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Anyone in the TWW right now?!

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Itiswhatitis2021 · 13/07/2022 20:54

Hey it's been around 18 months of dtd and nothing so far, this month dtd 2 days before and on the day of Ov. Feeling like this could be it this month. I'm 1dpo. 🫣

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Sj2505 · 19/07/2022 11:33

candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 10:27

Really? It feels exactly the same as pre af cramps, even had watery poo sorry tmi 🤦‍♀️ done a cervix check and it's high and sort of soft i guess I'm not sure just feels like af is coming 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ my discharge isn't on my undies but when I took my fingers out it was stringy, milky, creamy? I don't know still too early to test though 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

@LauraA31 you may of implanted late, with my dd1 I tested at 9dpo and was negative and didn't get positive until 12 dpo, fx for you xx

Potentially yes, they say implantation can happen any time between 6dpo-12dpo depending on when you ovulate, how long your luteal phase is etc.
This pic came up on Flo today, might help you

Anyone in the TWW right now?!
candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 10:27

Really? It feels exactly the same as pre af cramps, even had watery poo sorry tmi 🤦‍♀️ done a cervix check and it's high and sort of soft i guess I'm not sure just feels like af is coming 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ my discharge isn't on my undies but when I took my fingers out it was stringy, milky, creamy? I don't know still too early to test though 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

@LauraA31 you may of implanted late, with my dd1 I tested at 9dpo and was negative and didn't get positive until 12 dpo, fx for you xx

Sj2505 · 19/07/2022 10:18

@LauraA31 no problem!
It's not over until the fat lady sings.. the fat lady singing being Aunt Flo 😆

LauraA31 · 19/07/2022 10:14

@Sj2505 Thank you! I have had a look through and that has certainly made me feel better. I have cancelled my smear for tomorrow just in case and will continue to test 😅

Sj2505 · 19/07/2022 09:58

@candycrush789 sounds like the perfect time for implantation so stay hopeful!! It's all we can do at this stage 🤞🏼

@LauraA31 sorry to hear it's a BFN but it certainly doesn't rule you out. Type into the search thread "line eyes" the OPs are people with faint lines and some are 11/12dpo

Fx one of us will start a BFP boom!
I'm managing to keep myself busy and ignore any signs putting them all down to the progesterone surges post ovulation until rough time of implantation. I am still checking my cervix though and this morning it is high and soft again, but it can't seem to make its mind up 😆

Itiswhatitis2021 · 19/07/2022 09:31

@candycrush789 hey that could be implantation hang in there!

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LauraA31 · 19/07/2022 08:56

I impatiently decided to test again this morning using the first response, negative again!
I am only 9DPO but have convinced myself im out now, think i have watched too many videos where people get positives at 9DPO!

candycrush789 · 19/07/2022 08:05

Well I've woke up this morning, still got a high fever but I've git cramps and I feel like af could be coming early, I'm around 6dpo today. Doesn't look good for me

Salpforyou · 18/07/2022 23:04

@candycrush789 hahah if I had it my way and tests weren't so expensive I would have been testing everyday since 1DPO! Lol but I know it will be negative and the tests are costing money so gotta keep the curiosity at bay 😂

candycrush789 · 18/07/2022 22:31

Fingers crossed you get your positive ! I'm 8dpo Friday so I'm in 2 minds to test then or not, I'm just so inpatient 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Salpforyou · 18/07/2022 21:41

@candycrush789 this is my first time so I'm just following what I'm seeing everyone else say.. no to test before 10dpo so I guess I'm waiting until Friday

candycrush789 · 18/07/2022 21:20

Neither have I as far as I remember. I haven't implanted yet as its wayyyyyy too early, might just be one of them estrogen surges as it not really there anymore. Time is going soooo slow, I googled when is the 1st time I can test roughly and it said Friday. 3 more days to go although I'm prepared for a bfn as could be too early still!

