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TWW starting 31.07.22 - Company Needed

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TheCakeIsALie18 · 31/07/2022 00:05

Hey all!

I'm on several other threads that I'm keeping up with but some of them are a tad long now, so I thought I'd start a new one for people to join.

Ovulation day for me today (30.07.22) so TWW starts officially tomorrow. AF due on the 12th. I have tests in the house, but my goal this month is to keep my mind busy and avoid symptom spotting! I don't plan on testing if I can help it. Want to avoid the disappointment if I can.

We are TTC #1 and we are in cycle 4 now. I had a chemical mid June when we weren't officially TTC but when it happened we realised now was the time to actively try. We wanted it so badly.

So that's a little about me and I would love some company in a slightly smaller thread.

Much love xoxox

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Nypie · 26/08/2022 19:48

@Hannargh omg how on earth do you manage I get upset when I come home at 6 🤣 no wonder your tired! I've been feeling sleepy too just have so much on with all these house viewing as well, we did actually happen to make up and have unexpected sex which was nice

@TheCakeIsALie18 your right this is exactly what we should be doing. Struggling a bit as he's skint till pay day and we've got so much on but will try and set aside some cheap bonding time. How are you feeling?

👋👋👋@Shleepymummy I started doing mine at cd8 and supposed to ovulate cd15/16 so around 8 days as well its really been stressing me out last time I started at cd13 and I was feeling much more chilled!

eleveneleven11 · 26/08/2022 19:24

@Shleepymummy great to hear from you! ❤️ how have you been?
think we are predicted to ovulate at exactly the same time, flo is saying in 8 days and it's usually pretty spot on. i'm going to start opks on monday i think. i need to get stocked up. i haven't been measuring bbt this month - just experimenting to see whether it makes me any less insane 🤣 i've also got a bit of a boozy month coming up so i'm just taking my foot off the gas a little. xxx

Shleepymummy · 26/08/2022 19:14

Feel like I’ve been MIA forever! Time just flies sometimes
@TheCakeIsALie18 sorry to hear the digital didn’t give you the 3 weeks. But your other test is so strong! Try not to worry about the digital, as someone else said they didn’t used to exist. Hard I know when you’ve had a lost and are worried!
@eleveneleven11 how are you? Have you started opks? I’ve been doing bbt and recording that but haven’t got enough data yet for anything
@Nypie and @Hannargh have you guys started opks? I’m supposed to ovulate in about 8 days, thinking I start Sunday maybe?!

eleveneleven11 · 26/08/2022 16:37

hi all!

im doing ok today thanks @TheCakeIsALie18 - only around a week away from O now. i've barely thought about it actually which has been such a nice mental break from last month. how are you today?

glad its now the long weekend, just finishing up a few things at work and then out with the dog for a big walk.

anyone got any nice bank hol plans? xxx

TheCakeIsALie18 · 26/08/2022 16:29

I hope you're all doing well today xxx

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TheCakeIsALie18 · 26/08/2022 07:13

@Nypie aww yeah, I know what you mean it can be hard planning it. But try not to be so hard on yourself. You don't have to do it every day or even every other day. So if opks are still low then why not have a couple days off and do something together like a date night and just...see what happens... I'm sure everything will be alright. Don't put too much pressure on yourselves xxx

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Hannargh · 25/08/2022 22:05

Hey @Nypie just got home 20mins ago from work 🥴 one more day of hosting kids and then I can relax again. CD 13 for me and will start opk testing soon as I've should be next weekend. Apart from being absolutely knackered this week, I'm good!

How about you? It's hard when you have to dtd knowing that it's for a reason rather than just because. But hopefully it can be fun too!

Nypie · 25/08/2022 21:28

@TheCakeIsALie18 I know only a few days! Dp is annoying me tonight he's so stroppy sometimes so not sure if we'll be able to cover today 🙄. I feel good about this cycle but I feel like we've dtd a few times that feel quite forced to me so hope this isnt a sign of things to come! So glad your feeling more positive and no more cramping, will you test again?

@Hannargh how're you??

TheCakeIsALie18 · 25/08/2022 14:08

Hey everyone how are you all doing today? Hope your week is going well and stress levels are nice and low ❤️ xxx

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TheCakeIsALie18 · 24/08/2022 22:32

@Nypie heyyy! Oooh not long too wait and then you're into your next TWW. How are you feeling about this cycle?

Thanks. I'm feeling pretty positive about it today which is nice and the cramping I've been having has eased off today 👌🏻❤️ xxx

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Nypie · 24/08/2022 22:21

👋👋👋 hey all, cd12 for me aswell got some twinges on my left side but lh is still reading low so looks like o will be cd15 again.

@TheCakeIsALie18 sorry you havent got your 3+ yet but that line is beautiful!

Hope everyone else is good!

TheCakeIsALie18 · 24/08/2022 17:17

@eleveneleven11 haha I don't have any treatments like that lol. But I do love doing my own nail art. So just gotta make sure that's still OK haha xxx

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eleveneleven11 · 24/08/2022 17:08

@TheCakeIsALie18 ah i see, yeah that makes sense 😊

i'm ok thank you. plodding along, just waiting for a brow appointment haha. the only good thing about not being pregnant - i can continue to get my brows laminated! i freaked out when i found out pregnant women can't have the treatment, i loveeee having my brows laminated and they are so flat without it 😂 so i'm making the most of that!

TheCakeIsALie18 · 24/08/2022 12:41

@Hannargh good, I'm glad you're getting the hang of BBT. yes mister you are going to go away and you are going to make a baby, lie there and take it 🤣🤣 it'll be fun!

