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Hoping for a BFP October/November

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Purple29 · 11/10/2022 20:12

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

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My2boysaremyworld · 09/11/2022 16:21

@Purple29 thank you xx

Knov20 · 09/11/2022 15:13

@Bluelightbaby aw lovely. Do you visit often? I love Scone that's not far from me!

Emz30 · 09/11/2022 14:16

11DPO and a BFN thismorning.. I know some don’t get a bfp until a few days after but I can already feel the cramps starting 😭 Never did I think this would be so hard.. this is our 6th month but I think one more month and I will have to give up on the idea of having a second 😭

Bluelightbaby · 09/11/2022 13:44

@Knov20 my partners parents are near scone in Perthshire - lovely area, we visit every other month :)

buttercupbee · 09/11/2022 09:01

@Bluelightbaby sorry AF has arrived x

@Salpforyou so sorry for your loss. So true what you said though, I really needed to read that so thank you x

Bananatoast123 · 09/11/2022 07:50

@Mummyme87 I know we all want to be hopeful for each other!! But if you remember regardless of your LP length, your baby would only be 3 weeks and 3/4 days so still early!

I’m hoping it’s that or just a tiny fluctuation but we won’t know until tomorrow! I had less sleep last night so I know that can also impact so I shouldn’t overthink the odd reading! Sending off my progesterone blood test today which will confirm I did actually ovulate and I’m making enough hormone! Fingers crossed 🤞🏼 I’m not sure I have another cycle in me!!

Purple29 · 09/11/2022 07:43

*didn't remember

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Purple29 · 09/11/2022 07:34

@Salpforyou what a lovely message!!! I kind of needed to hear that, sure a lot of others did too!!! @My2boysaremyworld I'm so sorry, its a hard day, my DH did remember but be kind to yourself. Big hugs.

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Mummyme87 · 09/11/2022 07:25

@Bananatoast123 i know it’s early but My luteal phase is 12days so AF due Friday, so would expect a line by now. Not impossible I know but I think fairly unlikely.

7dpo, could be an implantation dip?

Bananatoast123 · 09/11/2022 07:14

@Salpforyou this was utterly lovely. I’m sorry for your loss!

@Mummyme87 ahhh 11dpo is still early. There’s been people who didn’t get a BFP until 12/13! I’m 7dpo today and my temp dropped 0.04 after continuously rising so I’m hoping this isn’t the beginning of AF coming and my temp slowly coming back down!

Mummyme87 · 09/11/2022 07:06

Think it’s a bfn. Can see a VFL but I’m going to go with an indent as it’s a FRER. I may get a clear blue but I suspect I’m out

Knov20 · 09/11/2022 06:59

@Mummyme87 got everything crossed for you x

Knov20 · 09/11/2022 06:59

@Salpforyou I'm so sorry about your loss in August. What a lovely message to send xxx

Knov20 · 09/11/2022 06:58

@Purple29 @BCxx I'm in Perthshire!

Mummyme87 · 09/11/2022 06:46

@Bluelightbaby sorry AF turned up. New cycle fresh start lovely.

11dpo and have such a sore throat. Haven’t tested yet but will do shortly. Praying to every god it’s my turn 🙏🏻

Salpforyou · 09/11/2022 03:43

Hi ladies. I've been quiet for a few months since my loss in August. I'm still on waiting But I've been quietly following the threads over the past few months and I just wanted to say... to those of you who feel let down by your bodies or feel inadequate because successful pregnancy has been a challenge... please cut yourself some slack. Life is already hard as it is and it becomes way harder when you keep facing disappointment over something you have so little control over. Your pain and sadness is valid and cannot be minimised however don't let it consume you and stop you from celebrating the phenomenal woman you are. Don't let yourself lose out on enjoying 3 weeks of every month because of stress and anxiety.

Hang in there beautifuls! You'll get to hold a little you soon. Until then.. don't let another 3 weeks pass without you doing something you truly love, without buying yourself something nice, without indulging in your favorite food and without looking yourself in the mirror and remind yourself you are a kick ass human being❣️

Bluelightbaby · 09/11/2022 02:57

Just gone through my app - as I have shorter cycles it’s not as easy as how many months ttc ….so it’s been 13cycles :(

Bluelightbaby · 09/11/2022 02:54

As expected AF has arrived…….maybe next month and a Xmas present bfp 🤞🏻

Bananatoast123 · 08/11/2022 22:46

Apparently the full moon can throw off pms / symptom spotting eurgh!! I hope this is made up as the twinges I’ve been feeling had given me hope 🤣

@Mummyme87 I hope this is a good sign! When will you test?

Mummyme87 · 08/11/2022 20:52

Fee like shit. Exhausted, so so tired, fell asleep on the sofa at 8.45 until after 10 last night. Banging head all day. Boobs still tender, had some mucus discharge on wiping today also. Hoping it’s a good sign

My2boysaremyworld · 08/11/2022 17:04

@Bananatoast123 thank you. Not done anything so far as OH is at work. Iv just msg him to say shall we pop out for one drink later, feel we need it xx

Bananatoast123 · 08/11/2022 17:01

@My2boysaremyworld I’m so sorry for your loss, I hope you’re treating yourself today and/or doing something special x

My2boysaremyworld · 08/11/2022 17:00

Today should of been my baby's due date 😢

Bananatoast123 · 08/11/2022 16:45

@Mummyme87 I can’t imagine how you feel as we are 9 cycles in and I feel this way now! Today I had to really rethink my mind and I’ve determined I need to start a manifesting journal! It’s so difficult to be hopeful when month after month AF comes. But it does happen and some of us just have to wait a little longer than others 🥰

@Giraffe2205 ahhh test again tomorrow? Tww is cruel at times!! I’ve been symptom spotting all day and I’m only 6dpo!

Giraffe2205 · 08/11/2022 16:07

I’ve been having lotiony white cm and Just had some more ewcm this seems to be a second lot of it this cycle But I thought I ovulated around 30th October. So possibly 9po is this a good sign? I did test which I know was stupid I thought I saw a Evap line but I’m hindsight think I had major line eyes as I can’t see a thing now lol the tww is a nightmare haha 😅😅

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