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Original poster

Hi - anybody else 'secretly' trying for next baby?

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cluckyagain · 17/01/2008 15:58

Hi - dh and I recently decided to go for another lo, but due to various circumstances (disapproving family mainly!) we've decided to keep it entirely secret - am I the only one?

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Marne · 17/01/2008 16:15

We are secretly trying [shhhh] for no 3, dh is worried as he is 40 this year (i'm 26). If i get pg dh wants to tell his family it weas'nt planned as he is worried at what they might think.

Scotia · 17/01/2008 16:11

I am (well me and dh!). Won't tell anybody until/if it happens - am getting on a bit and dd1 will be 25 this year, so not sure how it wil go down.

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cluckyagain · 17/01/2008 16:08

Weird isn't it!! I have one friend who knows too, (I had a blub on her shoulder) which helps, but it's really lonely....I suspect we may only try for a short time as I'm a touch impatient and want to either be pg or 'move on'.

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missnevermind · 17/01/2008 16:04

No - me too.
Had my sister round today saying it would be lovely if I had another now the boys are all grown up and I said I didnt think it was a good idea now. Even though we have been trying for nearly a year!
Have not told any family and only my best friend.

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