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TWW starting 31.07.22 - Company Needed

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TheCakeIsALie18 · 31/07/2022 00:05

Hey all!

I'm on several other threads that I'm keeping up with but some of them are a tad long now, so I thought I'd start a new one for people to join.

Ovulation day for me today (30.07.22) so TWW starts officially tomorrow. AF due on the 12th. I have tests in the house, but my goal this month is to keep my mind busy and avoid symptom spotting! I don't plan on testing if I can help it. Want to avoid the disappointment if I can.

We are TTC #1 and we are in cycle 4 now. I had a chemical mid June when we weren't officially TTC but when it happened we realised now was the time to actively try. We wanted it so badly.

So that's a little about me and I would love some company in a slightly smaller thread.

Much love xoxox

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eleveneleven11 · 31/08/2022 08:45

@Shleepymummy heeyyy! hope you're good :) i've done opks and nothing on them just yet but i expected that. it was a little darker today than yesterday. i've never used the digitals before - do you get on with them? i've heard really mixed things!
if you run out of steam maybe try every other day? so maybe today, friday and then maybe saturday too if you can - see how it goes with the strip tests. i think that's what we're going to do! x

Hannargh · 31/08/2022 07:52

@Shleepymummy morning! No opk rise for me yet, and temps just hooping around doing their own thing so I'm hoping things will just happen quickly towards the weekend, rather than draw themselves out this time (and CD21 is already pretty late for ovulation). I use easy@home ones and they seem to catch the lh rise for me, but also I've never been pregnant so who knows?
How quickly do you normally get a rise? My mental dtd plan is Tues, Thurs and then Sat and Sun assuming it all ties in. I'm also conscious of not starting too early. We did 5 days in a row one cycle and it was a bit much 😅

Shleepymummy · 31/08/2022 06:32

Morning all! How’s all the testing going? I got a blank circle on digital yesterday and flashing smiley today. But cheap opks are so weak. It’s a new brand for me and I’m not loving them. Got 3 cheapies left from another brand which I might start trying. Thinking DTD tomorrow, Friday, Saturday? Or do I start tonight? I just know we always run out of steam, or I get too sore (tmi sorry) so don’t want to start baby dancing too early 😂

Nypie · 30/08/2022 03:57

@Shleepymummy tbh I still havent read the instructions for these new ones 😂😂 I've definitely had clearer results doing a 5 sec dip! But I would def whip it out right after the dye rises if I was you and see if that helps any

eleveneleven11 · 29/08/2022 21:13

@Shleepymummy @Hannargh hey! totally forgot to start opks today - definitely keep thinking it's sunday haha. i'll do my first one of this cycle when i wake up tomorrow! it's go timeeeee!

hope everyone has had a lovely long weekend xxx

Shleepymummy · 29/08/2022 20:05

@Nypie ah this is interesting! I have been dipping mine for ages cos it’s a new type and says wait until dye rises so I have been then leaving it a bit after that. Maybe I’m dipping too long!
will try and be good with time tomorrow morning

TheCakeIsALie18 · 29/08/2022 17:08

@Nypie thank you ❤️ I reckon this week is going to go crazy slow though haha. Xxx

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Nypie · 29/08/2022 17:04

@TheCakeIsALie18 haha fantastic tatic, I'll have to steal it when it happens for me. Well atleast hes expecting it so if it does happen he really should be prepared! Aww so soon well the lines are good signs that all will be well. And we'll all have our fingers and toes crossed for you!

TheCakeIsALie18 · 29/08/2022 16:45

@Nypie well I thought that if I wrote final on it then I wouldn't be temped to test anymore lol 🤣 DP is doing well. He was expecting me to be a hormonal mess and other than the weight gain meltdown I've been alright lol. I never get mood swings even on my period so fingers crossed I'll be pretty chilled for 9 months haha. Yeah, scan on Saturday so I will post pictures here so long as everything is going well ❤️

I'm glad you're feeling good. Fingers crossed for you. Hopefully TWW will go pretty quick for you 🥰 xxx

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Nypie · 29/08/2022 16:39

Thanks! @TheCakeIsALie18 @Shleepymummy I'm glad our part is done for this month. I'm feeling a bit more relaxed about it all we're hoping for some good news for our family but if not we'll spend next fertile week somewhere romantic so that'll be nice!

I love that you wrote final on number 30 😂 the lines look great! Exciting that your next photo on here might be your scan! How has dp been doing?

@Shleepymummy my opks were doing the same but I did change brand I also think I wis dipping them for too long as some of the lines had gaps in them 🙄

Hannargh · 29/08/2022 14:39

Such a lovely collection of tests @TheCakeIsALie18 !

@Shleepymummy my opks also seem pretty low compared to the last 2 months but I'm still expecting O on Fri or Sat. Assume they will start shooting up towards the end of the week 🤞
Bbt is all pretty normal (and low) so I'm not worried I've missed anything either.

Shleepymummy · 29/08/2022 14:35

Congrats @Nypie that O has been you did what you needed to do!
@eleveneleven11 and @Hannargh how are your OPKs? Mine seem to be getting weaker 😂 guna start the digital one from tomorrow, and expect a peak Friday Saturday or Sunday I guess. I haven’t done temp in 2 days just cos I get up then realise I’ve forgotten. Will try and get back on that but also, ergh. I’m tired 😴!

