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TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

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FfayeN · 06/10/2022 05:36

New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
@MrsCristianoX @Indianna2006 @TheBirdintheCave @mummatara @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @HalWin2221 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @everythingzrosie @ChloeN @ChickenT2b @Chellooo @theblueflowers @RaliaMusca @Margo34 @Mariabombia @emhope @lovenaps @

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Indianna2006 · 14/10/2022 08:44

@FfayeN @theblueflowers that’s all you can do ladies. Take each day as it comes. Celebrate every milestone you get to. An think “I’m pregnant for today” 💖
it’s a long ole few weeks 🙈🙈

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FfayeN · 14/10/2022 08:35

@Luna57 pmsl! Thanks lovely

@theblueflowers I echo your words exactly you have put it so well! Definitely taking each day as it comes. I'll literally show him the test this time, 4th time round it's lost it's shine for us as such.

I actually found temping stopped me testing early, but as @TheBirdintheCave said if you get that dip it's almost the same thing. POAS just feels more final I guess.

@ChickenT2b I wouldn't say so. I thought mine were symptoms of AF (since I took the doxycycline, I get a tingly/warm sensation I assume which is the lining changing or hormones prior to AF) same this month! No sore boobs but terrible constipation last 2 days. All normal for AF for me.
My last BFP before I had really obvious symptoms so been totally different each time xx

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ChickenT2b · 14/10/2022 08:28

@FfayeN @theblueflowers congratulations ladies 😍 did you have any early symptoms?
@HalWin2221 sorry for the delay. I am feeling cautiously positive about this cycle. I had some slight twinges in my left abdomen on both 6/7 dpo. Could be nothing of course. And my temp is at a decent level now. How are you getting on?
I surprised myself yesterday that I’d got to 7 dpo without thinking about testing 🙈 really want to wait until 11 dpo but don’t know if I can!! X

theblueflowers · 14/10/2022 08:18

You are all so wonderful and supportive-thank you so so much. Cannot tell you how much it helps after going through everything before and not feeling like I can tell anyone in real life yet. I cannot wait to celebrate it happening for everyone on this thread.

I'm going to do my best to take it one day at a time. My first goal is getting to AF due date on Monday. The fear is already creeping in!

I don't think we did anything different tbh. Managed to catch day before O and O day itself. Really couldn't be bothered to do more than that! This was the first cycle in a very long time that I actually noticed EWCM. I have been taking Evening Primose for about 6 months in the hope that it would improve, but I doubt that was doing anything at all for me!

@FfayeN so nice that we can get through this time together! It's such a mixture of emotions. Have you thought about how you are going to tell DH?

I had a fertilily in my Amazon basket waiting to go 😂

Indianna2006 · 14/10/2022 08:15

@FfayeN @theblueflowers omg yes!!! Congratulations!! I love that fertilily!!
what fab lines you’ve both got. So so super happy for you girls. Well deserved BFPs.

keeping my fingers crossed for sticky healthy beans 🤞🏼💖

bunnykins123 · 14/10/2022 08:10

@FfayeN @theblueflowers ladies! Oh my goodness, the biggest congratulations!! I'm so so happy for you both 💕💕

Luna57 · 14/10/2022 07:55

@FfayeN @theblueflowers omg ladies congratulations!! I got chills when I seen those lines not sure if it’s hormones but might be tearing up also. Awk I really hope these are the stickiest beans for you both. You can find @FfayeN on Instagram promoting fertilily along with a discount code 😂 #ad

MrsCristianoX · 14/10/2022 07:51

@FfayeN massive congratulations lovely🥰 I have one ready to use in November xx

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FfayeN · 14/10/2022 07:47

No tips, we did it less this month than last! Was -5, -2 and morning of ovulation day and the holy grail the fertilily 🤣 xx

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MrsCristianoX · 14/10/2022 07:45

