Hoping for a BFP October/November

@Bananatoast123 im feeling like it won’t ever happen. 14 cycles in and I feel like it won’t happen for me

Does anyone else spiral and worry it’ll never happen for them during their TWW or is that just me 😅? 6dpo and I’m hating the lack of control / having to let nature take control. Is there anything anyone does to help their mind / de-stress?

@Krisnov2020 Just outside Ayr 😊

@Purple29 oh gosh, that is early! Was everything okay?

@Purple29 @BCxx I'm also Scotland. Where are you guys?

@Purple29 I would only avoid March in case he/she came a few weeks early 🙈 but as you say more and more people are deferring now so it really doesn’t matter

@BCxx not bothered about being young at school so much, I have a July baby and that’s fine for me. How many months have you been ttc? This is cycle 14 for me 😭

@Mummyme87 I’m in Scotland too so the month(s) to avoid are February/March for a young child in their year so I feel like that rules out about 4 months from Christmas onwards and I can’t put it on hold that long 🙈 just need to hope this is the month!

@BCxx yes also keen to avoid late December and January babies. Would avoid Christmas and already have mid January child (plus myself). But when you’ve been ttc for so long it stops mattering

@Mummyme87 yes I think I would be less bothered this time about people knowing early. It’s hard knowing you’re on a bit of a time limit! Suppose you’d only need to take a couple of months off to avoid it but it feels like a lifetime when you’re trying. When we started in august I just said I hoped it wasn’t due as late as Christmas next year as we have December and January birthday’s and would rather avoid it if possible! but I feel like I’ve only got a few tries left even to avoid that 🙈

@Bananatoast123 that’s exactly what we did with #1, I would be 2 weeks further on this time though so wouldn’t feel so ‘eek’ 😬 I just don’t know what I’ll do if this isn’t the month, if it was next month I think I’d only be 5 weeks or something by Christmas so really wouldn’t want to be telling anyone then 🙈

@BCxx I think we’d go for an early private scan just before Xmas if we were successful this month so we could tell family. But I’d be very like “with caution”. We don’t really see them often though so I think it would be the best opportunity to tell in person!

9dpo boobs still tender if I poke them. Cm continues to be white and mucousy. I was going to test this morning as thought I had a CB, I don’t! So can’t test. Not a bad thing though.

I probably only have one more cycle, maybe 2 at a push, I think to try before a short break as my sister is getting married in Rhodes next October so obviously a time I won’t be able to travel, after 36wks and up to 2wks after birth. I don’t mind people knowing I’m pregnant pre 12weeks. Really doesn’t bother me, I would rather people knew so if something went wrong I could be supported rather than it be a big secret. From a work perspective everyone finds out really quickly being in maternity, and my friends I would tell fairly early also.

If this isn’t your month, will you try in December? I would be testing mid December and just thinking of all the dinners and nights out I would have to try and make excuses up at as to why I’m not drinking 🙈 I would only be 9 weeks by Christmas even from this month and was thinking would I just tell my friend’s if I’ve had an early scan. We’re at the age where anyone not drinking raises huge suspicion! I don’t know if I could hold off for a month to try again at the end of December though 🤦🏼‍♀️

I also had my ovulation bleeding a couple of days prior to ovulation

@Mummyme87 thank you so much as well I think so too that the best explanation as today is meant to be my most fertile day, I tested in the morning and it was negative I will test again tomorrow morning and afternoon

I wasn’t aware of ovulation bleeding I have just researched and I have never had it. This is my first time having ovulation bleeding I have had pain before but not the bleeding

tba

@Daisy155 like ovulation bleeding. I had it this cycle. Also you’re very fresh postnatal still so periods may not have settled completely yet

@BCxx yeah been doing twice a day since CD8 but nothing yet! I'm in agony tonight with it :(

@Purple29 thank you so much that’s what I thought as well it’s too early, Today on the app is supposed to be my most fertile day, my periods are currently very irregular.

I will continue testing ovulation, I don’t know why I am spotting, I thought could it be AF again.

I had a c section 4 months ago and I don’t think that’s the reason neither I am not in any pain. I will continue monitoring. Thank you so much for answering xx

Hi ladies so so sorry to jump in I have been really quiet because I had started ttcing after AF.

I am panicking because I have been going to the gym and today I have just seen I am spotting brown, I have just finished my period almost 2 weeks ago.

I was lifting heavy weights today :( 40kgs and stayed for an extra half hour, what if this is implantation?

Could this impact or complicate anything? 😔I am so nervous now. Or could it be AF back just after 2 weeks has that ever happened to anyone?

@Krisnov2020 how long is your cycle usually? Definitely possible but would have thought opks would have risen, if you’re already ovulating now they could have peaked yesterday though, did you test yesterday?