TheCakeIsALie18 · 29/08/2022 09:42

How is everyone today? I took my last test so now I'm done! What a large collections I've made 🤣 I'm glad it stopped on 30DPO though haha nice round number! Xxx

TWW starting 31.07.22 - Company Needed
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TheCakeIsALie18 · 29/08/2022 09:41

@Hannargh Thank you ❤️ the only problem is I can't afford a whole new wardrobe at the moment, or even a couple pairs of jeans lol. I'm just going to muddle through until there is a bump and then move to maternity clothes. The autumn will be here soon enough and I'll be in my big baggy jumpers anyway lol xxx

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Hannargh · 28/08/2022 23:17

@TheCakeIsALie18 oh yes I know that feeling well ... I think it's worth prioritising feeling comfortable at times (which may involve sizing up even if you don't want to think about it) so that you can still feel good about how you're looking - especially with everything to come in through next 9 months. I'm sure you look fab anyway, but I know that feeling good in your own skin can feel much harder sometimes.

TheCakeIsALie18 · 28/08/2022 22:14

@Nypie thanks. Yeah I just had a meltdown lol. I'm OK now though. I'm just going to work on not gaining more weight than necessary over the next 9 months.

I'm glad you defo caught O! I've got everything crossed for you. How are you feeling about this TWW? Xxx

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Nypie · 28/08/2022 22:11

@Hannargh @TheCakeIsALie18 nah, I'm cd16 today so this is my usual ovulation day I've just been a bit worried about my opks results so thought I'd be ovulating later but I think I've just been testig earlier then normal and throwing myself off! I think last time I was a simmilar cd to everyone but ovulated earlier.

@TheCakeIsALie18 sorry you've been upset about your weight! I've definitely felt that since coming of the pill. And I can imagine being pregnant and the hormones and all the changes coming up doesnt help!

TheCakeIsALie18 · 28/08/2022 09:40

@Hannargh I'm glad you're all caught up now. I'm doing alright thanks. I've got one more test for tomorrow then I'm done. I had a complete melt down yesterday about the amount of weight I've put on in the last couple years. I've only gone up a dress size but I ended up emptying my wardrobe while crying and only putting back what fits... not a lot I may add...

Oooh I'm glad you managed to DTD @Nypie when you found a random positive OPK, I thought it wasn't expected for another few days! Xxx

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Hannargh · 27/08/2022 23:33

@Nypie what CD is it for you? I thought you weren't expecting a positive opk until next weekend? Glad you caught it though! Definitely one plus to both bbt and opks!

Nypie · 27/08/2022 23:28

@Shleepymummy you're so right I think I forgot sometimes that no one is forcing me to do any of these things and as long as we're having sex we're covered.

Had the lowest bbt dip I've had since laat October so tested and positive opk had sex in the morning but wont be able to have dtd again till tomorrow evening but we've definitely covered our selves! Very happy to relax and move on to TWW. ( the absolute irony.)

@TheCakeIsALie18 glad you won't be testing next week. Your scan is sooo soon best to leave the checks to the professionals now🤞🤞🤞🤞

@Hannargh so glad you caught up on sleep! Im gonna go and do that now.

Hannargh · 27/08/2022 23:22

@TheCakeIsALie18 it was great, just exhausting and long. So glad things are back to normal and I've got a long weekend now to refresh. How are you doing? Xx

TheCakeIsALie18 · 27/08/2022 11:59

@Hannargh I'm glad your stressful week is finished now! How did it go?

Yeah, if all is well next weekend I'll pop the scan pics in here xxx

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Hannargh · 27/08/2022 11:33

Morning lovely people! @Nypie @Shleepymummy @eleveneleven11

@TheCakeIsALie18 excited to hear about your scan next week - please let us know how it goes if you like!

Looks like the rest of us are all going to be getting busy next weekend!
I've started opks now just in case but not due to O until next Friday/Saturday (timed for a little weekend away 😁). Currently CD15 so it's a long wait for me. Had some v low bbt temp dips in the first couple of weeks so did an opk each time to check but they were pretty normal.
Stressful long and late week is now over! Have caught up on some missing sleep and looking forward to a more relaxed couple of weeks ahead.

TheCakeIsALie18 · 27/08/2022 09:11

@Nypie @Hannargh @eleveneleven11 @Shleepymummy I'm glad you're all doing so well and are all feeling reasonably relaxed this cycle ❤️

I've been feeling pretty chilled too since hitting the 6 week milestone I set myself... over 90% chance of success now which is nice to think about. I won't be doing another digital and I've only got 2 easy@home tests left so after Monday no more testing. Got my early scan next Saturday at 7+3. So fingers crossed we get a good look at a little bean ❤️ xxx

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Shleepymummy · 26/08/2022 20:11

@eleveneleven11 yea we are on same schedule! Don’t worry about the booze, I’ve just had 2 glasses of wine for first time in agessss and really enjoyed it. Your mental health is just as important as physical in this process. I will start testing Monday too I think
@Nypie ah i totally get you. The longer you track the more stressful it can be! Keep going though, you’ll get those strong lines and will feel glad you did it. It’s a long shlog for sure but we are here for you! If you miss a day tomorrow, that’s ok too, you know it’s not for a a good couple of days so it’s ok to miss PoS for a few days and then see what’s happening

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