@FfayeN @theblueflowers obviously will welcome any tips ,,🙈😂

MrsCristianoX · 14/10/2022 07:38

@FfayeN @theblueflowers so many congratulations!! This is fabulous 🥳

mummatara · 14/10/2022 07:34

@FfayeN @theblueflowers omg ladies huge congrats those are fabulous lines 🥳💕 sending you all the sticky dust there is what brilliant news to wake up to xx

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FfayeN · 14/10/2022 07:28

@theblueflowers Sorry I forgot to say congratulations!! That's a good line for 11dpo too, crossing all possible limbs and digits for sticky little ones this time 🙏🏼 xxx

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FfayeN · 14/10/2022 07:25

@theblueflowers I am not gonna lie I am glad we're going through this together! I had to get up and leave for work early so saving my reveal for tomorrow when we get the day together.
I'm 13dpo xx

Thanks ladies 🥹

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Mariabombia · 14/10/2022 07:20

@FfayeN & @theblueflowers amazing news ladies 🎉🎉🎉!!!! I have everything crossed that these are both sticky beans for you both xx

TheBirdintheCave · 14/10/2022 07:11

@FfayeN @theblueflowers Wow guys, congratulations! I so hope these are your sticky beans! 🥰

HalWin2221 · 14/10/2022 07:11

@FfayeN @theblueflowers congratulations ladies! Incredible news!! ✨ how many dpo are you both?? 😊

ChloeN · 14/10/2022 07:05

@FfayeN @theblueflowers yay lovely news ladies ☺️☺️ hoping I’ll get the same result this month!

theblueflowers · 14/10/2022 06:47

@FfayeN amazing news! Congratulations!

It's seems that I am right there with you...
11DPO this morning. My head is all over the place!

I screamed 'WTF' so loudly this morning it woke DH, so no hiding from him 😂

TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕
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FfayeN · 14/10/2022 06:27

So, not AF. Here we go again. I am going to do a FRER tomorrow to show DH, until then I need the day to prepare myself. Already in my mind this isn't going to work out 😨.
The panic is real!!!

TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕
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FfayeN · 14/10/2022 00:06

We are around year 3 of TTC no.1 with a couple of breaks inbetween. Yep....it's draining alright. CD13 and just had some romance with DH. Luckily this part of the cycle means I can go to the loo straight away...but either AF is on her way or he poked too hard 🫤. Temp tomorrow or test Saturday and ill know for def.
Sigh. So nice to be part of this supportive group you ladies are appreciated xx

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LuckyMoonstone · 13/10/2022 22:20

@lovenaps aww that’s so nice ❤️ You are really strong too, we are all here for each other x

lovenaps · 13/10/2022 21:25

Hugs to everyone feeling low. It is so understandable ❤
@LuckyMoonstone I hope everything resolves and you can finally get this nightmare come to and end and get a fresh start!

Everyone is so strong here. I was actually thinking that today. Knowing that so many women been through this and they persisted and did not let it destroy them, that really gives me hope 💓

TheBirdintheCave · 13/10/2022 18:15

emhope · 13/10/2022 15:07

Hi everyone, not been on for a while and now too much to catch up on 🙈 but hope everyone is doing ok 💕

I’ve not been great after getting AF again (now on CD7) and been in a bit of a low place…decided no OPK’s this cycle and have even deleted all my period tracking/conception apps. Honestly just feeling completely hopeless and really feel like I will never see those two lines again. Has anyone else got to around 6/7 cycles and felt the same?
One positive is my scan appointment came through for next week which should be right around ovulation so be good to check everything at that time I guess.

Yup, cycle 6 post miscarriage (10 months since we started) is nearly over and I've spent today looking at how we could get a loan for IVF as I'm so fed up of waiting.

Mariabombia · 13/10/2022 16:46

@emhope I was cycle 8 before we conceived our baby we lost, sorry you're not in a good place, please don't give up hope ♥️ you will see those two lines again xx

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