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Hoping for a BFP October/November

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Purple29 · 11/10/2022 20:12

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

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Sparklythings1 · 17/10/2022 19:08

Gutting for those just at the start of AF again, I think it wouldn’t be so bad if you could fast forward that first week and just get back into the testing and trying again, it’s just the being back to square one thing not being able to do anything that really bugged me last month 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Baby3herewego lines look good! 🥰 are you feeling any different?

Baby3herewego · 17/10/2022 18:26

14dpo now and still looking good. I have one more FRER and one more Clearblue digital that I will do on Wednesday and fingers crossed it will then say 2-3 weeks.

Hoping for a BFP October/November
Daisy155 · 17/10/2022 18:26

Thank you so much @ScaredSally yes definitely we have have to try to boost our fertility and for me as well it’s my immune system!

Also once I receive the bloods, especially my thyroid needs to be in control I will adjust it again but throwing the kitchen sink this month! Wishing you as well the very best and I am hoping for us both to get that BFP especially after everything!

We got this Xx

ScaredSally · 17/10/2022 17:49

@Daisy155 ohh hoping that works for you! I'm attempting a healthier lifestlye to try and boost my fertility, just more veg and gentle exercise but trying not to got over board as I know that can make it worse
heres hoping it works for us both!

Daisy155 · 17/10/2022 16:56

sorry to everyone who has received a BFN @Bluelightbaby @Mummyme87 and good luck @Ncl31 for November and @TryTheNight
❤️

AF is done today and I have made a decision to try out everything at this point so I am going to the gym every other day and a form of simple exercise. I have bought some B12, apple cider vinegar all organic vegetables to juice and eat for this TTC as well, and I started just a week before AF started and I can see one of my fibroids are not hurting anymore, the bloating is gone, I have more energy.

I am also trying to detoxify my body as much as I can and getting my hormones in order by trying a semi alkaline diet, I have cut out processed sugar all together especially chocolate. I did this before and that’s how I conceived Oscar and had a healthy full term pregnancy so fingers crossed this works again!

My DH is also eating healthy and going to the gym so hopefully this works and I have bloods in 6 weeks so let’s see how it goes! I am very hopeful as I want to conceive again naturally before fertility appointment in December! Xx

kizzy97 · 17/10/2022 14:48

@821k everything crossed for you xx

821k · 17/10/2022 09:50

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 16/10/2022 19:43

@821k Hope you get your rainbow baby xx

Thank you @BellaTheDarkOverlord I hope so too 🤞x

thelma57 · 17/10/2022 09:02

Sorry to hear that @Bluelightbaby look after yourself today and stay positive ❤️

@TryTheNight good for you! I feel like I’ve gone the opposite way and am defo drinking more due to the stress of it all which makes me sad!

I’m CD13 now, no peak yet but did forget to test last night. Struggling with sex drive massively but need to make the effort!

Good luck @Ncl31 hopefully you still have time this month but if not I’ll be here in November!

Congrats to all BFPs so far ✨

Bluelightbaby · 17/10/2022 08:52

I’m out. AF has arrived an entire 7 days early !!!!! This has never ever happened to me before :( assume the colposcopy has upset everything :(

Bananatoast123 · 17/10/2022 08:12

@Mummyme87 sorry AF came! I’m at cycle 8 so I bet it’s even worse at cycle 14! Hope you’re ok xx

Mummyme87 · 17/10/2022 06:51

CD1 here. AF has started, least it didn’t keep me waiting all day!
on to cycle 14

TryTheNight · 17/10/2022 06:24

Congrats to those who got a BFP! I'm still recovering from the wedding I was at over the weekend - first time I've been drunk in 2 years due to TTC. Decided to completely let loose and regroup for next month. I think I ovulated yesterday, so DTD today since I was far too exhausted to try before today (I napped all day before and after we DTD. Best wedding ever!).

Fingers crossed I get lucky, but I'm thinking I'm just going to have an off month and go again next month. Over 2 years TTC, so I really REALLY deserved a good drinking weekend.

Ncl31 · 17/10/2022 06:20

14dpo Frer BFN this morning. Looks like I’m out this month.
Willing AF to arrive now so I can draw a line and try again next month.
We have our first nhs fertility appointment in November hoping they can wave a magic wand for us.

Daisy155 · 16/10/2022 23:28

Welcome @Bananatoast123 fingers crossed for you no AF and @Bluelightbaby I hope you also get your BFP before January x

Bluelightbaby · 16/10/2022 22:58

Hey everyone :) another month passes. Not hopeful for an oct BFP. Had a colposcopy this week due to a positive smear (second year in a row) which sucked. Been referred to fertility clinic (nhs) appt in January. Praying for a BFP before that though !

good luck everyone x

Bananatoast123 · 16/10/2022 21:29

Hi 🙂 I hope I can join! TTC #1… on cycle 7! 12dpo and expecting AF to come!! Losing hope as not had a glimpse of a BFP 🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m 27 and had day 3 tests and general health tests and all healthy so putting it down to chance so far. But am getting to the point of wanting to investigate further but my OH and I have agreed to get to cycle 12

Sparklythings1 · 16/10/2022 20:14

Can’t decide whether to test on Friday at 9dpo or leave it til Saturday morning at 10dpo. The only thing swaying me for Friday even though it’s such a slim chance is that I’ve got a day out on Saturday and I feel like I need more time to prepare my lies if I need excuses or need to hide the fact I’m not drinking 🙈 Also worrying in case it’s negative and I drink and it’s positive on the Sunday

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 16/10/2022 19:43

@821k Hope you get your rainbow baby xx

kizzy97 · 16/10/2022 19:09

3 pregnancy announcements today 😭 I need this month to be it as I'm going insane!

ScaredSally · 16/10/2022 18:28

@timotam I'm going to test next Sunday morning as I'm at a party on Monday night and want to know if I can drink haha but last time I was a few days pst my AF being due before I got a positive

timotam · 16/10/2022 18:03

@ScaredSally it messes with your head doesn't it! One minute I'm thinking oh no it's definitely AF coming early and the next minute I'm Googling, convincing myself it's an early sign lol. What day will you test on? I'm going to try to leave it til the day AF is due so I have a definite answer, rather than the usual is it/is it not a faint line 😬

Littleheart5 · 16/10/2022 17:56

I’m two DPO now, we managed to dtd each of the four days before ovulation and the day itself- had been tracking with OPK. Really really hoping this is our month. Good luck to all!

821k · 16/10/2022 17:46

I have ordered pregnacare before conception vitamins and folic acid with vitamin d from boots as we are trying again for our rainbow 🌈 baby as I told my husband I want us to try again and he agreed we me I know I have only just had a miscarriage but I feel ready to try again have already done the deed on Friday night and we are going to do the deed again tonight 🤞we get our rainbow 🌈 baby soon x

Thatskindafun · 16/10/2022 17:11

Hi all hope you don’t mind me joining
AF was due 4 days ago and absolutely no sign, but also BFN on the 3 tests I’ve done over the last week. Going to test again in the morning. I’m normally like clockwork, occasionally a day either side, but I should be seeing a BFP by now if it was my month.

ScaredSally · 16/10/2022 17:07

@timotam im about 7dpo too and getting off cramps and tingles but not sure if it's just in my head