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TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 19:40

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

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FfayeN · 28/11/2022 12:25

TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4687017-ttc-after-miscarriage-thread-14

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TrulyMiss · 28/11/2022 12:15

@MrsC2018 you see that would be a sensible way to approach it but I feel like I need a plan 🙈 I don't doubt that if it went well id love the baby and be happy with the decision. I guess I want a magic answer and there isn't one!
Keeping all my fingers crossed for you though!!

LuckyMoonstone · 28/11/2022 12:04

@bunnykins123 I’m ok thanks lovely. I feel a bit crap but I think it’s because I’ve had a week off work so I’ve eaten rubbish all week instead of being healthy 😩 disappointed that my luteal phase is still as short as ever too so I’m just not feeling hopeful at all about future pregnancies 😞

FfayeN · 28/11/2022 12:00

@bunnykins123 thanks lovely. It's not AS low as I thought it was as the clinic I went to used a different unit of measurement. It's still not great though! I have my consultation with Brosens in two and a bit weeks so hopefully have more answers then. Though today I'm think we may give it one more go naturally, chance the odds, if that ends in MC too we'll head the IVF route.
(This plan could well and truly change by tomorrow though 🤣🤣🤣).

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Babydustmamma · 28/11/2022 11:36

@MrsC2018 thank you for the book recommendation! That line definitely looks darker to me 🎉♥️

bunnykins123 · 28/11/2022 11:19

@LuckyMoonstone 👋👋 welcome back! How are you feeling? Hope you're doing well!

@FfayeN I asked all these questions at my consultation recently at the clinic. Your best bet is to not look online as you'll find a whole range on there. Sometimes it works first time, sometimes it can take a while longer to tweak the treatment plan. I've done a lot of research on AMH as mine is low too so feel free to ask away 💕

@MrsC2018 that looks darker to me 🤞

FfayeN · 28/11/2022 11:07

@LuckyMoonstone not long to wait at all 🙌🏻 xx

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LuckyMoonstone · 28/11/2022 11:01

@FfayeN oh I can’t remember the level at all! Blood test is next week, follow Up appointment the week after.

FfayeN · 28/11/2022 10:48

@MrsC2018 thank you, you're now conceiving naturally?
@LuckyMoonstone how long until your follow up bloods? I can't remember what you said your TSH level was? They seem to always start on a low dose but once it gets going it should come down rather quickly 🤞🏼 xxx

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LuckyMoonstone · 28/11/2022 10:20

@mummatara my last doctor took it a bit more seriously but she still didn’t say ‘yes that’s definitely no good’. So I’m definitely going to bring it up again.
@FfayeN I still don’t feel much different to be honest! But I’ll try not to be impatient haha.

MrsC2018 · 28/11/2022 10:17

@FfayeN thanks, AMH is more of a player when you're having IVF I think. Even if your egg reserve is low, then as we only release one a month it doesn't particularly matter as long as your egg quality is still good then you should be able to conceive (I had secondary infertility in between my first and second children and lots of IVF)

FfayeN · 28/11/2022 10:01

@MrsC2018 it's definitely darker!! Gentle congratulations 😘.
I went into a tailspin last night about my AMH. God this journey does you in!!!
@Luna57 welcome back to CD1!!! Hoping your body has a nice juicy egg for this month ready to go 🙏🏼 xx

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MrsC2018 · 28/11/2022 09:52

@TheBirdintheCave thanks! Still should have checked but I'm glad it's ok to post 😅
@Luna57 wow, 51 days - that's impressive, hopefully you'll have a really good ovulation this time (does it work like that?!)

TheBirdintheCave · 28/11/2022 09:44

@Luna57 51 days! Wow, I'm glad you got AF!

ChloeN · 28/11/2022 09:41

@MrsC2018 yes definitely darker🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Luna57 oh you poor thing 😖 hope you’re feeling okay! X

Luna57 · 28/11/2022 09:40

Just catching up on this now, I’ve lots of pages to go through- bear with 😂

Well after a 51 day cycle which I’m 99% sure I never ovulated I am finally out of it and on cd1 woo 💁🏼‍♀️ My first proper af since June!

hope everyone is ok!

TheBirdintheCave · 28/11/2022 09:39

Of course it's ok :) In fact, we actively encourage it 😂

MrsC2018 · 28/11/2022 09:38

Sorry, hit me then that I've posted pics of pregnancy tests there without checking that it's ok on this thread 😢 have reported it

MrsC2018 · 28/11/2022 09:36

Yeah, so I'm obsessing. Very busy so could do without this, but think there's a difference between yesterday and todays tests. Can't believe that I'm sat staring at tests, I know full well that knowing today whether I'm pregnant or not will not change the outcome. But I'm daydreaming about an August baby. You'd think by now I'd have a bit more self preservation 🙄

@LuckyMoonstone vitamin C is meant to be vital for improving the luteal phase

TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛
FfayeN · 28/11/2022 09:26

@LuckyMoonstone welcome back hun. Are you feeling any better on the thyroxine? It does take a little while to settle the cycles but definitely keep mentioning it 😘 xx

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ChloeN · 28/11/2022 09:05

@MrsC2018 thats good I’m glad your busy so you’re not sat obsessing over it like I definitely would be🤦🏻‍♀️

@LuckyMoonstone hey lovely, hope you’re okay💕

mummatara · 28/11/2022 08:31

@MrsC2018 let us know how you get on this morning with testing

@LuckyMoonstone welcome back lovely 💕 I hope they listen to you this time I'm sure you said before they were a bit dismissive when you mentioned short LP 🤔 hope I've remembered that right 😅

TheBirdintheCave · 27/11/2022 22:51

@LuckyMoonstone Welcome back :D

LuckyMoonstone · 27/11/2022 22:46

I am on CD 2 now so back to TTC this month :) got my period 10 dpo which isn’t great, I’m going to bring it up again at my next docs appointment in a couple of weeks.

MrsC2018 · 27/11/2022 20:36

@mummatara that's a good idea. Hate the GAU though, feel like time goes backwards when I walk in that ward. Will see what the test looks like tomorrow and see if I can work up the courage to call them. I've gone under the specialist nurse, but she's on leave this week rather annoyingly. Have they given any indication why the level is static and what that might mean? 4 days is a long time to stay as well, surely?
@ChloeN have 4 FRERs so will do 1 a day with FMU and if there's no progression after 2 days then I know it's old hgc. It's very faint but clear to the naked eye so will either stay or get more, just got to keep myself busy, which is pretty easy - work full time and have a toddler. I'll blink and it's Wednesday!
@TrulyMiss pregnancy and babies are a tough commitment, if you're not sure then maybe see how you feel with each period? Just agree with yourself not this month until you decide yes next month. Feels like a big thing to say a big no to another but if you're just saying no to this month until you are ready it might feel better? I ALWAYS want another baby so never really had to decide myself!
@Babydustmamma I've not and not heard of it. But if you're thinking of supplements, the Zita west range are pricy but have good reviews. Also if you've not already and would be interested, read "it starts with the egg"