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Anyone in the TWW right now?!

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Itiswhatitis2021 · 13/07/2022 20:54

Hey it's been around 18 months of dtd and nothing so far, this month dtd 2 days before and on the day of Ov. Feeling like this could be it this month. I'm 1dpo. 🫣

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Sj2505 · 20/07/2022 09:08

@LauraA31 exactly, it's not over yet. But your bf is right, although TTC is hard there is always next time. I try to see periods as the start of a new cycle, rather than the end of this one... but philosophical but I try to be optimistic as I think it really helps.

@candycrush789 yes I see it! If that was yesterday and you did have implantation it would still be too early as there probably won't be enough hCG yet. But once implantation happens hCG should double every two days 🤞🏼

candycrush789 · 20/07/2022 09:02

@Sj2505 I'm 6/7dpo today, can you see anything or is it just my eyes? I took a test this morning, a first response and it was negative. I have cramps still though but if I'm honest I usually have cramps this tike in my cycle so I'm not sure 🤷‍♀️ I hope so but I'm not testing again until Saturday!

LauraA31 · 20/07/2022 09:00

@Sj2505 I have got everything crossed for you for Friday!
I gave in and tested again this morning, BFN but trying to stay positive! I have four more days before AF is due so im not out of the game yet (thanks to this thread for keeping my head in the game!)
Boyfriend thinks we are out, he has already said ‘don’t be sad, we will just try again next month’ haha!

Sj2505 · 20/07/2022 08:44

@candycrush789 absolutely it could be ib! Fx for you!! How many dpo are you now?

@CinderellaFant Welcome, and sorry for your loss in Jan ❤️

@Cegbee @Itiswhatitis2021 I don't blame you ladies, BFNs are exhausting 😭

@Doodle10 Welcome! It still could be ib, especially if you think you ovulated earlier than the app says.

I plan to test on Friday but it will still be early so I'm expecting BFN. I'm only testing as we're off out and if there's an early BFP to catch I want to catch it 😍
Failing that, I'll then test every two days. I'm off to Greece on Tuesday, so I'm likely to be either pregnant or with AF on what would have been our honeymoon.

Doodle10 · 20/07/2022 08:39

Hi all, joining this thread as I’m in the TTW too! I have been tracking my BBT for the last 3 months since coming off the pill, this is the first month that we have properly tried in terms of DDT as close to ovulation as possible. My natural cycles app says that I am 4DPO but I think could potentially be 6DPO as I had a large drop on CD13. However, I’ve been having spotting for the last 3 days it started very light pink but now it is very dark brown. It seems far too early for my AF but also too early to be implantation bleeding? I feel a bit stressed about it in case it is pointing to another issue. I’ve included pics! Sorry if TMI!

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Itiswhatitis2021 · 20/07/2022 08:05

@Cegbee u know what, that's strange as I was actually thinking the same. Thought about it in bed last night I'm sick and tired of seeing negative too.

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Cegbee · 20/07/2022 00:35

@Itiswhatitis2021 I think I might just wait until my period because I'm pretty sure it's going to be negative and I don't think I can handle a negative test. Good luck to you though- let us know how it goes!

CinderellaFant · 19/07/2022 21:41

3dpo here! Had a missed miscarriage in January and been trying ever since. Fingers crossed this is our month!

candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 21:22

Sorry forgot to attach pic!

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candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 21:21

So I've just had this in my shorts (too hot for undies 😂) I know you can't really see it so I've circled what I cam to hopefully make it easier, nothing when I wipe or when I cervix check, how ever was a TINY brown flake on the tissue. Could this be ib?

Strawberry08 · 19/07/2022 19:51

@Salpforyou that looks promising!! Fingers crossed. Take another tomorrow!

candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 18:01

More cramps, they have been mainly on left side but right now I feel like a pinch on my right side but it could be in my head who knows. Me and dh bd earlier so that could be why. Cervix high and medium softish, cm a bit wet, a bit dry I can't describe it. Roll on Friday when I do my first test all this symptom spotting is driving me mad! 😵‍💫

candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 17:45

@Longbin hopefully you get your bfp this month and you don't need to 🤞

@Salpforyou oh really maybe test again tomorrow or in a few days. I'm debating testing tomorrow with a frer, I'm due on next Thursday!

Ladies who have had implantation pain, is it just in one side or both sides like af cramps?

Salpforyou · 19/07/2022 15:22

@candycrush789 yea the line was there before I took the test apart

Longbin · 19/07/2022 14:52

@candycrush789 I'm starting IVF on 28th August. Testing 27th June I think!

candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 14:33

Do you think you will need to go down the Ivf route again? Again, sorry if you have already mentioned this🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ hopefully you get your bfp this month, when will you be testing?

Longbin · 19/07/2022 14:19

@candycrush789 I do, I was trying properly for about 3 years (not using contraception before for a bit) and then had a daughter from IVF. Most months I still think I have symptoms. The time I was through the IVF I thought I had none and it hadn't worked!

Itiswhatitis2021 · 19/07/2022 14:09

Cegbee · 15/07/2022 04:01

I'm going to try and wait until at least 12DPO to test so will be wed the 20th. Although I said that last month and caved at 9DPO!

Hey there are u still testing tmro? I will be Shock

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candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 13:46

@Longbin wow over 60 months, I feel for you. Its hard isn't it and this is only my 1st month 🤦‍♀️ have you got any children already? Sorry I'm not sure if you've already mentioned it!

Longbin · 19/07/2022 13:37

@candycrush789 I have cervical mucus when I'm not pregnant and I haven't noticed any when I am so I wouldn't rule yourself out from that. I've been TTC for over 60 months now and have thought I've had symptoms for about 55 of those, so I wouldn't worry 😂

candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 13:32

@Longbin I don't know I've been reading and apparently cm is an indicator, I only have it when I check my cervix and even then its not the discharge everyone says about maybe I should just wait a nit longer I just so wanted this to happen, an April baby for us would be amazing

candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 13:31

@Salpforyou was that line there before you took the test apart?

Longbin · 19/07/2022 13:30

@candycrush789 I really don't think you'd have signs by now at all. Most people would implant around this time so how would your body have signs of being pregnant?

Salpforyou · 19/07/2022 13:15

Lol let's the obsession in me begin! I took a test at 7dpo. Was just curious what would happen.

Anyway.. I took the test apart coz I wanted to see what's inside. Is this what line what people mean when they refer to indents?

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candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 11:56

@Sj2505 I'll be very surprised if I am pregnant this month as I've been reading forums and people have signs by now, I've had nothing at all so I'm not hopeful but we will see!