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Hoping for a BFP October/November

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Purple29 · 11/10/2022 20:12

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

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TulipVictory · 14/10/2022 15:43

So sorry to hear that @821k how far along were you? Please look after yourself x

xogossipgirlxo · 14/10/2022 15:31

821k · 14/10/2022 15:22

I just found out I have lost my baby 😭

@821k oh my god, I'm so sorry 😥xxx

821k · 14/10/2022 15:22

I just found out I have lost my baby 😭

Mannymoomin · 14/10/2022 14:17

@Purple29 not necessarily, we didn’t BD until 36 hours after my peak and it was the only time we dtd!

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Purple29 · 14/10/2022 14:15

Looks like I've just had a peak, ov test. DH us away until Sunday morning!!! So guessing I'm already out this month!!

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kizzy97 · 14/10/2022 14:05

Getting a fair bit of EWCM today so think ovulation is definitely coming up

Sparklythings1 · 14/10/2022 11:21

@Vikki7 I got a BFN with my little boy on 11dpo, the next morning there was one there!

Baby3herewego · 14/10/2022 11:12

Thank you @kizzy97 and @thelma57

@Vikki7 remember, some people don’t see a line till their AF date. You still have time xx

Vikki7 · 14/10/2022 09:12

11dpo and BFN. Definitely out this month, on to month 3. Good luck all those waiting 😀

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thelma57 · 14/10/2022 08:55

Congratulations @Baby3herewego and @Mannymoomin ❤️✨ and all the other BFPs so far!

I’m CD10 today so stepping up my OPK game and going to start jumping DH 😅 Does anyone else struggle with being in the mood as soon as it’s time?!

kizzy97 · 14/10/2022 08:36

Huge congratulations @Baby3herewego and @Mannymoomin happy and healthy 9 months to you both ❤

I'm panicking CD15 today, if I didn't ovulate yesterday I could any day now, last managed to BD CD11. I'm hoping I'll manage to tonight but I don't feel hopeful of my chances now for some reason

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Purple29 · 14/10/2022 08:07

Baby3herewego · 13/10/2022 20:36

@Purple29 Thanks so much. 10dpo today. Took the test at 6:15pm with a 4 hour wee hold. Xxxx

Wow that's a really good line then!!

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Mummyme87 · 14/10/2022 08:00

@Ncl31 we are cycle 13 aswell. Glad you have an appt in place to roll into if you still need it by then.

@Baby3herewego I’m getting indent vibes as a massive protective mechanism, but I’ll do a hold and get some clear blue early detection today as I feel that will confirm it either way

Baby3herewego · 14/10/2022 07:37

@Mummyme87 thank you! I do see a very faint line on your test.

@Vikki7 this was our 4th cycle. 1st and 2nd cycle I have back to back CP’s then a normal period cycle and now this one.

@Mannymoomin yey!!!! Congratulations.

Ncl31 · 14/10/2022 07:24

It is, I thought I’d get used to it. This is cycle 13 now.
We have our first fertility appointment on 17th November so hopefully we will get somewhere with that 🤞🏻
@Mummyme87 keep us posted. Fingers crossed for you.

Mummyme87 · 14/10/2022 07:21

@Ncl31 sorry for the bfn. It’s so heartbreaking.

I did another frer from a different pack and got the same weird ?indent line. Definitely prominent. I’ll go to boots this morning and get a clear blue maybe

Ncl31 · 14/10/2022 06:59

Another BFN for us today. 11dpo.
I’ve lost all hope now. Will wait and see if AF arrives next week

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Mummyme87 · 14/10/2022 06:50

So 10dpo, I’ve done a frer. I’m I could see the faintest of indent lines on the test before I even did it. I’ve tested and within 3mins a line has come up, it’s faint but darker than the indent I saw. I’m not convinced by it, it’s darker than any indent I’ve seen before but not sure it has colour. I hate frer for this. If I knew no better about frer I would say it’s A BFP but knowing what I know I doubt it. The photo is a bit blurry

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shibeshibe · 14/10/2022 05:01

Hi ladies, jumping in to join you! First cycle TTC and 2DPO.

Feeling impatient already but got a long wait ahead of me - fingers crossed 🤞 xx

Daisy155 · 13/10/2022 22:49

Aww 🥰 today is such a good day congratulations @Mannymoomin Xx

Vikki7 · 13/10/2022 22:20

@Mummyme87 I just looked up inconsistent luteal phases and it seems to be quite common, mine vary from 12-14ish which seems to be normal :-) a day or 2 either side is not considered a problem. I became very worried there before I looked it up!

Mannymoomin · 13/10/2022 22:12

Anyway, my test is obviously a die stealer so I don’t need to test anymore.
I have 3 FRER left and I think a clearblue digital if anyone would like them I would be happy to post them on

Mannymoomin · 13/10/2022 22:07

@TulipVictory yes definitely pregnant from last month. Can’t be from this month as we only dtd 3 days ago.
and the only time we dtd before that was last month.
The period was obviously implantation but it went on for nearly a week that’s why I thought it was period. And then obviously first time using period pants I couldn’t actually see what my flow was like, my last pregnancies were a long time ago but I remember having brown discharge throughout all of them pregnancies

Vikki7 · 13/10/2022 22:05

@Baby3herewego massive congratulations, I'm genuinely so happy for you! Wishing you a H&H9 months. How long were you TTC?

@Mummyme87 I did not know that.. according to FF I've had different luteal phases over the past 2 years. I've got so many apps and not one of them identified a luteal phase problem but then again, I've only been using OPK's and CBDOPK before this month. I only started temping for a month so haven't been able to confirm O.

@Mannymoomin congratulations on your BFP! What a wonderful wait to start the new thread! I wish you a very happy and healthy 9 months!

This is looking very hopeful for the rest of us!

TulipVictory · 13/10/2022 22:02

@Mannymoomin so do you think you are pregnant from last month even though you and a period? Congratulations 🎉