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Bfp October??!!

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Luckymum89 · 09/10/2022 10:47

Hoping for My bfp this month! Af due a week today. Anybody else same timing as me? Would love to start my journey with others hoping for same bfp dates

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Bookworm9319 · 18/10/2022 19:29

Luckymum89 · 18/10/2022 18:06

I know it's the most frustrating thing. When is af due? U sure you're 13dpo and not any earlier?

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Due Thursday. Pretty sure 13DPO - use natural cycles for temping and LH tests. Onwards to the next cycle!

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Luckymum89 · 18/10/2022 18:06

Bookworm9319 · 18/10/2022 16:33

13DPO I think and only getting BFNs. Was quite upset yesterday but now looking forward to AF arriving so I can get on with the next cycle!

I know it's the most frustrating thing. When is af due? U sure you're 13dpo and not any earlier?

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Luckymum89 · 18/10/2022 18:05

iloveeggs · 18/10/2022 16:20

Hope you all don't mind me joining, I'm 8 DPO and feeling every symptom.

Trying to hold out till 10 DPO to test.

Tested way too early last month and drove myself insane

Welcome!!! I was same. Just a walking symptom I still am lol never known anything like it. With my other pregnancies I'm sure I didn't have this many symptoms. Good luck and lots of baby dust your way!! ✨️

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Luckymum89 · 18/10/2022 18:04

@2021lady yeah well I got bfp on a co op cheapie so that will be OK. Fingers crossed 🤞 for u!!! Keep us updated 🤍

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Bookworm9319 · 18/10/2022 16:33

13DPO I think and only getting BFNs. Was quite upset yesterday but now looking forward to AF arriving so I can get on with the next cycle!

iloveeggs · 18/10/2022 16:20

Hope you all don't mind me joining, I'm 8 DPO and feeling every symptom.

Trying to hold out till 10 DPO to test.

Tested way too early last month and drove myself insane

2021lady · 18/10/2022 16:09

I looked in 3 shops for 1 today and just ended up getting a super drug 1
Will test again tomorrow

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Luckymum89 · 18/10/2022 16:06

2021lady · 18/10/2022 09:29

I am now 5 days late. But still testing negative. So annoying
I've used a clearblue blue dye 1 and my friends have said get a pink dye. So that's my plan for today.

But I'm not getting my hopes up..trying not to anyway lol

Get a frer. My clearblue said not pregnant and I was xx

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Luckymum89 · 18/10/2022 16:05

Emmacb82 · 18/10/2022 09:50

Hope you don’t mind me joining. I’m roughly 8dpo (didn’t track this month) and got bfn this morning. Had a chemical last month so feel quite deflated. I am lucky to have 2 boys and as I’m 40 I had pretty much given up on a 3rd until last month when I saw that positive test. Now it’s really spurred me on to want a third but I don’t think it’s going to happen. Feel very guilty feeling like this as I know some are ttc their first. But can’t help how you feel I suppose. Wishing everyone all the luck in the world 💗💙

Welcome huni! I know its frustrating and it gets u down but Try to stay positive. I know it feels like forever and its never going to happen but it will! Try testing again in a couple of days? I got a very faint bfp at 10dpo on a frer but my clearblue digi didn't pick it up!

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Luckymum89 · 18/10/2022 16:03

@lottieb92 well at least u now know how to improve the situation. It's only going to make that bfp closer!!! It's so good reading you have it all planned out and are keeping positive about it. I cannot wait for your bfp! U totally deserve it after all of this 🤍 try and enjoy the process now you know what you're dealing with xx

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lottieb92 · 18/10/2022 15:09

@Luckymum89 - AF arrived as I expected / I have a blood test tomorrow anyway so that will feel like a box ticked!

