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Hoping for a BFP October/November

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Purple29 · 11/10/2022 20:12

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

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kizzy97 · 03/11/2022 11:17

@thelma57 congratulations and hope all goes well for you ❤ xx

Giraffe2205 · 03/11/2022 10:34

@thelma57 congratulations!!

@Bananatoast123 I’m too scared to start Doing the ovulation sticks as I’m worried it’ll freak me out if I know and we don’t get to dtd ha I don’t know how to manage these feelings yet as my partner is more relaxed about the whole thing where I get abit too into tracking things 😅 the ewcm seems to be slowing down so I will consider myself in the Tww fingers crossed

thelma57 · 03/11/2022 09:37

Hi everyone! I wanted to update in case anyone cares 😅 but I tested this morning at 10DPO and got a BFP (more clear in person and pink pink pink!)🥹🥹🥹

Symptoms so far are SORE boobs and some
cramping. Will test again tomorrow and hope for a darker line 🤞

Wishing everyone the best of luck!

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Saribon · 03/11/2022 06:22

BFN For me this morning. I knew I was out this month but the hope had crept in this last 24 hour ☹️ I need to buy some vitamin b6 and focus on next cycle now. On the bright side my luteal phase has gone full well 12 days so far this month and AF not here yet x

Saribon · 02/11/2022 16:48

I’m just going to test in the morning, I’ve done well to wait this long and it feels like I’m in competition with myself now. The making myself wait is causing more anxiety than necessary 😂 I either am or I’m not and it’s as simple as that xx

kizzy97 · 02/11/2022 16:41

@Mammamia23 those look good! Everything crossed for good line progression for you ❤ xx

Obviously not much to report today, having a mope and stuffing my face 😅 good luck to everyone still yet to test or have af arrive

Mammamia23 · 02/11/2022 16:38

@Saribon i felt like you yesterday. I was gassy, tender tingly boobs, TMI but when I woke up this morning I felt my period was basically squelching around ready to exit(!)

Saribon · 02/11/2022 16:37

@Mammamia23 I know love that’s what it comes down to isn’t it ! BFN or AF , I hate this ☹️

I feel like I know I’m out and I hate my stupid hope. We will see……..

let us know what the test looks like tomorrow

xx

Mammamia23 · 02/11/2022 16:32

Thank you @Saribon will try and test tomorrow, and take it slowly from there. I would test tomorrow if I were you, but it does depend if you “prefer” to get BFN or your period.. what would make you more disappointed? Everything crossed for you x

Saribon · 02/11/2022 16:26

@Mammamia23 and don’t be worried about line progression cos there wasn’t a line yesterday when you tested !! Don’t panic if it’s still faint tomorrow either give it a few days because that’s the first day you have had a line and it takes a couple of days to double doesn’t it?? Xx

Saribon · 02/11/2022 16:23

@Mammamia23 Doesn’t show you what a difference a day can make ! Xx

Saribon · 02/11/2022 16:20

@Mammamia23 they look positive and look fine for 11dpo in my opinion!! Congratulations!! massive massive congratulations.

OMG I want to test now but I’m too scared. I only want to test cos I just realised that I’m CD23 and my average cycle length is 23 days but in July it was longer when I had the chemical and I think that’s messed up my flo app so it’s saying AF is due Friday. I don’t know what to do. I would be 12pm tomorrow and my luteal phase is never any longer than that …..I don’t think I am pregnant but now I’m anxious about ugh 😩

Mammamia23 · 02/11/2022 15:49

@ScaredSally @Mummyme87 good to know - I’ll test tomorrow and Friday to check things are getting stronger!

ScaredSally · 02/11/2022 15:44

@Mammamia23 ive always have negative until 12dpo and very faint then, only really clear 13dpo on onwards I wouldn't worry

Mummyme87 · 02/11/2022 15:44

@Mammamia23 looks like positives to me, and on different brands. Congratulations!

Mammamia23 · 02/11/2022 14:56

Hi all - period was due today so took a test. I think I see positive lines, but not sure if it’s what they call “evaporation” lines. I’ve used two different brands. I’m 11 DPO , so would have expected stronger lines. Is this a sign there could be a problem down the line? Have attached two pics

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Albgo · 02/11/2022 14:00

Hi all - is there a due in July fb group yet?

Bananatoast123 · 02/11/2022 12:44

@Giraffe2205 hey! I find my EWCM tells me I’m in my fertile window but I can’t usually tell I’ve ovulated by it! I use LH test strips to track it better!

I’m ovulating today as I got my LH peak yesterday but I still have lots of EWCM (as you can still conceive on the day of ovulation and day after) so I’d say you’re most likely in your fertile window but not sure you’ll know if you’ve ovulated until it stops. I’d recommend LH tests in the future if you’re wanting to know!!

Giraffe2205 · 02/11/2022 12:12

Hi everyone ☺️ I’m normally abit of a lurker but I am hoping for some advice! I had a loss in august and I’m in my third cycle after I’m on day 11 with ewcm for the last 4 days we have DTD 3 times over the past 5 days so I’m hoping I’m in with a chance? My last two cycles were abit abnormal but this one feels back on track so I’m really hoping! The only thing I really track is CM so I don’t have anything else to go by especially since my last cycles were all over the place. Would you say I’m post ov or still chance I haven’t yet ovulated? Sending baby dust to all ☺️

Mummyme87 · 02/11/2022 10:48

Sorry to those who have had AF arrive. Fresh start with a new cycle, but I understand the heartbreak too well everytime it comes.

I’m 4dpo today, with nothing at all to report.

Saribon · 01/11/2022 17:05

@Mammamia23 no I haven’t tested and I’m determined I won’t until at least Friday. My boobs are hurting but this would be about the right time for them to start anyway so I bet I’m out. I have had a few dizzy spells recently and yesterday at work I got this pain In my groin and got paranoid that it was the start of an ectopic but it passed and I think I was just being overly conscious. Hopefully you were just testing too early. I’ve heard of women testing negative 11 dpo then positive on 12 dpo and stuff like that so until AF comes there is always a chance 😘

buttercupbee · 01/11/2022 16:35

@kizzy97 sorry to hear AF has arrived 💕

@Mammamia23 don’t rule yourself out yet, fingers crossed for you!

I’m on CD8 now so in that limbo of AF finishing and waiting for the OPK peak. Anyone else feel like they’re always just waiting for the next part of the cycle? I hate to wish time away but I can’t help it 🙈

Mammamia23 · 01/11/2022 16:20

So sorry @kizzy97 i know that feeling too. Well. Sue on today/tomorrow/weds and I can feel my period just sitting there waiting to exit…! I know they say all early symptoms are period symptoms but this is definitely my period ☹️

@Saribon any news? I tested on a cheapy yesterday abs got a negative. Clinging onto the fact it was too early….

My2boysaremyworld · 01/11/2022 15:23

@kizzy97 so sorry xx

Saribon · 01/11/2022 15:17

Ugh I just commented on someone’s thread about line progression and then realised it was on old thread 😫😫😫 like four months old and the pregnancy is progressing well and it’s just people catching up and I rock up with my random comment 😂

I’m never commenting on anything ever again except this thread! Feel like a right moron! Can’t even delete my comment

Embarassing myself online 🙄