I really appreciate this thread and am in a similar position, so wondered if anyone might be able to advise!!
We had an NHS round last year which didn't feel very specific to our case. We had 2 failed FETs, I was 39 at the time with endometriosis. Looking back there were various elements to our treatment that I don't think were right for us. Long story short we're now between CRGH and ARGC (and I just turned 40, yay!) but I had consultations with them both today and they had quite opposing views on what to do:
ARGC -
Lots of tests esp. immunes
Fresh multiple transfer (if we had any/enough embryos - freeze any left over)
Opposed to FET in the first instance
Quite opposed to PGT-A testing in case of damage with our history of not great embryos
CRGH -
Not as much testing as they thought it was unlikely to be necessary in my case
Most likely FETso that:
- The embryos could be PGT-A tested to access embryo quality
- To have short down regulation before transfer as there was some concerns I could over-respond so diminishing risk of OHSS
Possibility of a fresh transfer followed by FET if there were enough/suitable embryos (which I don't take for granted after previous results) dependant on worries over OHSS and any endo implications.
I'm just really confused because ultimately we are choosing between 2 valid but opposing medical opinions. The thought of ARGC is appealing because FET drags on so long and maybe there 's slightly better odds fresh (although not necessarily with my history) but I did have some complications in our first round so I understand CRGH's caution. Equally I wouldn't want to get down the line with ARGC and have to transfer untested frozen embryos as it's too painful (we knew our last transfer was a really bad quality blast and it was soul-destroying spending the best part of 3 months in that case what with a really long down regulation, transfer and waiting when I knew all along it was very unlikely to work). I felt like we discussed things in more detail with CRGH and but then I know at ARGC there would be more monitoring. I gather that CRGH will be more of a standard process/maybe less personal but then the process suggested by ARGC felt more like what they suggest for everyone... so I'm confused.
Sorry this is so long, would love to hear any thoughts especially if anyone's been through something similar- it's really generous of people to share! I read quite a scathing post somewhere about ARGC and it almost made me laugh- most of the 'complaints' were just the general hideousness of IVF, so good to talk here with people that have been through it!💪😘