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Bfp October??!!

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Luckymum89 · 09/10/2022 10:47

Hoping for My bfp this month! Af due a week today. Anybody else same timing as me? Would love to start my journey with others hoping for same bfp dates

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ttcgoingmad · 10/10/2022 17:49

1dpo! countdown has started 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ welcome anxiety and obsession for testing every couple of hours 🤣🤣

I hope it's okay to join! I'm also 1dpo!

Jaystar7 · 10/10/2022 22:21

Thank you. Yes that’s what I thought really but still just my gut feeling is this is not my month. Was not going to test until period late. Wish I’d never found those old tests. Oh well will not test again until Monday.
Sending strength & positive vibes to all on this thread. Xx

Endogal · 10/10/2022 22:13

@Jaystar7 it would be super rare to get a positive on a 25miu test 6 days before AF and AF/ early pregnancy symptoms overlap a lot so don't feel too disheartened yet!! Maybe wait a few days and try again with a more sensitive test?

Jaystar7 · 10/10/2022 22:10

Well I stupidly caved as found some old boots easy strip steps that are sensitivity 25 ml and did one this afternoon and was BFN.
period not due to Sunday but absolutely zero symptoms but starting to feel the pre af symptoms starting.
100% think this is not my month. X

Endogal · 10/10/2022 21:50

@Luckymum89 I had a chemical a few months ago and around 7dpo I had sharp shooting and an awful temper so 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 you'll get a positive too!!

Think I'm going to start some Christmas crafts over the next week to help the TWW go faster, 3 days in and had to stop myself buying tests in super drug today 🤣🤣🤣

Surreymumma · 10/10/2022 18:32

Thanks ladies. Fingers crossed for you all. Just need days to pass quicker, longest wait ever haha x

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Luckymum89 · 10/10/2022 18:02

@ttcgoingmad good luck!!!! Stay strong! This is literally the worst time ever lol 2ww is cruel xx

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Luckymum89 · 10/10/2022 18:00

@lottieb92 yeah it's great sharing together when we are due to do tests around the same time too!! It's just a bit of support 💖 @Surreymumma I haven't ever had symptoms! I'm either making them.up in my head this time or my body is going insane because I'm older! But don't worry about that at all u might still get that bfp 🤞

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lottieb92 · 10/10/2022 17:56

@Luckymum89 it is insanely hard, our first was also very quick and easy! Unplanned but also wish that was the case now haha. My twin also conceives every-time she even thinks she wants a baby - so that’s been tough to compare too.

But I will certainly know how I get on! It’s nice having somewhere to vent. As most family know we’re trying they don’t bring it up anymore and sometimes I wish they did just to see we are okay 🙌🏻

@Surreymumma don’t be put off by lack of symptoms they aren’t for everyone! Fingers crossed for you x

ttcgoingmad · 10/10/2022 17:49

1dpo! countdown has started 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ welcome anxiety and obsession for testing every couple of hours 🤣🤣

Surreymumma · 10/10/2022 17:48

Convinced rather than confused

Surreymumma · 10/10/2022 17:47

I'm 7dpo and can't wait to test! Don't feel any different to normal so not overly confused will be a bfp

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Luckymum89 · 10/10/2022 17:45

@lottieb92 2 more days! That's exciting! I'll keep everything crossed for u! Its so stressful actually planning a baby don't u think? My other 2 boys have not been planned at all and it just seemed like i sneezed and a caught pregnant! This is my last baby too. If u get the itch early do tell me your results! I'm testing Sunday 🤞

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lottieb92 · 10/10/2022 17:41

Thank you so much @Luckymum89
I did some calculations on the FRER website and it’s told me to hold out until 12th! So I’ll stay strong …

as it’s my birthday on the 15th I think I’ll get the curiosity out of the way and then relax until AF shows up or doesn’t! I’ve also had bloods done today at the GP so they may even give me good news who knows! ✨

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Luckymum89 · 10/10/2022 17:05

@lottieb92 ooooh good luck! I really hope and pray for u! I'm also 9dpo. My temper today has actually been disgusting 😅 I'm holding out till my period is due. It's so hard though! Keep us updated 💖

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lottieb92 · 10/10/2022 15:44

Hi all, currently 9DPO and really really tempted to take a test tomorrow. (Or right this instant 🤣)

We have been trying for #2 for nearly 15 months and have just started appointments for fertility testing. But I am praying this month with any luck we can prevent us diving deeper into that with a miracle ✨

Bring on the BFP’s

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Luckymum89 · 09/10/2022 18:58

@Endogal I feel your pain!!! This next week is gonna kill me coz af will either arrive or I know I'll do a test too early and disappoint myself! Has anybody had any sharp shooting pains? They really hurt and stopped me in my tracks last night. Wondering if it's something to get excited about?!

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Endogal · 09/10/2022 17:14

Currently 2dpo and already bored of waiting to test!! Will probably test at 10dpo as I can't help myself 🤷🏼

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Luckymum89 · 09/10/2022 17:02

@Jaystar7 yeah I knew what u meant! I came off the pill in June so i dunno if thats why it's taking longer than I expected or the fact I'm just obsessing about it too much. If my period doesn't come Sunday I'll defo test the Monday.

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Jaystar7 · 09/10/2022 16:38

Hi just seen I typed due my “age” obv meant af but I’m sure you guessed that 🤣. I have 2 children already so this will be number 3. Fallen first time with both in last and this will be my third cycle of ttc. I have not used opks or anything so if doesn’t work this month will use.
I won’t test until my af is 1 day late. Can’t be stressing over faint lines. X

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Luckymum89 · 09/10/2022 15:03

I also had some very very sharp shooting pains last night on the right side of my ovaries so I'm hoping that's a sign. I don't remember feeling anything with my other ds so early on but then again I hadn't planned it

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Luckymum89 · 09/10/2022 15:01

@Havanalily1806 it is very faint but I can defo see a line. Try again in a couple of days!! Keeping everything crossed for u!

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Luckymum89 · 09/10/2022 15:00

@ttcgoingmad yeah I keep telling myself it's not long really just feels forevvvver when I'm tracking and charting and obsessing! I'm wanting a home birth this time too. I really hope u get your bfp soon xxx

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Havanalily1806 · 09/10/2022 14:28

I think I’ve just got my first ever BFP this morning on a FRER… it is vvvf but clearer in real life! It also showed up on a easy@home strip too

Bfp October??!!
Bookworm9319 · 09/10/2022 14:24

Hi all! I’m 4DPO, TTC baby #1. Due AF on 20 October and hoping to hold off testing until the 21st but we’ll see!

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