@99pctpractice yeah, i think so. I'm keen to move to private in 2022 and realistically it's going to be a November EC if we have a September failure. December will be unlikely because of Christmas closures.
Part of me wants to do more tests first but I can't see me wanting to delay. I think if this last, double transfer fails I'll put the house up for sale. I need to move on, I'm so tired. I won't stop IVF, but I need to change something in my life.