TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

@Fuckallthetories we’re all cheering you on from the sidelines!

@Fuckallthetories go go go 💪🏼💪🏼 enjoy and a tonne of baby dust

@RaliaMusca oh for sure 😜 I mean I know it must be because out of the 3 children she's got I'm the one called the golden child 🤣🤣 my siblings have tried to steal my crown several times but they can't hack it.....can you tell I'm the oldest 🤔😂 omg 8 months I can't even fathom that and honestly by 8 months there's no way I would be arsed to try and hide it 😳 mine doesn't want me to carry him he just shouts no he wants to walk everywhere I'm all for it but it does take ages to get anywhere 🙄

dd asleep, towels on, let’s do this.

@mummatara a happy accident, surely 😜 my cousin's wife also somehow managed to not tell any of us until she was like 8 months along. Baggy jumpers and tiny bump 🤷‍♀️
I'm struggling to hide it now and I'm only 7 weeks! Less because of any bump though but because I walk on eggshells fearing any sudden movement might bring on more bleeding. A bit weird when everyone at nursery pick up carries their child out the door and I'm like "nah, you gotta walk"

@ChloeN I’m so sorry 😞 It’s nice finding a bit of solidarity on this forum however crappy our situations are

@mummatara @FfayeN @RaliaMusca its almost alien to me that our parents just had sex and we came along!
@RaliaMusca I probably need sectioning after each cycle, I’m not sure how your mum lasted 7 years! Finding out at 3 months sounds like a dream though 🙌🏾

@Mamaseekingrainbow Sorry that you found your way to this thread & I hope you’re not here long. It’s such a comforting group so I hope you find some peace here 💕

@RaliaMusca omg bless her how did she cope!! Must of been awful😔

@Mamaseekingrainbow sorry for your loss lovely, I was the exact same, I had a bad feeling and am pretty sure I knew the exact day the heartbeat stopped, didn’t find that out till a week or 2 later though so just thought I was super anxious

@RaliaMusca wow 3 months 😳 such a different time to be so chill about it. pretty sure I was an accident since she was 16 🙈 she didn't tell my Nan until she was 5 months gone I'm impressed she hid it for that long I looked about 6 months at 6/7 weeks last time 🤣

@Mamaseekingrainbow I know exactly what you mean. I felt the same with my last pregnancy, it just all felt a bit wrong somehow but I just always pushed those doubts away. Good to hear you're doing alright ✨

@ChloeN haha bless her 😂

@RaliaMusca I’m doing surprisingly well thank you. It sounds odd but from the first test I had such a bad feeling about the pregnancy. There’s a lot to be said about gut instinct 😞

@Mamaseekingrainbow sorry you had to join us. Pregnancy loss is so utterly shit. I hope you're doing ok given the circumstances 💐

I truly believe it was the cause of mine. I’m so sorry you’ve been in a similar position x

@ChloeN @Mariabombia @mummatara @HalWin2221 @FfayeN omg you girls crack me up 😂 my mum and dad tried to conceive for 7 years before I finally came along... and she didn't even know she was pregnant until she was 3 months along! Her cycles are so erratic, she just thought she'd skipped a few periods 🙈 I don't know how she was so chilled after 7 years of ttc!

@Mamaseekingrainbow sorry you're here lovely 💕 I've lost 2 pregnancies this year after having covid both times in early pregnancy and had problems with my sons pregnancy after catching it at 8 months I'm 100% convinced it's the cause of my problems ☹️

Devastated to be joining this thread. This week I had an early miscarriage with baby number 2 at 5+5 weeks. Tested positive for covid the same day so I think the two may be linked.
We want to ttc again right away. I have pcos and was on ovulation induction so time isn’t really on our side sadly 😭

@mummatara it must be a mum thing, mines the same🤣 she admits she doesn’t understand ttc and loss because it hasn’t happened to her which is fair enough! She is trying to understand a bit more bless her, she did say I should try keep the ewcm up there now she knows it’s not to clear the way 😂

@HalWin2221 @Mariabombia @FfayeN I was speaking to one of my clients about getting pregnant a few weeks ago and she told me that you ovulate continuously for your whole fertile week🤣 like a new egg every day, she wouldn’t let me tell her it was just the once

@ChloeN 🤣🤣 oh that's the best thing I've heard. My mum thinks I'm nuts we do opks and tracking and stuff she's like oh you should just stop all that and see what happens 🙈 yea sure mum like I've got the capacity to stop poas 😂 she just doesn't understand the need because it was all very easy for her. That's not to say she isn't sympathetic because she's been awesome but she's just like oh relax and see what happens @HalWin2221 it is hard isn't it we have so much available to us know to know so early it may cause much less heartache if we had to wait and get a doctors appointment to confirm

@ChloeN @HalWin2221 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I honestly wish I was more clueless about it all

@HalWin2221 i think my mum got pregnant super quick each time so maybe it does 🤣🤣 we need to be more oblivious it seems

@ChloeN she didn’t! 😭😭😂 I’m 1 of 4 so maybe being clueless works! 💀

@HalWin2221 theyre totally clueless aren’t they🤣🤣 when I told her I had ewcm she was like oh yeah the jelly stuff that comes out so the egg has space to come out?😭🤣