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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

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FfayeN · 06/10/2022 05:36

New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
@MrsCristianoX @Indianna2006 @TheBirdintheCave @mummatara @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @HalWin2221 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @everythingzrosie @ChloeN @ChickenT2b @Chellooo @theblueflowers @RaliaMusca @Margo34 @Mariabombia @emhope @lovenaps @

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TheBirdintheCave · 12/10/2022 11:55

@ChloeN Impressive stuff! 😂Where are you off to on holiday?

ChloeN · 12/10/2022 11:46

@TheBirdintheCave good luck with testing tomorrow🤞🏻

@MrsCristianoX I can imagine you just feel like crap😔 sending lots of love! Xxx

think I’ve made it to ovulation day! We’ve dtd 6 days in a row so gonna just go for tonight and tomorrow as well, why not 🤣 I might possibly get one day off and then we’re off on holiday lol

mummatara · 12/10/2022 11:42

@TheBirdintheCave 😂 no def don't waste the good stuff

TheBirdintheCave · 12/10/2022 11:35

@mummatara I won't get to temp tomorrow as I'll most likely have to get up to pee around 6am and will then be testing as I don't want to waste the good stuff 😅

mummatara · 12/10/2022 11:20

@TheBirdintheCave could be implantation drop at 11dpo probably only tomorrows temp will tell you the answer 🤞🏼

mummatara · 12/10/2022 11:19

@bunnykins123 good luck lovely 🤞🏼 I hope you get some good answers and a plan ❤️

Luna57 · 12/10/2022 10:28

@bunnykins123 good luck today! Hoping for lots of answers. Keep us updated ❤️

bunnykins123 · 12/10/2022 10:20

@TheBirdintheCave that's still quite early. Don't loose hope even though I do know that's easier said than done 💕

@TheBirdintheCave @FfayeN thanks ladies! I'll keep you updated anyway just in case anyone is interested or has something similarly funky going on with their immune system le sigh 😂

TheBirdintheCave · 12/10/2022 09:59

@bunnykins123 Oh and good luck for your appointment! I hope you get some useful information and a plan for going forward :)

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FfayeN · 12/10/2022 09:59

@bunnykins123 good luck today, I hope they have some answers for you 😊, keep us posted x

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TheBirdintheCave · 12/10/2022 09:58

@bunnykins123 11dpo today. I'll still test tomorrow I just feel a lot less hopeful now 😂Oh well, at least it stopped me testing early. This is the furthest I've ever got without caving.

bunnykins123 · 12/10/2022 09:57

@MrsCristianoX I second what @FfayeN says - can he not wrap it up whilst you're on the meds?!

bunnykins123 · 12/10/2022 09:56

@MrsCristianoX Oh hun, of course you're feeling this way. Its the disappointment of not at least being able to try coupled with DH just not getting it and gunking all over you. Nobody needs that at the best of times, let alone when you're going through all this.

@TheBirdintheCave what DPO are you lovely? I don't know if temps are highly accurate. Will you test?

I have my 1st appointment today with the fertility clinic to discuss our options and see basically how screwed we are with my high NK cells. Wish me luck 🤞

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FfayeN · 12/10/2022 09:50

TheBirdintheCave · 12/10/2022 08:28

I took my temperature this morning and it's only .1 of a degree above the cover line so I guess that's me out :( I wish I hadn't done it now.

Sorry to hear this lovely, doesn't mean you are definitely out though. Fingers crossed for your test tomorrow xx

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FfayeN · 12/10/2022 09:49

MrsCristianoX · 11/10/2022 22:52

Well I'm pretty fed up. And I knew this would happen as fertile week approaches. TMI ladies but I'll 💯 frustrated. DH isn't. He just pulls away now and I'm laying there covered in gunk. And I'm now going to scream into a pillow. Rant over. Work tomorrow, never thought I'd be so glad to see the place but I'm on edge...😭

Oh no 😔. Do you mean he pulled out? Tell him to be courteous and catch it or wrap up! xx

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Luna57 · 12/10/2022 09:10

@MrsCristianoX have you been given a timeline of your treatment and when you can start ttc again? Gunk 😂

hope everyone is ok today.

ChickenT2b · 12/10/2022 08:37

@MrsCristianoX @FfayeN thank you xx
@MrsCristianoX could you not try it again straight away?

@HalWin2221 ooh yay 😃 what cycle are you on post miscarriage? X

TheBirdintheCave · 12/10/2022 08:28

I took my temperature this morning and it's only .1 of a degree above the cover line so I guess that's me out :( I wish I hadn't done it now.

MrsCristianoX · 11/10/2022 22:52

Well I'm pretty fed up. And I knew this would happen as fertile week approaches. TMI ladies but I'll 💯 frustrated. DH isn't. He just pulls away now and I'm laying there covered in gunk. And I'm now going to scream into a pillow. Rant over. Work tomorrow, never thought I'd be so glad to see the place but I'm on edge...😭

HalWin2221 · 11/10/2022 22:40

@ChickenT2b we are cycle buddies! 😊

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FfayeN · 11/10/2022 20:45

@ChickenT2b if you had your LH surge on the 6th, you'd have likely ovulated on the 7th and would then be 4DPO today. Hope that makes sense 😘

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FfayeN · 11/10/2022 20:45

@ChickenT2b you would be 5dpo today 😊. Xx

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MrsCristianoX · 11/10/2022 20:27

@ChickenT2b day after peak is ovulation day then the following day is 1dpo that's my method..I've just started temping this month so can't help with temps Xx my thermometer had a error reading this morning too😕

ChickenT2b · 11/10/2022 20:14

Quick question ladies, how do you count dpo? Do you count from the day after and then not include the current day? Ie if I ovulated on 6th October, today I would be 4dpo or 5dpo 🧐

Can’t work out if I’ve even ovulated this month 😩 temp rise is minimal.

Luna57 · 11/10/2022 20:01

@mummatara the hospitality job is with my sister, I work ever winter with her she’s my boss and I love it cos we never get to see each other so my other job might have to take a back seat just til I see what’s happening.

@Mariabombia yes I’ve had it with ds and this pregnancy. It’s completely normal. Could be a wee nerve getting touched with everything stretching. I’ve only had that one fresh bleed today which was only on wiping. That’s the least I’ve had since Saturday. Can blame doing the dishes for that bleed 😂 I’ve cramps to an extent but I think it’s a mixture of stretching and progesterone because it’s coming and going too.

think all of this Is hitting dh more than I thought he’s asked his boss to work from home for a week to clear his head. He really breaks my heart cos he’s such a family man. We’ve been together 10 years and he’s been asking me for a baby since we were about 22 but I was never ready and always wanted to be married. He gave up his career in England 4 years ago to come back home to get married and start a family