TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

@HalWin2221 keeping everything crossed for you! Could the pain have been caused by anything else, e.g. I get it when I sit in my bed with my laptop! I honestly hope all works out well for you x ❤
@FfayeN thank you so much x❤

@FfayeN maybe that just means the little bean is all nestled where it should be now 🤞🏽

@lovenaps we must be the same as I’m 11 dpo now too 🙂 I’ve had some back ache today so I’m just convinced it’s not going to end well 🙁 I wasn’t going to test again until Friday but think I might have to tomorrow 🙈 if you’ve got a line on the night 11dpo that must be a good sign 🤞🏽

@FfayeN thanks ❤🤗I could be 10 or 11DPO but not entirely sure! Had a late ov this month.
@HalWin2221 definitely scary times! How are you? ❤

@FfayeN did you have cramps after implantation? Xx

@lovenaps it is such a scary time isn’t it. Every cramp or niggle I get I just convince myself that’s it. How many dpo are you now? Remember you’re not alone in this 🙂

Hi
I have been quiet as I had been reading but not chatting, was feeling very anxious. Decided not to take second test till much later but then I just started having some light cramps 20 mins ago and totally freaked out (I think it could be implantation cramping, it's light). I panicked so much and decided to take a test even though I just had a glass of juice not long ago and it's not FMU but thought if things aren't right I'd rather know before starting to bleed.
So I just took e@h 10 mins ago, DH and I were both staring at it and you know how initially there's no line as it takes two minutes to show? For those to minutes I was thinking that was it...
Thankfully, there is a much clearer line now than last time... I also realised it's only been two days since that last test I uploaded but it had felt like a long time!
Happy that things are progressing well for @FfayeN and @theblueflowers ❤

@theblueflowers they are very good lines for 13dpo and 15dpo on frer. Nice strong positives. I’d be really happy with those 🥰🥰

@theblueflowers looks like this test is a dye stealer to the control line and it wasn’t at 13dpo, so I’d say that was a good test! 👏🏽

@FfayeN those lines are looking great! You're right though, I'm not sure they could get any darker, so don't worry if that's the case. I've also had really fluctuating symptoms- cramps yesterday and nothing at all today. Trying to remind myself it's normal!

I used my last FRER this morning. 13dpo was taken in the afternoon. What do we think? I think I can see a difference, but I was hoping for it to be a bit darker 😬. Give it to me straight!

@FfayeN that’s a very good line. 😊😊 don’t worry too much about symtoms. They just differ Don’t they. Took until about 7 weeks with my DD. Then this time I was only saying to my husband. I don’t like it. I feel fine. And 6 weeks hit and bam. Sickness and nausea 24/7. Wish I’d kept my mouth shut then 😂 it’s only now just easing off.

@mummatara bless you hun. Night went on a while. Does make it such an ordeal. An then I ended up with surgery anyway. Damn retained tissue. Hopefully there isn’t any. But for me it was quicker and simpler to resolve it via surgery etc then keep waiting on some bloody unknown of it should eventually flush it out. After 5 weeks of foreword and back I was emotionally drained of it.

@ChloeN hopefully 🤞 I’ll do a test in a week or so

@FfayeN how many dpo are you? Gorgeous line! I never get any symptoms until I'm about 6 weeks along.

@LuckyMoonstone ah okay, so looks like you’re finally getting back to normal now? X

@mummatara they didn't which surprised me. But it was luckily all good and my test was negative two weeks later

@FfayeN I used medichecks was very easy though they might be a be harder to do 48 hr checks atm as Royal Mail are striking left right and centre 🙄 those are brilliant lines!

@RaliaMusca did they scan you to check all was gone whilst you were there? I've seen some people have said they had a scan at the same time

@FfayeN now that’s a line to be proud of!

@FfayeN ahhh I thought you had an MVA. So MVA is done whilst you're awake and they vacuum the products out whereas they put you under for D&C which is what I had in June. I did have a good experience with my D&C I just was hoping for less intrusion hence opting for natural this time

@FfayeN the mva is done under local anaesthetic so the immediate recovery time afterwards is mega quick (I went home half an hour later) and I think it's also gentler on the uterine lining. They numb your cervix and the just put a suction device into the uterus and manually suck out everything that needs to go. Took about 10 minutes. I did find it painful though, like strong period cramps, whilst they did it.