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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Anyone else due to test around 30th June/1st July?

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allgoodthings84 · 19/06/2022 18:35

I’m now 3dpo and trying to feel positive. My OPK peak times up with when I had EWCM and I’m sure I had some ovulation pain on Thursday. I’ve never realised it before now but I nearly always have a pain for a few hours in between AF’s so guess I nearly always have it but never paid any attention to what is was or why. Even though the timings all line up I still have a fear that I ovulated much later and missed dtd at the right time. I know it’s irrational 😂

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Angie2018 · 27/06/2022 18:45

@OCM19 oh you want to see my Google history today 😁😁😁😁😁

Left nipple slightly sore "types into Google" "sore left nipple and BFP" 🤣🤣🤣

I'm a totally idiot. But hey! What can I do!

Desperate times forces desperate measures to keep mind occupied xx

OCM19 · 27/06/2022 18:09

@Angie2018 haha and me!! I’ve worked out the due date and my maternity pay 🫣 oh dear!! X

Angie2018 · 27/06/2022 17:06

@OCM19 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I call it ME 🤣🤣🤣 xx

OCM19 · 27/06/2022 16:53

@Angie2018 it sure is…what do you call an overthinker who overthinks?! 😂 xx

Angie2018 · 27/06/2022 16:49

@OCM19 overthinking is just the norm when TTC right?

Thank you and you! Nothing much to do but wait patiently 😢 x

OCM19 · 27/06/2022 16:24

@Angie2018 @vitahelp It really is a rollercoaster of emotions isn't it - try not to be too hard on yourself, although I know it's hard.

Ok, now I feel the pressure 😅maybe I will hold off until Wednesday if I can, it's just in wfh on my own tomorrow so my mind will be overthinking! x

Angie2018 · 27/06/2022 16:22

@vitahelp I totally get what you mean!that's why I feel down today as I am convincing myself I am not pregnant so I don't come crashing down to earth. I've just read a really interesting article though and has made me feel better about not feeling anything right now.

www.avawomen.com/avaworld/6-dpo-symptoms/

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vitahelp · 27/06/2022 16:21

@Angie2018 Hope you're okay, it's hard isn't it. I feel like I'm on a rollercoaster, some days I'm upbeat and feel like I will be ok whatever the outcome of this cycle. Then other times I'm so down about it. I feel so silly as it is my first cycle trying and I really need to calm down, but I just get so invested quickly.

vitahelp · 27/06/2022 16:20

My mind is definitely playing tricks on me, felt a weird fluttering feeling in my pelvis earlier for about 30 mins. Felt a bit like going over a speed bump where your stomach summersaults. Majorly overthinking this now and it's actually got my hopes up for the first time that I might actually be pregnant - which is a dangerous place to be as I don't want that horrible disappointment. I'd rather think that I'm not and then get a surprise if it turns out I am.

Angie2018 · 27/06/2022 16:15

@OCM19 keep us posted!! I won't be testing until the end of the week unless I know AF is coming. Feeling shitty now just the waiting has got to me x

vitahelp · 27/06/2022 16:09

@OCM19 Oo excited for you, let us know how you get on!

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allgoodthings84 · 27/06/2022 15:58

@OCM19 oh wow our first tester! I hope you get a bfp! Will it be in the morning?

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OCM19 · 27/06/2022 15:56

Thanks @allgoodthings84 @Angie2018 …likelihood is I will probably cave and start testing tomorrow 🤦‍♀️ I have no willpower!

Angie2018 · 27/06/2022 14:14

OCM19 · 27/06/2022 13:59

@allgoodthings84 am I right in thinking that if implantation happened on, say, 9DPO, it can take 2-3 days to show on a pregnancy test? X

Yes this is absolutely correct! X

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allgoodthings84 · 27/06/2022 14:02

@OCM19 absolutely as I don’t think HGC starts until implantation from what I’ve read so could be a couple days after that until showing on an early test. A normal test might not show until after AF due

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OCM19 · 27/06/2022 13:59

@allgoodthings84 am I right in thinking that if implantation happened on, say, 9DPO, it can take 2-3 days to show on a pregnancy test? X

Angie2018 · 27/06/2022 13:58

@vitahelp I totally agree! Let's keep it going 🥰 I feel asymptomatic too.

Tummy is slightly irritated like it was when I implanted last month and very minor strange feelings in tummy but I suspect it's nothing x

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allgoodthings84 · 27/06/2022 12:58

@Leavesstartingtoturn ah so 7dpo today so very unlikely to test positive. Not impossible but very unlikely so if you do test tomorrow at 8dpo don’t get disheartened if you see a negative as it’s still so early, too early for most people as average implantation isn’t until 9dpo

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allgoodthings84 · 27/06/2022 12:56

Hi @calipoppy. I’m so sorry about what you went through.

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vitahelp · 27/06/2022 12:55

OCM19 · 27/06/2022 11:26

Oh @Angie2018 you're so lovely, always looking for the best in peoples circumstances! Thank you :)

Can we make another group after this for those who don't get BFP's this month to keep the group going as the support is so nice!

Yes great idea about another group, it would be actually really comforting to know I can still connect with some of you ladies if I get a BFN.

I'm feel very normal and un-symptomatic today which is worrying me..

@Leavesstartingtoturn Try not to give your BFN any thought or concern, it was way too early so doesn't mean anything.

@calipoppy It's quite nice having the data to compare too, but it can also make things worse as every time something doesn't exactly match up with then I just assume I'm not pregnant this time. Even though I know logically that each pregnancy could be different. I know once I'm in double figures 10dpo I'll start getting tempted to test,

calipoppy · 27/06/2022 12:41

@vitahelp that's good to know - I can't remember with my DD how many dpo I was positive but I know with my last pregnancy I was 2 days before my period, I hadn't tested sooner though and hadn't tracked ovulation so doesn't help much!

I'm going to try and resist tomorrow but being honest I'll probably do another test 🫣

calipoppy · 27/06/2022 12:39

@BlondePotter thanks so much, you're actually the first person who's recognised how triggering the news is for me at the moment, I really appreciate it ❤️

I don't really know when AF was due as my cycles haven't settled since the loss - last month was only 24 days but today I'm day 27! Even Flo can't give me a prediction so that's why I'm finding it so hard to resist testing!

Really hope this will be a lucky group with lots of positives by the end of the week 🤞🤞

Leavesstartingtoturn · 27/06/2022 12:31

I’m pretty certain I ovulated either last Sunday or Monday. More likely Monday. I had the solid smiley face on the clear blue digi tests first thing (before 6 - thanks DS!) on Sunday 19th.

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allgoodthings84 · 27/06/2022 12:17

@Leavesstartingtoturn the longer you leave it the more accurate it will be. When did you ovulate do you know? With 6 days until AF if you get a negative result it may not be accurate still as very early

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Leavesstartingtoturn · 27/06/2022 12:07

According to the first response website I can test tomorrow. My period is due Sunday … I don’t think I’ve been lucky but we’ll see! I will try to leave it until Wednesday to test.