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TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 19:40

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

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mummatara · 17/11/2022 08:22

@bunnykins123 sadly not ☹️ he didn't emerge from his office until I had long gone to bed he had a big job to sort before Friday 🙈 I've got my promise in for tonight already this morning though 😆 this is my chart I put the surgery as CD1 I think maybe it tried to happen but hasn't it usually rises a little everyday. The last pregnancy I had a smiler rise then drop then rise but it continued to rise after that and today is about the same. these are my tests I didn't take any pictures of the strong one I had Sunday so they start from Monday. I assumed the positive tests I had before that were because of the hcg still there so didn't take any pics

TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛
TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛
TheBirdintheCave · 17/11/2022 07:51

@Mumbrava I don't think the second peak is real as you aren't meant to carry on with using those tests after you get a static smiley :/ It's impossible to ovulate twice in one cycle as well.

MrsCristianoX · 17/11/2022 07:44

@bunnykins123 actually feel pretty normal today so I hear ya!!

bunnykins123 · 17/11/2022 06:58

@Babydustmamma haha I did have that but after so much disappointment, I don't have much hope left now! Really hoping the bleeding is a good sign for you 🤞 when will you test?

@ChloeN my understanding is that if your cycles are regular, the chances of you ovulating are high. Anovulationary cycles then to be more irregular in nature. So if your cycles are fairly regular, I think you can assume you've popped out that eggy!

@mummatara I did go up but really slowly. This seems to be my norm that my temps are a bit off until 4dpo when they suddenly go woosh. Did you manage to get another sesh in last night?!

@calimc83 👋👋👋 I'm okay thanks! No updates from me really, DH having dna frag test done tomorrow then it's cracking on with IVF I guess! How's things going with you?? How's baba? X

@LuckyMoonstone aldi is the best - good choice!

@MrsCristianoX haha there is nothing wrong with symptom spotting! I've just found that in most of my bfn cycles I've had soooo many symptoms which have all lead to bfp so I refuse to entertain it anymore. Self preservation thing maybe? Itchy boobs? Well that could be if they are getting bigger 🤞 haha me too - SO MUCH RAIN 😶

LuckyMoonstone · 16/11/2022 22:34

@FfayeN been taking them a week and a half now. Not sure if I feel any different yet but it’s still very early. Oh that’s exactly the same symptoms for me! I’d love to get my skin and tiredness sorted out as well as my fertility.

Mumbrava · 16/11/2022 22:16

hello everyone. So after 10 days of high fertility….I finally saw a static smiley on the ovulation test. Day 22!

This is 10 days after my first ovulation and confused the hell out of me. I’m happy I continued testing so at least we can ttc today and tomorrow. But then im also incredibly confused as to why I had two peaks this month!

what do you ladies think?

Aprilsunnyday · 16/11/2022 21:43

MrsCristianoX · 16/11/2022 21:22

@FfayeN I'm the complete opposite of calm 😂 I have seen no rainbow's just lots of rain..🙄

you always have the best sense of humour!! It has been really rainy this week indeed☔☔☔
Rainbow after the rain let's hope. 🌈

MrsCristianoX · 16/11/2022 21:22

@FfayeN I'm the complete opposite of calm 😂 I have seen no rainbow's just lots of rain..🙄

FfayeN · 16/11/2022 21:13

@MrsCristianoX oh god, how are you staying calm 😬. I'm so looking forward to your lots tests this month, I have a good vibe about some BFPs! Seen too many rainbows for it to be a coincidence! At least, I bloody hope I'm right 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

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MrsCristianoX · 16/11/2022 20:54

@bunnykins123 I'm symptom spotting like a mad woman. I wish I had your resolve 😩 my boobs are more itchy than sore tonight. Couldn't drink the coffee or eat chocolate again. But kinda perked up after lunch . No cramping since the crampy 2 days m, a bit of backache though. 🤷‍♀️ that's all from me at 8dpo 😂

FfayeN · 16/11/2022 20:49

@LuckyMoonstone I hope the thyroxine starts to settle your cycles soon lovely. How long have you been taking the tablets now? Do you feel any different?
I had awful dry skin and fatigue and within 3 weeks started to notice a difference. You deserve to treat yourself and enjoy your advent 😘 xx

