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@FfayeN sorry just reread that lovely..I'm so sorry xx

IVF is off the table for me. I had a stroke caused by the pill years ago x

@FfayeN did you hear from hospital yet? I'm more objective when it comes to other people but I was super stressed then and couldn't separate myself. Just really wanted someone to help me but mid covid it wasn't easy.

Anyway ladies Portugal are playing my fav Cristiano ronaldo is on so I'm happy today for now 😍

@lovenaps my fault too. I know medicine and should have realised but the pregnancy really shocked me. I did ask the gp after a scan at 6 weeks and she said not to change anything until advised by a consultant. It was a tough time ngl but I got through it xx

@FfayeN I am okay, thank you ❤x It's been a few days without symptoms and I freaked out to a point where I thought it would be good to have another scan but then realised I can't have scans constantly, instead I need to find my ways to control anxiety. Will just wait until the 13 week one and hope for the best. How are you lovely? Been thinking about you lots?
@MrsCristianoX Definitely let them update your records + add the chemicals! I am so sorry to hear your first m/c was a result of negligence 😓x
@FfayeN @MrsCristianoX I know you are both speaking about NK cells and I just want to pass something on which was said to me by someone who is an obstetrician + fertility specialist. This person said that they (obs+fert specialists) do not believe in high NK cells as an issue and that there is some evidence popping up now that it can be even beneficial to have increased numbers as NK cells play very important role in pregnancy too.... I am so so so confused. I was reading lots about Dr. S clinic and people are saying that they had so many losses and then conceived successfully after treatment for NK cells. Also, there are some NHS clinics that deal with NK cells (I appreciate most don't). I mean, where is the truth?? It can't be a coincidence that people just have successful pregnancies after having medication for elevated NK cells? It seems that nobody knows the answer... The reason why I am saying this is that if either of you has high NK cells, I just don't want you thinking that your bodies are at fault 💐💐x
Having passed that info on, if I was told I had high NK cells and I could get something for it, I would definitely go for it, just to give it a chance. Where I am there is no testing + treatment for NK and the next place that does it is really far away.

@FfayeN Thankfully he's at his childminders most of the day 😅

@FfayeN I'm alright, just more of the same sore boobs and retching in the morning. I'm also finding I get a lot sleepier in the middle of the day and had to take a fifteen minute nap on the sofa after lunch on Tuesday 😂 Lines are looking good still so I might feel confident enough to actually register the pregnancy on Monday at five weeks. We shall see.

It's my little boy's second birthday today so we're off for pizza tonight 😬

@FfayeN I hope they call you today <3

@bunnykins123 Sorry AF came for you, I missed that update :(

@MrsCristianoX Definitely include the chemicals as they were still miscarriages even if they were really early on.

@MrsCristianoX deffo agree. No harm in Docters doing some basics tests to run and see where they sit 💕

@FfayeN hope you’re doing okay lovely. Any idea yet from hospital when they can fit you in?

@mummatara fingers crossed today you get an answer. And if it’s residual. That it fucks off soon

@mummatara yea I'm there tomorrow so I will do. They were very vague at the time of the 8 week miscarriage like 'this might have happened anyway' so I suppose it's still noted as no reason. Ugh. The consultant rang me when I should have been 10 weeks to recommend switching due to 'risk of prepartum haemorrhage' I was actually speechless. Took me 10 months to talk DH into trying again.

Hope you ladies are doing ok xx

@MrsCristianoX can you ring the doctors and tell them about the latest chemical so it's on your notes since it's just happened then there is a record of at least 3 whether 1 was medical negligence or not it's still a MC and they might not look too hard into the reason you had that one see you've had 3 and sign you up for tests 🤞🏼

Just had a look at the clinic in Belfast I was mentioning a few days ago. They test for Nk cells. Though my 8 week miscarriage was more medical negligence. It was an unplanned pregnancy and I was on stronger blood thinners but by the time the consultant got back to me I had already haemorrhaged 😢 so does that count as recurrent? So 8 weeks, 6 weeks and possibly 3 chemicals but the chemicals aren't on my notes. Ignore me I'm thinking out loud.

@FfayeN we do indeed we just carry on ❤️ as hard as each one is I'm not giving in we'll get there eventually xxx

@FfayeN 😂😂 they weren't paying attention to that part of class 🙊

Got home and todays line has dried and is barely there looks very similar to Saturdays line the one after the negative 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don't think I'm going to waste a frer tomorrow unless the IC line looks considerably darker. I'll get my answer in the evening but honestly after seeing that I really do think it's just residual. Guess in theory I won't have long to wait for my period about 7-10 days if it's going to be a 30 ish day cycle then can crack on again

@MrsCristianoX @bunnykins123 ahh so sorry girls ☹️. I hope u are both ok. Wine and chocolate required xx

@FfayeN ahhh makes sense now I know 💕 lol yes they don't like to think there's anything wrong with the junk male ego indeed. I don't think DH knows what any supplements I've bought him do he just takes them and doesn't question my insanity in making him take a million pills. When I told him yesterday the result and said there's a possibility it could be a new one he said do you think that's possible I was like well we danced the dance so yes 🤦🏼‍♀️😂