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TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 19:40

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

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ChloeN · 07/11/2022 19:22

@Everythingzrosie we got a bit like that last month, never thought I’d see the day when he moaned 🤣🤣

Everythingzrosie · 07/11/2022 19:14

@ChloeN No he can’t 😂 I’m getting the feeling though that the ‘not again surely’ is going to be spoken soon enough 😂

ChloeN · 07/11/2022 18:59

@Everythingzrosie bet your DH can’t believe his luck🤣🤣

Bubblesandballoons · 07/11/2022 18:54

@Babydustmamma ooh yay. I hope your right and all the rainbows bring us luck. Would be amazing to see some bfp’s

Everythingzrosie · 07/11/2022 18:53

Just something that is bothering me. I started getting ewcm over a week ago. The past 3 days have been the fertile stuff snd had mild pains on Saturday. Died down yesterday so assumed I’d ovulated but crikey about an hour ago I’ve got the pains that feel like ovulation is happening and is so much more painful! Plus I’m very horny 😳👀dh thinks this is fabulous and can’t believe how much I want him 😂dtd this morning. The last two cycles I didn’t ovulate. Seems my body is going into overdrive this month! Cycle 3 after MMC

Bubblesandballoons · 07/11/2022 18:49

@bunnykins123 we do every other day, so this month it fell as o-4 o-2 and ovulation day, altho I had cramps on peak day in the evening, so think I may have ovulated then, so would mean one on ovulation day won’t count. How many attempts have you got in? Did you say you’ve had blood done? If so how long did the results take?
@ChickenT2b I conceived my ds from everyday in the fertile window. My dp is over 40 now, so I think every other day gives me a better chance of good sperm, plus I think I’d die of exhaustion doing it daily now 😂

Babydustmamma · 07/11/2022 18:37

@ChickenT2b @Bubblesandballoons @bunnykins123 Im due to ovulate tomorrow, so I’ll be following close behind you guys!♥️ Have been seeing bloody loads of rainbows in this mad weather at the moment so hopefully it’s a good sign for this month for us all 💪 xx

FfayeN · 07/11/2022 18:19

Well done to you all DTD and heading in to your TWWs, I have everything crossed for you all xx

@ChickenT2b I fell on a cycle where we did it twice in one day, the day after O so it can happen. You just don't know if it was the first or second attempt lol. If it accidentally happens I wouldn't stress 😆. Bless all our DHs it's one extreme to the other, mines now the opposite and gone over 5 weeks without 😬 xx

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bunnykins123 · 07/11/2022 18:12

@Bubblesandballoons @ChickenT2b hi cycle buddies! Always nice to have some buddies to obsess symptoms over 😂 how many attempts have you all managed to get in?

@ChickenT2b I really don't think there is any right or wrong. I think it's generally advised about the every other day thing, but so many people conceive from every day. You must be exhausted!! My cycle is going really wonky at the moment so last month was cd11 and this month looking like cd18 which is unheard of for me! Poor dh...😬

LovelyNanny26 · 07/11/2022 17:58

It took me 4 cycles to get pregnant again.Periods went back to normal next straightaway.

Bubblesandballoons · 07/11/2022 17:50

@bunnykins123 @Everythingzrosie @ChickenT2b i’m 2dpo so we are all very close. Nice to have some company in the tww.
I chased the blood forms up and the secretary didn’t understand why I hadn’t been sent any, so she’s got some written up today and will meet me at the hosp tomorrow so I can get them done, so thats one more thing ticked off and hopefully may give me some answers 🤞🏻

ChickenT2b · 07/11/2022 16:11

Thanks @bunnykins123 it does make sense. Hope once a day isn’t too much! Really tried this month 🙈
I am on CD 18 and believe this is peak. This is normal for me though. Do you have a 14 day LP? Guess we will be testing around the same time 🤞🏼

bunnykins123 · 07/11/2022 15:55

@ChickenT2b I'm peak day today. CD17 this month which is really late so it already feels like a bit of a slog. To answer your question, it's mainly due to sperm count. If you dtd twice in 1 day, you're not allowing sperm enough time to regenerate so sperm count is reduced. I've had quite a few consultations now with a fertility clinic / RMC clinic and all advice every other day to allow sperm to regenerate. I hope that helps!

ChloeN · 07/11/2022 15:17

@Everythingzrosie @ChickenT2b Cd12 for me so not too far behind you ladies! I seem to be getting ovulation signs a bit earlier this month which is hoepfully a good thing🤞🏻

ChickenT2b · 07/11/2022 15:10

@Everythingzrosie i know what you mean. I think more terrified of never being pregnant again at this point. Good luck to you too 🤞🏼

Everythingzrosie · 07/11/2022 14:53

@ChickenT2b yay! Good luck! I’m so scared 😂i want to be pregnant but I also don’t as it’s terrifying! MMC has really sent my mind in a spin.

ChickenT2b · 07/11/2022 14:52

@Everythingzrosie ooh we are almost aligned! Think I am ovulating today 😌

Everythingzrosie · 07/11/2022 14:49

👋Hi, back in the 2ww… 1dpo… 😂

ChickenT2b · 07/11/2022 14:49

Ladies that are pregnant..! How many cycles post mc did it take you?
I’m on cycle 6 now and feeling good about this month, ovulating today/tomorrow I reckon and lots of bd 💃🏻🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
Also, anyone have any insight as to why trying twice in one day does not improve chances? Why would that be? It’s not like there’s a maximum amount of sperm that can enter 🤔

RainbowSearching · 07/11/2022 10:16

@lovenaps Trying to “forget” about being pregnant as much as possible, in the hope I can reduce my stressing as much as possible in the lead up to the scan. Let’s see if it works though…

I hope everything is going well with you?

lovenaps · 06/11/2022 21:34

@RainbowSearching @Cindy974 I bet you the time is going so slow as well..!

Cindy974 · 06/11/2022 19:59

@RainbowSearching mines the 30th november already bricking it! Hope yours all goes okay 💕💕

RainbowSearching · 05/11/2022 21:50

@Cindy974 I’m the 22nd, what about you? Terrified already, dreading going for it!

Cindy974 · 05/11/2022 18:40

@RainbowSearching you too 🤞🏼 I hope so when is yours? X

RainbowSearching · 05/11/2022 07:03

@Cindy974 I also have a scan for when I’ll be 7 weeks, fingers crossed for good outcomes for both of us 🤞🏻

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