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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TWW starting 12th October

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anotherscroller · 12/10/2022 11:02

Anyone want to wait with me? I’m aiming to start testing at 9dpo.
cycle 9, baby 2
baby dust to all 🪄

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Hopeful1992 · 21/10/2022 10:31

@Hopefulfor4 keeping everything crossed for you, it’s still very early days and some people have no symptoms at all!

Hopefulfor4 · 21/10/2022 10:30

Ah lots of positive things happening for you all! I really hope it works out for you all! Xx I'm 8dpo and not feeling a lot at all. I had a few cramps and the odd boob twinge earlier in the week but not now. I'm guessing it's around implantation time for me but no signs for me. This is where I using feel something is different but not I don't. X

Hopeful1992 · 21/10/2022 09:48

@TulipVictory implantation can occur anywhere between about 6-12 days, some people are earlier than others do they get a positive test at 9dpo where’s some don’t test positive until at least 12! A lot of people feel implantation but some don’t notice it at all, so we have no hope in guessing really haha
i would imagine you can test a couple of days after suspected implantation

TulipVictory · 21/10/2022 09:32

@Harriet669 @Hopeful1992 I have no idea whether you have symptoms this early and whether you can actually feel implantation because the egg is so, so small 🤔 I think we tend to analyse everything little thing we wouldn't normally notice because there's that exciting possibility there 😊

Does anyone know how long after implantation (if it even was that 😬) that you can get a BFP?

Hopeful1992 · 21/10/2022 09:21

I’m 8dpo today and this morning got woken up to sharp little stabbing pains in my left side of my groin.only lasted about 5 mins Could this be implantation? I’ve heard mixed reviews of what it feels like. Also had lower back ache yesterday but that could be unrelated

Harriet669 · 21/10/2022 09:03

Either 4 or 5DPO today and I've mild cramps yesterday and today, don't know if I'm imagining it or not though 😂🙈

Harriet669 · 21/10/2022 08:25

@TulipVictory I honestly think I'd be the same! Such a big thing but I bet you'll be over the moon if you see that BFP 🤍

TulipVictory · 21/10/2022 08:22

I've got everything crossed for you @anotherscroller 💗🤞

I know I think I'm a terrible decision maker, I'm always torn and then I'm like what have I done, even in this situation, I'm terrible.

Harriet669 · 21/10/2022 08:20

I have heard it's the months you don't don't think your pregnant too so 🤞🏼

Harriet669 · 21/10/2022 08:19

@santastolemycat
I would take a test with me, I had this a few months ago, If was positive I would have been over the moon and happy not to drink, but was negative, I was glad I could confidently drink some 🍷 though and I definitely did to make up for it 😂

Hopeful1992 · 21/10/2022 07:57

@anotherscroller ah good luck!!! I really hope it’s a BFP for you
So many of my friends were convinced they were pregnant each month and thought they had symptoms and then the one month they didn’t they got a BFP so I really wouldn’t worry to much about no implantation signs ✨🤞🏽
8dpo for me today but I’m going to try and hold out until at least 11/12 before I test

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anotherscroller · 21/10/2022 07:53

@santastolemycat i would also take a test with me if I were you

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anotherscroller · 21/10/2022 07:52

I’m testing tomorrow… but I haven’t had any implantation signs and I’m really not confident. It will be DPO12. On previous cycles I tested from DPO8 but now I’ve learnt my lesson!
@TulipVictory that sounds really good, I would put my money on you being pregnant 🤞
i know what you mean though, when I think about giving birth again and then those 18 months of getting up in the night… no thanks! But also want it so much

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Hopeful1992 · 20/10/2022 23:12

@santastolemycat i would personally take a test with you, because you will want to know either way wether you can enjoy the all inclusive. If it is positive you will have to try and be sneaky with your drinks and pretend it’s alcohol 😂 fingers crossed for you and have a good holiday!

santastolemycat · 20/10/2022 22:45

Obviously I know I’m getting ahead
of myself and I have had absolutely 0 symptoms so far but you just never know

santastolemycat · 20/10/2022 22:43

Ladies I am torn!

I am due to go on holiday on Saturday for a week I’ll be 8dpo. If my period is late while I am away it’ll drive my crazy not knowing but also if I take a test out there and it’s positive then it’ll be very hard to explain why I suddenly can’t enjoy the all inclusive.
What would you all do in my situation!?

Obsessedx · 20/10/2022 20:03

@TulipVictory not until Monday - there is still some hope 🤞🏽😂

TulipVictory · 20/10/2022 17:35

@Obsessedx may just be too early, when is AF due? Xx

Obsessedx · 20/10/2022 16:22

@EF101 sorry to see you got a BFN.. I took another test today and it was a BFN currently 11DPO, is there still a chance 😩😂 losing hope this cycle

Hopefulfor4 · 20/10/2022 14:32

EF101 · 20/10/2022 14:27

I'm 9dpo and caved and used my FRER but BFN 😫also got awful cystitis that lasted 2 hours last night now gone. Is that a symptom??!

@EF101 it may just be too soon. I got my bFp but was pale 12dpo. Not sure on the cystitis. X

EF101 · 20/10/2022 14:27

I'm 9dpo and caved and used my FRER but BFN 😫also got awful cystitis that lasted 2 hours last night now gone. Is that a symptom??!

ChloeN · 20/10/2022 10:41

@TulipVictory keep us updated 🤞🏻

TulipVictory · 20/10/2022 09:58

Thanks @Hopefulfor4 and @ChloeN 😊😊 nothing else to report, Af due around 26/10

Hopefulfor4 · 19/10/2022 22:12

TulipVictory · 19/10/2022 22:02

@Hopefulfor4 I don't know why I feel like this all of a sudden 🙈 it's a bit of a what am I doing moment, pregnancy is such a strain on the body I all of a sudden feel anxious 🙈

@ChloeN wow thanks, it was only the tiniest of blobs though but would never normally get anything like that

@TulipVictory
I remember feeling that way with my youngest. A bit like, crap have I done the right thing!? But it soon passed and I was head over heals with it all xx

Also when I had a little implantation blob it was teeny and most probably wouldn't have noticed it x

ChloeN · 19/10/2022 22:08

@TulipVictory mine was literally on one wipe that is all!! I never had it before either so I really hoped it was something, I’m crossing my fingers it is for you as well xxx