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Bfp October??!!

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Luckymum89 · 09/10/2022 10:47

Hoping for My bfp this month! Af due a week today. Anybody else same timing as me? Would love to start my journey with others hoping for same bfp dates

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Endogal · 16/10/2022 17:08

@NSx I deffs will be! Already tested today but BFN, I did have that last time too though! Trying not to get my hopes up but I'm just not convinced my boobs could hurt this much if I wasn't pregnant 😐

NSx · 16/10/2022 15:42

@Endogal will u test tonight ? ✨🤞

Endogal · 16/10/2022 14:32

I am still shattered and my boobs are killing 😅 9dpo now, last time I didn't test positive until the night of 9dpo so I'm feeling very anxious testing time is so nearly here!

Luckymum89 · 16/10/2022 11:17

@lottieb92 I have been thinking of u girl! Wondering how u was getting on. I'm so glad u got to enjoy your birthday and give yourself a break for a little while. It's brilliant news that all is OK!!! So if the swimmers are healthy but low in numbers would dtd more often help? Af was due today for.me obviously didn't arrive and I've been feeling like I'm living a different life since my bfp lol I told my mum on Friday but I'm so nervous as it's early days yet so just gonna burst until I can tell anyone else. Especially my ds as he's 5 and been asking for a baby for quite some time! It's difficult to keep.my mouth shut haha. I rang docs Friday and they gave me a number for the early pregnancy unit but on the website it says from 6 weeks and I'm only 4 weeks today so gonna wait a bit. Please still keep me updated on your journey ❤️

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lottieb92 · 16/10/2022 11:07

I maybe should have put a TW on the post, and I don’t mean to be insensitive at all!
I really hope that doesn’t come across, I just have been in a world of guilt and upset for nearly 16 months thinking I’m doing something wrong every TWW - and I really hope that my sense of relief reaches anyone else going through the same thing.

TTC is such a personal and difficult journey and I wish everyone on here their dream babe x

lottieb92 · 16/10/2022 11:04

@Luckymum89 hope you’re enjoying the bubble!!! I didnt come back with my update… so for you and for all.. here goes…

so on Friday eve at 7 ish!? We got a call from the GP and overwhelmingly it wasn’t all bad news.
i was convinced i was going to hear something horrible which explains our secondary infertility - but it isn’t me, it’s husband. He’s got low count which can be corrected/ improved from what we were told by GP positively. They’re all healthy and strong, just not as many as they’d expect. And apparently it “will” happen for us it’s just been halving the chances every time ??

I’m gutted she got hub on the phone and not me as I had so many more questions.But as they had my bloods already I figured no point testing now as they’d have probably shown early pregnancy! So I switched off and enjoyed my bday!

and that’s it, I feel good we have something to work on but WISH I had paid for a private earlier doctor rather than waiting the year, (I didn’t want to hear it was me or worse news so I buried my head!) … but kicking myself now, we live and learn. Onto the next few months with a new sense of direction in this TTC journey x

fingers all crossed for everyone else this month! 🤍

jmase · 16/10/2022 10:20

@Chaoscontrol we will get there. I have gotten pregnant before. Unfortunately it was a MMC at 7weeks. I just feel so silly now after all the bloody pregnancy tests I did thinking I saw lines 😒 looking forward to the next cycle. I told DH to prepare himself 😂

Chaoscontrol · 16/10/2022 10:14

@jmase im with you. AF arriving bummed me out, but I gotta look at the positive and give next cycle my all!

I have recently found a bit of comfort in affirmations about baby and their arrival.. It's not for everyone but i thought I would share as it has helped me realise I can do everything right and to the book, but if its not time yet its not. It will happen, I need patience..

If I could also take my own advice it would help 😂

Sending love to all, if a new thread it made please add me 😊✨

jmase · 16/10/2022 09:11

Thanks everyone I'm feeling a lot better now AF is in full swing. I can actually think about the next cycle. I'm definitely up for another thread. I

only joined a few weeks ago but the support and what I have learnt in the few weeks has been amazing 🙏 wishing you all the best of luck xx

Luckymum89 · 16/10/2022 08:51

@jmase really sorry hun 😔 stay strong. Xx

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Luckymum89 · 16/10/2022 08:51

@dall9 thank u!! Sending so much love and luck your way ladies! Do keep me updated how u all get on testing xxx

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Endogal · 16/10/2022 00:55

So sorry @jmase ❤️❤️ hope you are ok xx

NSx · 15/10/2022 16:49

@ChloeN i won’t be testing early either - AF is never late so if nothing by the 27th then maybe I’ll test but I can’t face the BFN 🥹

jmase · 15/10/2022 13:34

Just started spotting. So that's me out 😢

2021lady · 15/10/2022 06:34

Hi I'm just joining this thread
I am currently on cd30
Possibly 2 days late altho before today its arrived day 31 so I'm holding off testing yet
Although since Thursday it's felt like my period is arriving and nothing yet
Would be really great if it just stays away

ChloeN · 15/10/2022 00:05

@NSx oh I hope this is our cycle🤞🏻🤞🏻 I’m holding out testing this cycle (I hope lol) so probably going to be the longest 2 weeks ever 🤣

NSx · 14/10/2022 23:26

@ChloeN cycle buddies again 💕💖 let’s hope this is the last cycle for us both fx

@dall9 baby dust to you too ✨💖

dall9 · 14/10/2022 23:19

3dpo and I'm here for it too... congrats to you @Luckymum89 ❤️❤️

Sending lots of baby dust for all of us lot waiting impatiently x

ChloeN · 14/10/2022 22:38

@NSx 1dpo for me and due on the 28th so I’m right behind you!

NSx · 14/10/2022 21:29

Hi ladies can I join.
I’m 2dpo cycle 4 🥱😂💖
AF due 27th so got a looooong time to wait 🥹

shibeshibe · 14/10/2022 20:54

@Luckymum89 thank you!

Fingers crossed to everyone here too 🙏

Bookworm9319 · 14/10/2022 12:48

11DPO and BFN on a FRER this morning. I know you’re not out til AF arrives but really feeling like it’s not my month. Actually feeling ok about it tbh!

Plumbibii · 14/10/2022 12:21

8 days before period. Felt bit nauseous this morning, but could be because i ate pasta late last night. Had 2 bowel momevements and like weird pain in the middle of my lower abdomen. Feel tired and fingers crossed for BFP October. Anyone around same time as me? X

Sparklythings1 · 14/10/2022 11:19

2dpo and I’ve come down with the horrendous bug/virus everyone seems to be getting. Spent most of the night being sick, lying in bed shivering in between 🤦🏼‍♀️ Don’t think that will be helping matters 😬 I forgot how bad being sick actually is, I’m literally never sick! The last time was probably when I was pregnant. You just feel so sorry for yourself so kind of dreading that again when I do eventually get pregnant 😂

xogossipgirlxo · 14/10/2022 10:49

jmase · 13/10/2022 18:34

Did a test this morning and left it on the side and this is what it looks like?

I'm sorry, but I can't see anything, but it might be my screen settings.

AF due tomorrow, I had cramps, pulling, burning sensation for 10 days which is unusual, but we will see. I'm trying not to cling too much to the thought I might be pregnant, as anything can happen.

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