I have all the vitamins arriving for DH within a few days, he was already on some but now we know his swimmers are low we will do our best to improve things by taking certain ones! Can’t harm to try!

so onto the next one- it feels good to know we are better off every other day or every two days this month! Sooo a different approach might keep it fresh 😂💀 here’s hoping!

in the mean time, we have decided we will be calling in a private Dr after the new year of things still aren’t our way by the end of this year 🤍
and if second analysis comes back the same look into our options from there… still hoping to hope that it’ll happen without intervention for us

Emmacb82 · 18/10/2022 09:50

Hope you don’t mind me joining. I’m roughly 8dpo (didn’t track this month) and got bfn this morning. Had a chemical last month so feel quite deflated. I am lucky to have 2 boys and as I’m 40 I had pretty much given up on a 3rd until last month when I saw that positive test. Now it’s really spurred me on to want a third but I don’t think it’s going to happen. Feel very guilty feeling like this as I know some are ttc their first. But can’t help how you feel I suppose. Wishing everyone all the luck in the world 💗💙

ChloeN · 18/10/2022 09:37

I’m 5dpo today so still a long wait ahead for me! Good luck to any of you testing in the next couple of days 🤞🏻

2021lady · 18/10/2022 09:29

I am now 5 days late. But still testing negative. So annoying
I've used a clearblue blue dye 1 and my friends have said get a pink dye. So that's my plan for today.

But I'm not getting my hopes up..trying not to anyway lol

Plumbibii · 18/10/2022 09:20

Morning!! How are you? I tested negative 5 days early. Funny until i tested i kept having all these symptoms and now all have disappeared, even my nipples have gone back to normal. Crazy how your mind can trick your body into developing all the copy cat signs. Waiting patients for Af now !! X

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Luckymum89 · 18/10/2022 09:10

Good morning ladies how are u all? Any update with anybody?!

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NSx · 17/10/2022 10:17

@Bookworm9319 wish I could turn my brain off 😂😂😂

Bookworm9319 · 17/10/2022 09:15

NSx · 16/10/2022 22:10

I don’t know if anyone else feels like this, but I can never tell if the things I feel are real or I’m making them up in my head symptom spotting 😂😅

Yes absolutely!! Every little thing I’m like hmmm could this be?! I wish I didn’t do it cause I think it gets my hopes up

Plumbibii · 17/10/2022 08:49

5 days before period. Tested BFN on pricey clear blue. Feel so deflated!! I was really hopeful as never noticed my nipples sticking out so much before as they are now. Here's to tiny hoping AF doesn't show up!!

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Luckymum89 · 17/10/2022 07:17

ttcgoingmad · 16/10/2022 21:06

I'm 7 dpo and this evening been having some sharp pains in lower abdomen. This never happened before. Really hoping is implantation cramps 🙏 🤞

Sounds positive! Exactly what I had at 7dpo xx

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NSx · 16/10/2022 22:10

I don’t know if anyone else feels like this, but I can never tell if the things I feel are real or I’m making them up in my head symptom spotting 😂😅

ttcgoingmad · 16/10/2022 21:06

I'm 7 dpo and this evening been having some sharp pains in lower abdomen. This never happened before. Really hoping is implantation cramps 🙏 🤞

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Luckymum89 · 16/10/2022 18:03

I tell you what ladies one thing that's driving me crazy this time that I've never had before is insane thirst. Like I am actually going to die unless I get my hands on fluids kind of thirst! I'm even dreaming about drinking water 🤣 it's a new one for me and @Endogal I could cry with the pain in my boobs too. It's not pleasant

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Luckymum89 · 16/10/2022 17:59

@lottieb92 yes get your arse on here and let me know 🤣 do u know what it probably will all come together once u relax and not let it consume u. Its so easy for it to take over because it did with me! I Will keep absolutely everything possible crossed for u!!! Have u had any cramping or any signs of af? @Endogal gooooooood luck!!!!! Xxx

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lottieb92 · 16/10/2022 17:47

@Luckymum89 i bet!! I’ve also said to myself I wouldn’t tell anybody straight away! But I know I’d be blabbing to my twin and my mum as soon as that stick says pregnant 😅 just do what feels right! So glad you’re enjoying the bubble!

well looking online - it looks like every 2-3 days is best for low count, giving it time to readjust! We usually do every day or every other so that’s something new we can try! And he’s got to take some extra vitamins and now that I can finally relax! I think it’ll all come together.

my af is due tomorrow and I am expecting her - but if somehow a miracle occurs you’ll be the first to know 😂

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