TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

@mummatara im hoping it’s a good body for you 🤣

@ChloeN it's so hard the waiting 😂 on one hand I'm like if it's just residual then bad body but if it's a new pregnancy then good body 😂

@mummatara as if it hadn’t been a long enough wait 😖😖 it’s just awful, all you want your body to do is reset and start again!

@ChloeN not had a scan yet hospital will see what the hcg is doing in 48 hours before they decide next steps. I think it can cause rising numbers so if it rises a small amount that could be a possibility. I haven't had any of the symptoms of RPOC it's just going to be one of those annoying waiting things unfortunately ☹️

@mummatara sorry if you’ve already said but have you been scanned to check everything come away? Could that cause rising numbers if it hadn’t? Xx

@ChloeN I'm ok just frustrated because everything to do with pregnancy just has no quick answers 🙄 I'll get my answers on Thursday at least it's not too long to wait xxx

@mummatara oh really I’m so clueless I thought 90 would be high 🤦🏻‍♀️ I think it defo looks darker, and seems weird your hcg has hardly dropped in 2 weeks? How confusing I hope you’re feeling okay!! Xxxx

@ChloeN this was the test when the level was 114 on 9th. The negative test was on 18th

@ChloeN I think the IC don't show up as strong lines until you get into several hundreds. These are my frer from Sunday to today not a massive difference but a little one.I honestly feel more confused but I'll get my answers on Thursday hopefully 🤞🏼

@mummatara isnt 90 quite a good level where you’d get a strong line on all tests?? That makes no sense!!

@bunnykins123 I might have a few I'll go see. I chucked the tests when I got the negative on Friday 🤦🏼‍♀️

@mummatara do you have pics of the tests from last week?

@ChloeN it's hard isn't it at one point after my last scan and I was in limbo for 10 days I was like I'm never having a early scan again but in all honestly I totally would. I've just got off the phone with EPU my test tonight was 90 I really don't know what to think on it it could be either way at this point but I cant see how Fridays or even Sundays test was near the 90 mark unless they were bad tests but I was getting really faint/squinter lines all last week

@mummatara id told myself I wouldn’t even test till Thursday morning lol🤣 I’m honestly not sure, I might just see how I feel over the next couple of weeks, if I do go it’d be sometime after 8 weeks but the whole thing was so awful last time I’m really put off😩
omg the difference in the top and bottom test!!😦 that surely can’t just be lingering hcg?? Let me know what your result is!! Xxx

@TrulyMiss Sorry for your loss :( Happy birthday to your toddler! My son is two on Thursday :)

@ChloeN oooh the sore boob hell 😭 ah I was going to ask I couldn't remember what dpo you were! Do you think you'll go for a early scan? So my tests have taken a bit of a unexpected turn after a negative test on Friday they started getting darker again 🤷🏼‍♀️ went to the hosp for a blood test today need to ring in about 30 mins for the result and I'm feeling nervous 🙊 even though only one blood test won't technically tell me anything it also might because I had a private blood test 13 days ago which was a hcg level of 114. These were Friday, Sunday and todays tests

@mummatara hey lovely, just on and off cramps and sore boobs and nips lol🤣 I’m 12/13dpo so still really early days! How are you, what’s your test looking like now? Xx

Hey ladies how is everyone?

@ChloeN how you feeling lovely? Any symptoms?

Thanks all, it's very useful to know roughly what to expect. We're still trying to decide what is the right next move for us - if we want to try again I have to go back on fertility drugs which are tough going for me. We also have a lovely DS who is going to turn 2 on Friday so maybe we're just meant to be a family of 3... so hard to know!

@TrulyMiss My medical management (which took several rounds) didn't clear everything out... finally after going back several times and almost 7 weeks I had a D&C (still testing very faintly positive). I ovulated the day after the D&C according to OPKs and had my period 2 weeks later.

(I get very angry thinking about this, because I had requested and was denied a D&C from the very beginning. Medical management sucks imo even when it works.)

@FfayeN there are no words ♥️ So sorry to read your update. It’s no constellation but we’re here whenever you need to vent/chat/talk etc

@TrulyMiss mine was 36 days after ♥️

@TrulyMiss mine was 26 days from when the bleeding first started xxx

@TrulyMiss sorry for your loss ❤️ mine came back 5 weeks after surgical management

@FfayeN so sorry to read your update this morning 😢 💕