Nothing was wrong, just really slow HCG. Boo.

MrsCristianoX · 22/11/2022 16:18

@FfayeN phantom symptoms no doubt 😆🙄

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FfayeN · 22/11/2022 15:56

@MrsCristianoX all these odd things are only pointing to one thing lovely!!! I hope AF doesn't turn up and you get your BFP x

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MrsCristianoX · 22/11/2022 15:53

@mummatara and even more weird for before AF my sex drive is super high 😅 (sorry tmi) DH is like who are you 😂😂

MrsCristianoX · 22/11/2022 15:34

@mummatara you know when you know you've started..that was me yesterday morning with the ache. But nothing. I did the FRER anyway and got a super super faint line. Due today. Im thinking chemical. ? I'll test again Thursday if nothing. It's just weird for me. I do feel a lot better tbh

mummatara · 22/11/2022 14:58

@MrsCristianoX oooh really when was you due to start? Have you tested since your faint line?

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