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TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 19:40

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

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FfayeN · 17/11/2022 19:58

@mummatara oh hun it's horrible when you're feeling so exposed to it all. That is strange! It could be you missed your peak and your temperatures are a bit off this month, the only way to know is to keep on temping. You got this 💪🏼 xx

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Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 19:41

@mummatara thank you! ♥️

there does seem to be announcements everywhere atm 😅 were there always this many (pre mc)… because it feels like there’s zillions?! 🌈♥️

ChloeN · 17/11/2022 19:33

@Babydustmamma that does sound very promising especially if the blood has stopped🤞🏻

@mummatara yes quite a few of the sensitive easy@home ones! I might try and hold off 😖

mummatara · 17/11/2022 18:32

@FfayeN yes I think a failed attempt too hopefully it might try again 🤞🏼 I had O pains on Sunday I don't normally get any symptoms cm has been fertile ish so we'll see what the next few days brings.

I have seen pregnancy announcements left right and centre the last week or so it doesn't normally bother me but it's killing me a little bit every time atm

@Babydustmamma oooh good luck 🤞🏼

@ChloeN don't touch that FR 😂 got any cheapies to waste?

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 18:09

@ChloeN completely with you! Started off this month mega positive and feeling like it really was my month… am losing hope as the days go on 😅 wish I could pop my thoughts on pause because I know getting stressed can’t help!

I had a little implantation bleeding potentially (never had it before, and it was only a tiny bit but fresh red colour so might not be) and light cramping… but tbh looking at my cycle charting I think always get light cramping around this time of the month, almost like the cogs start moving for AF 😂.

With the YouTube videos I think so too 😂 but they’re all so sure. What I’d give for that confidence! 🌈

ChloeN · 17/11/2022 17:53

@Babydustmamma surely that early they aren’t symptoms just coincidence?🤯 not really, tiny amount of cramping that’s it, first time round I had implantation bleeding so every cycle I don’t get that I feel like I’m out but I know it’s not always the same each time! I was feeling quite positive about this month but that seems to get less and less everyday🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 Have you had anything symptom wise so far? Xxx

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 17:43

@ChloeN thats a great way to look at it! ♥️ Have you had any symptoms? The first time I was pregnant I had really sore boobs immediately and nothing else. The second time I didn’t know at all, with no symptoms… so I don’t know why I drive myself crazy because I know I’m probably one of those people who don’t really get many tww symptoms 😂 the amount of YouTube videos I’ve watched of people who know from day 4 and have loads of symptoms is craaaazy

ChloeN · 17/11/2022 17:40

@Babydustmamma think sometimes it’s just good to get it out of your system rather than keep obsessing over whether you are or not! Let me know how you get on☺️xxx

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 17:35

@ChloeN the struggle is real right? Because I ovulate so late in my cycle atm, my period would usually come tomorrow… so I suppose I could wait to see if AF comes and if not do a test 😅 but I know I’ll be frantically testing first thing really haha ♥️

ChloeN · 17/11/2022 17:33

@Babydustmamma im around 9dpo tomorrow too but I’m trying so hard not to test anymore, I have a frer sitting there waiting tho lol🤣

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 17:24

@ChickenT2b ahhhhh I feel you 😂 god it’s such a grim wait isn’t it! Fingers crossed for tomorrow mornings try ♥️🌈

ChickenT2b · 17/11/2022 17:22

@Babydustmamma no not at all, I believe they are the best! It’s because if I get a BFN on a cheapie I can tell myself if it’s too early. Whereas FR are the most sensitive so it feels more real..

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 17:17

@ChickenT2b eaaak I deffo will! Why?! What’s up with first response?? Do I need a different one? 😅😂♥️

ChickenT2b · 17/11/2022 17:16

@Babydustmamma eek let us know how you get on. I’m too scared to buy FR!

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 17:14

Sorry lovelies! Just catching up with this, been a mad one today!

@ChickenT2b deffo still in with a chance 🌈
10 DPO is still early so might not be picked up yet 🍀

fingers crossed everyone! I’ll be 9DPO tomorrow so going to do a test tomorrow (first response) and am bricking it 😅 haven’t had anymore spotting since the tiny bit yesterday so far but 😅😅🍀🍀🍀

FfayeN · 17/11/2022 16:19

emhope · 17/11/2022 09:26

@Aprilsunnyday love this thought! Let’s hope lots of rainbows after all the rain 🌈 🤞🏻

So it’s my first cycle properly temping from CD1. Had peak on OPK (both clear blue and easy@home) on CD11 but putting my temps in on fertility friend it’s saying ovulation was also on this day? Bit confused now as thought ovulation was day after peak? 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm sure I've read some people have a temp dip just before, some the day of? When did you get your dip and rise? Are you putting your OPK results in to FF aswell? I guess it's not a fool proof system but a day out shouldn't make much difference to when you DTD 😊 xx

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FfayeN · 17/11/2022 16:16

@mummatara it does look like your body had tried to and just not managed the peak to trigger the release, are you having any symptoms? It's so close!!! xxx

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ChickenT2b · 17/11/2022 16:01

@MrsCristianoX yes on a femometer cheapie. Thank you 🙈 trying to keep those hopes alive xx

MrsCristianoX · 17/11/2022 15:31

@ChickenT2b on a cheapie? Defo xx

ChickenT2b · 17/11/2022 15:16

Looking for some reassurance here… BFN on a 10dpo cheapie. I’m still in right? 🙈

ChloeN · 17/11/2022 14:51

@bananamuffin99 ah good luck anyway you never know!

@LuckyMoonstone 🤣🤣 the worst timing!! My af is due the week before I was really dreading it being due Christmas Day, feel like it would put me in a shit mood if it arrives😑

In the tww and I’m ill yet again🙄 it’s every bloody cycle 😭😂

LuckyMoonstone · 17/11/2022 13:07

Just realised my next ovulation will be around Christmas Day so that will be interesting 😅 how am I going to find time to DTD!

MrsCristianoX · 17/11/2022 11:52

@emhope I felt ovulation pains on the day of my peak? But god knows when it happened. I don't temp I might start if this cycle is a no go x

bananamuffin99 · 17/11/2022 11:48

My period is 3 days late now according to my app so I've got some test coming today, I don't think I'll get a positive tbh just think my cycle is out of sync. I guess i'll find out soon enough :)

emhope · 17/11/2022 09:26

@Aprilsunnyday love this thought! Let’s hope lots of rainbows after all the rain 🌈 🤞🏻

So it’s my first cycle properly temping from CD1. Had peak on OPK (both clear blue and easy@home) on CD11 but putting my temps in on fertility friend it’s saying ovulation was also on this day? Bit confused now as thought ovulation was day after peak? 🤷🏻‍♀️

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