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LuckyMoonstone · 16/11/2022 20:18

@mummatara bit of an indulgence but I feel like treating myself to Aldi’s finest offerings 😆

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 19:42

@ChickenT2b I haven’t been taking it! I get really stressed about waking up within the window and being asleep for a full four hours that I end up having shit sleep and getting a bad reading 😅😂 it’s really annoying! I wasn’t like this before the mc but I guess I just really want a sense of control now so I’m trying to focus on it too much!

eaaak yeah a little too early but touching distance! Ok I’m not losing hope just yet even though it was red 😅♥️

ive just ordered some first response ones to use! Please 🌈 haha 🍀 xxx

ChickenT2b · 16/11/2022 19:34

@Babydustmamma sounds like it could be implantation bleeding… how’s your bbt?
I’ve done a cheapie today which was BFN but don’t think that means much at this stage. It was more to satisfy the need to POAS. Think I will do an FRER at 11dpo xx

mummatara · 16/11/2022 19:16

@LuckyMoonstone ah makes sense. Omg I'm so jealous a wine advent calendar yes please 🤩😂

LuckyMoonstone · 16/11/2022 18:54

@mummatara yeah this year I’ve been ovulating around day 30… it’s one of the reasons I went to the docs in the first place to try and sort out my cycles/thyroid. Well this is the first Xmas in 3 years i haven’t been preggo so I’m gonna enjoy my wine advent calendar 😋

calimc83 · 16/11/2022 18:44

@TheBirdintheCave @MrsCristianoX got everything crossed for you girls! This has to be your cycle 😘 @bunnykins123 how are u getting on lovely? X

mummatara · 16/11/2022 18:19

@ChloeN ooh that looks like a good positive result hopefully just too early for a positive PT 🤞🏼

@LuckyMoonstone your so sensible getting to enjoy all the Christmas fun 😂 do you usually ovulate that late?

@bunnykins123 oh don't worry he won't get too far 😂 I'm suggesting an early night just incase 🙊 I'll carry on testing see what happens. Would have been nice to think I'm in the TWW already though wouldn't it. The drop I had would indicate O as I usually get one on O day and that was when the OPK was peak. Did yours go up in the end I can't remember?

@Mannymoomin sorry your here lovely ❤️ I didn't get a negative test after my first MC for 6 weeks and I'm still getting very faint positives after my second MC but that was only 2 weeks ago when I had to go for surgery for retained products. I think it really depends on how high your hcg was to begin with. My EPU said to ring them if I'm still getting positive tests after 3 weeks. They then had me in for blood tests to see if hcg was rising or falling. Maybe give them a call

ChloeN · 16/11/2022 17:04

@bunnykins123 thanks lovely, I’m just happy to see a decent rise more than anything! I was worrying I hadn’t ovulated at all this month xx

Mannymoomin · 16/11/2022 16:55

Hi all, I miscarried on 23rd October at 7 weeks.
bleeding lasted 8 days and was extremely heavy.
we dtd once 13 days after mc.
i was advised to test again after 3 weeks to make sure test was negative, I’m wishing now that I tested earlier so I could compare, I’m still getting very positive tests, it’s 3 weeks 4 days now since mc and 12 days since dtd.
so too early for strong positives but then it also seems like too long for strong positives which is totally messing with my head.
so sorry to everyone that is going or has gone through the same

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 16:55

@bunnykins123 thank you lovely! I feel like I’ve got all the hope in the world but have also completely run out 😅 does anyone else get that?

It was just a tiny streak of red when I wiped - that was lunch time today and nothing since! ♥️

bunnykins123 · 16/11/2022 16:53

@Babydustmamma it could be! What did it look like? Got my fingers crossed for you!

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 16:51

@bunnykins123 @Mumbrava but with the first two pregnancies I never experienced implantation bleeding so have no idea if it’s the AF come early 😅

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 16:32

@bunnykins123 @Mumbrava I'm 7DPO Today ♥️

bunnykins123 · 16/11/2022 16:30

@Babydustmamma how many days past O are you? Sounds promising!