Longbin · 18/07/2022 21:10

@candycrush789 you can get get EWCM after implantation I think. I've never noticed any in either of my pregnancies

candycrush789 · 18/07/2022 21:04

Fx for you @Salpforyou lots of baby dust too! When are you going to test x

Salpforyou · 18/07/2022 20:56

I'm only at 6dpo and I don't usually get nausea from AF but I have it today. Might these just be nerves? Or a bug? (Hopefully not covid) Surely it's too early for this to be the symptom of a BFP..

candycrush789 · 18/07/2022 20:52

Oh really @Longbin maybe I might be ok then, is it more after implantation? We dtd 3 or 4 times in my fertile window, I ovd cycle day 16 and dtd day 12 14 and 17 I just hope its enough 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Longbin · 18/07/2022 20:45

@candycrush789 I don't think it matters too much after ovulation, I've never checked before my period

candycrush789 · 18/07/2022 20:24

cos it's meant to be creamy/lotiony isn't it? I don't know tbh my youngest is nearly 5 so it's been a while since I've done this 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I tried to @ your name but it says it doesn't exist not sure why x

salpforyou · 18/07/2022 19:57

candycrush789 · 18/07/2022 18:10

Just had more cm but this time it's just sticky and my fingers look wet 🤷‍♀️ I think I'm already counting myself out for this month even though I'm 4/5dpo, I've just researched so much x

@candycrush789 Why would cm at 5dpo count you out?

candycrush789 · 18/07/2022 19:35

In only 4/5dpo so surely my body doesn't even realise yet so surely I won't get any tell tale signs?! I don't know 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ no I'm going to watch it now , hopefully I will be a bit.more positive after! X

Sj2505 · 18/07/2022 19:05

FSGD Digital Basal Body Thermometer, Fertility Monitor with Smart App, Draw BBT Chart & Pinpoint Ovulation Day Automatically for NFP, High Accuracy Perfect Companion for Ovulation amzn.eu/d/hRVNntk

This is the one I have, but it certainly wasn't £25 at the time haha. But there's loads of cheaper ones that do two decimal places.

@LauraA31 my OH keeps laughing at me because it's all I talk about at the moment, telling him every single symptom and all about my cervix and CM several times a day haha!

LauraA31 · 18/07/2022 19:02

@Sj2505 I have only bought one box of first response so far, last month I went crazy and bought boxes of clearblue so i have three full boxes of them too, then some cheapies from boots/Amazon. Boyfriend was mortified when he realised how much i had spent 😂
worst part of it all, i didn’t track ovulation so tested for almost two weeks daily and then AF arrived- I did not plan that month well hahaha! X

Sj2505 · 18/07/2022 18:48

@candycrush789 that ought to still work haha, although if you wanted to try tracking BBT it might be worth getting a proper BBT one because they tend to have the temp at 2 decimal places. They say tracking it is very effective because your temp should drop suddenly when you ovulate (mine did this month). They're only about £7 on Amazon. I'll find the link for the one I have.
Did you watch the video about implantation? It's restored my hope for this cycle.

@LauraA31 a couple of days after implantation would be good I think. Just depends if you can wait until Wednesday 😉
I've not even bought my tests yet because I know I'll start haha!

candycrush789 · 18/07/2022 18:10

Just had more cm but this time it's just sticky and my fingers look wet 🤷‍♀️ I think I'm already counting myself out for this month even though I'm 4/5dpo, I've just researched so much x

LauraA31 · 18/07/2022 16:51

@Sj2505 im trying to not allow myself to get too excited, but this kind of thing has never happened before. My periods are very predictable, i bleed and nothing before, that’s why they could always catch me out as i have no signs and boom it’s here 😂
Im hoping that this is a good sign.
Im unsure when to test again, ive read so much about 48 hours from implantation, tempted to try again in the morning but think im setting myself up for disappointment! AF due on Sunday.

@candycrush789 thank you so much! X

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