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Hoping for a BFP October/November

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Purple29 · 11/10/2022 20:12

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

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ispyduck · 15/10/2022 20:47

😄😄😄

Hoping for a BFP October/November
kizzy97 · 15/10/2022 19:13

@Baby3herewego lovely lines! Best of luck to you! Xx

Baby3herewego · 15/10/2022 18:57

Planning on taking another on Monday when I’ll be 14dpo so I hope that one is even stronger still. Xxx

Daisy155 · 15/10/2022 18:55

Thank you so much @Purple29 for your kind words means a lot ❤️

Daisy155 · 15/10/2022 18:52

@Baby3herewego that’s beautiful the line 😍looks even stronger! 🥰

Thank you all for your kind words @Sparklythings1 means a lot and thank you @ScaredSally for explaining and yes I understand feels like back at square one! Good luck to you as well! Wishing our hormones get in place!

ElleBelleLou · 15/10/2022 17:41

Hi all, done my sulking that my last cycle wasn't the cycle so I'm back again - TTC baby #1 after a loss in March. Good luck to all

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 15/10/2022 17:17

@821k sorry to hear you lost your bean x Hope you get more luck this cycle xx

821k · 15/10/2022 16:15

821k · 14/10/2022 19:13

Thank you @Daisy155 we will try again when my body has had time to recover maybe next year I will get my rainbow 🌈 baby xx

Thank you @Daisy155 we are trying again and hoping to get our rainbow 🌈 baby soon we did the deed last night x

821k · 15/10/2022 16:13

We are trying again and hoping to get our rainbow 🌈 baby soon we did the deed last night 🤞🙏x

Sparklythings1 · 15/10/2022 15:40

@CheeryCupcake I got that cramping feeling from 5dpo last time, then a kind of heavy feeling on my cervix. It’s almost like when you get a smear test, that sort of pressure feeling. I think you’re definitely too early though, I’m going to test at 10dpo. I know people occasionally get a positive the day before though so just hoping I’m not tempted

CheeryCupcake · 15/10/2022 15:40

Yesterday and today my hormones are just all over the place - cried all afternoon for absolutely no reason at all!

CheeryCupcake · 15/10/2022 15:37

Don't know what to think - I'm 7/8 dpo, been nauseous with mild abdominal cramping for 3 days now, also the odd slightly dizzy spell and really tired a lot of the time, but BFN yesterday. Probably still a bit early, I know. AF not due for another 4 days so I guess we'll see. I think I'll test again in a couple of days.

Sparklythings1 · 15/10/2022 15:11

@Baby3herewego jeez that’s terrifying. That must have been so scary 😞 crazy that you got pregnant two months in a row as well but they say that happens when your hormones are still high don’t they. Fingers crossed it’s all plain sailing from now on 🤞🏼

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Purple29 · 15/10/2022 13:41

@ScaredSally @Daisy155 my heart breaks for anyone that has gone what you have. A loss at any stage is hard but to get so far along just seems cruel!!!

Think I'll be into November was def my peak yesterday and app say ov today, strip is lighter too. Had some cramping this afternoon so guessing ov pain. DH isn't back till tomorrow and will be 7pm earliest that we can dtd!!!

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ScaredSally · 15/10/2022 13:16

Going to test next Saturday and see though AF isn't due until the Wednesday after 😬

Baby3herewego · 15/10/2022 13:04

@ScaredSally it’ll be test time for you in no time.

Baby3herewego · 15/10/2022 13:01

@Sunbird24 oooo keep me posted with what you decide to do. I mean, they won’t know if you buy tests and do it sooner will they xxx

Sunbird24 · 15/10/2022 12:50

@Baby3herewego the clinic have given me a test date 15 days after transfer, but AF is due 4 days before that, and the earliest I’ve tested is 5 days as I was suddenly able to smell myself and went right off tea & coffee (was obviously positive!😂)

ScaredSally · 15/10/2022 12:43

@Baby3herewego wow congratulations! 10dpo is a great time to get a positive! I'm 5dpo now so still a long way to go!

Baby3herewego · 15/10/2022 12:28

@Sunbird24 thank you!!! How long after transfer can you test? Is it any different?

Baby3herewego · 15/10/2022 12:27

@Sparklythings1 this was the 4th cycle. The first two I got pregnant both times but they bother ended as CP’s. Then I had a normal period month and now here we are.

With my CP’s I got one positive on 9dpo and one on 7 or 8. So when I started bleeding with them both and my tests went negative I knew. The first I lost a large ( egg sized ) lump but I was too scared to take it out of the toilet and look at it. The second was much more like a normal period, just very clotty. I didn’t have cramps with either of them.

Sparklythings1 · 15/10/2022 12:20

@Baby3herewego also out of interest, when you had CP how long was it before you noticed? I don’t want to test too soon but the temptation will be too much for me 🙄

Sparklythings1 · 15/10/2022 12:19

@Baby3herewego wow congratulations! You’ve probably already said but what cycle was this for you?

I’m on cycle 2, will be 10dpo next Saturday so going to test then. I’ve got a day out next Saturday afternoon though 😬🥂 So I really don’t know what I’m going to do if it’s positive, don’t want to give it away the first day I’m pregnant 😂

Sunbird24 · 15/10/2022 12:17

Congratulations @Baby3herewego, lovely line progression!

Im not even 48hrs post transfer yet and already having to quash the urge to POAS! 🤦‍♀️

Sparklythings1 · 15/10/2022 12:16

@ScaredSally @Daisy155 this is so sad, you are both so strong for keeping going and trying again after something so awful ☹️ I always thought after 30ish weeks you were basically in the ‘safe’ territory but it just shows you 😢

@821k so sorry for your loss 😞 that’s devastating