@eleveneleven11 thank you. After some reading it has something to do with the massive difference in hCG levels and how big the jump between 2-3 and 3+. Some women never get a 3+ and everything is fine. So yep, I'm OK. Just plodding along and assuming everything is fine lol. How are you getting on? Xxx

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eleveneleven11 · 24/08/2022 11:18

@TheCakeIsALie18 hey! sorry to hear you didn't get your 3+ - you feeling ok? i don't know enough/anything about early pregnancy or digital tests so i wish i could offer more insight but your almost-dye-stealer looks like its a great and positive sign? :) just think if digital tests didn't exist, you'd have no reason to believe that everything wasn't moving along perfectly. sometimes all these tests etc are a hindrance rather than a help! xx

Hannargh · 24/08/2022 11:17

@TheCakeIsALie18 ah that's really useful. I've been taking it more consistently around 7:15am each day and seeing lower temps like that now - finally getting the hang of things!

DH was asking whether he really had to go away that weekend and I was all 'yes. We will have a lovely time. Let's go' 😅

TheCakeIsALie18 · 24/08/2022 10:51

@Hannargh thanks ❤️

Oooh make sure you rest when you can! If you can! I take my BBT at 6am every morning. I just set an alarm on my watch each day, take temp, and then if I can go back to sleep and read the temp when I wake up lol. Don't worry about it being low. Mine sits between 35.5 and 35.9 before O and then between 36 and 36.8 after O. My temp this morning (coz I'm still taking it to give me a heads up if I MC) was 36.7 😊 and yesterday was 36.3. Keep tracking and you'll find your "pattern".

Oooooh nice. What better time to have some fun with the TTC process than when you have a little getaway 🥰😘❤️ xxx

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Hannargh · 24/08/2022 10:45

@TheCakeIsALie18 - take heart! That's still looking good and strong and still progression on your other tests xx

All good here - I'm running a residential trip for some kids this week so it's a long and tiring one. CD12 for me today and not much else going on - will start opks on Friday to keep an eye out for O which will probably be later next week.
Been a lot more disciplined with taking bbt at a consistent time this month and I've had much lower temps than usual which is interesting. Not sure if there's a cause but have done an occasional opk just in case something is going on but they're as low as I'd expect them to be. Going away for the weekend next week, timed perfectly with O - so should be fun 😉

TheCakeIsALie18 · 24/08/2022 09:03

Morning everyone.

I did my final digital today and it still says 2-3 and I'm 6 weeks today. I know it's not always accurate so I'm not worrying too much. I did hope to see 3+ today though.

I did however get the start of a dye stealer on the easy@home today (pic attached) so hopefully that will look better over the next couple of days. I've got 5 or 6 tests left and then that's me done.

I've not started spotting like last time so I'm just going to try and stay positive. How is everyone today? Where are you all in your cycles? I know you've probably joined a new TWW group but I'm still here to support you ❤️❤️❤️ xxx

TWW starting 31.07.22 - Company Needed
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TheCakeIsALie18 · 23/08/2022 13:11

@eleveneleven11 thank you. Yeah I'll be 6 weeks tomorrow. Past the first hard milestone and feeling good about that. I hope it's 3+ tomorrow because all good intentions of staying calm may slip out the window!

Sorry you've been having a rough time, but glad you're feeling better now! How long, roughly, till O this cycle? Glad you're feeling pretty chilled too. I hope this is the one for you! Xxx

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eleveneleven11 · 23/08/2022 12:57

@TheCakeIsALie18 definitely easier said than done but the intention is the first step! 2 days since your 5+4 milestone and not long to wait until the early scan :)

im doing ok today thank you - yesterday was tough, i had a bad weekend and fought tears in the car on the way to work but i'm feeling so much better today. my hormones and emotions are wild at the moment haha. AF has gone away (hopefully won't see her again for a long time!!!) and im feeling pretty chill about this cycle x

TheCakeIsALie18 · 23/08/2022 10:44

How is everyone today? Xxx

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TheCakeIsALie18 · 23/08/2022 10:44

Ok, another CB digital in the cupboard ready for tomorrow. Cramping isn't there today which is nice 🤣

Today I'm trying to take the "what will be will be" approach. So regardless of what the test tomorrow says, unless I start spotting or the cramping gets bad, I'm going to try not to worry...

Easier said than done though, right...

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eleveneleven11 · 23/08/2022 08:40

thanks for the advice ladies! when i get paid i'll get searching for some more vitamin gummies and make sure my husband is stocked up too :)

Nypie · 22/08/2022 20:20

@Hannargh I think I wasn't going to take that vitamin for the same reason but I'm now in the mind that if it changes your cycles theres probably something that needed to be changed! But you have to do what you feel is right. Ohh I've heard positive things about starflower I might add it to the list 😂🤣. Loving the SMEP light I'm also feeding DP vitamins and hes been banned from vaping. Ah it must be annoying having to wait so long but hopefully it gives the prep more time to work!

@xttcbabyno1x Honestly I would say I've lost it but this is quite typical behaviour 😂😂 sounds like a good idea! I guess its almost like testing early just because you dont see it doesnt mean its not there! But really hope its clear as daylight for you 🤞🤞🤞

@eleveneleven11 I love to research theres a book about taking control of your fertility and I might invest in it it looks like a text book! As @TheCakeIsALie18 said there are so many chewables online! I'm gonna get the magnesium one as stress is an issue for me. If your not fussy you can get a lot of these nutrients from food: lots of fish (not from a can), white meat, wholegrains, spinach, avocado, olive oil, brocolli, eggs, greek yogurt nuts and seeds

@TheCakeIsALie18 Glad you're feeling a bit better! That's annoying anout the test sounds like a good idea to give it a few more days thankfully these things aren't an exact science.

Thanks for that :) everything tightly cross for this bean!

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