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TTC Waiting room stay as long at you like part 4

995 replies

fruitloop79 · 13/01/2008 19:44

Oooh, my first big thread

May I begin by saying I wish you all the bestest of luck!

Ok, shall I attempt to update the list?

OP posts:
07mumstheword · 14/01/2008 22:28

She's not so bad then if she doesn't know you are trying but it still hurts. Chin up hopefully you will be PG by May and can tell her the good news.

07mumstheword · 14/01/2008 22:26

Sambands I don't know looking at your stats you BD'd up to and including CD19? So unless you are ovulating very late you should be ok and remember those little swimmers can survive up to 5 days. BD tonight just in case but in my humble opinion you got it right.

Insensitive comments are hard to take. As if we need our noses rubbed in it It will be our turn soon and we will have empathy with others that are trying.

sambrads · 14/01/2008 22:23

thanks so much mrsei25 !!!!

i ahve not told her iam ttc actually i have told noone except you all!!!!!!

thanks for the hugs!!!!!

MrsEi25 · 14/01/2008 22:09

sambrads it is hard to hear people making insensitive comments isnt it!! my sister keeps complaining to me that i shouldnt be so "desperate" for another baby as i have got one already and she hasnt!! she isnt in a relationship or anything close and isnt even interested in haveing kids yet so i just try to nod along and blank my mind out from her!! it usually works unless she changes the subject while i am daydreaming dont let comments get to you hun we all know what you are dealing with we are there too and we will all be graduates eventually{{{{hugs}}}}
xx ei xx

sambrads · 14/01/2008 21:59

do you think i have mumstheword????

i was on a site called babycenter and they have an ovulation tool and it told me my fertile days were 5th til 10th of jan so hopefully i got it right????

cant bear to see a negitive !!

my sis has just had a baby and all she keeps saying is i am having anothere 1 in may time and it only took me 1 night of sex and i was pregnant!!!!
i swear i feel like killing her !!!!!!

07mumstheword · 14/01/2008 21:50

Thanks Sambands I hope you haven't "messed" it up this month. It would be so much easier if we had a clear sign that OV was about to happen instead of all this CM that can be hard to study! Fingers crossed you managed it at the right time.

sambrads · 14/01/2008 21:47

hello everyone!!!!!

hi ya fruitloop i ahve been away all day sorry!!!
my husband was on the lap top and i was saying "get off i need to talk to my ladies!!!!!"

not sure what to make of your symptoms???

i am feeling quiet confused myself as i was really dry and now i have alot of cm and also feel like i am taking af!!!!

i am a bit cross wit myself as i have not bding since thursday and think i might ahve messed this month up but i will defo tonight!!
i think if i have ovulated it would have happened already????

so confused could cry!!!!!

mumstheword i totally know what your going through as i am on cycle 8 to more and it will also be double figures!!!
its so so hard

neveronamonday · 14/01/2008 21:44

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ClairePO · 14/01/2008 21:27

Bucky I'm so sorry she got you

I hope you just forgot to include yourself.

07mumstheword · 14/01/2008 20:49

Me too Bucky

MrsEi25 · 14/01/2008 20:48

sorry bucky but i just had a look on the list and noticed you werent on there was just wonderin where you have gone?? are you ok??
xx ei xx

MrsEi25 · 14/01/2008 20:45

i might buy a little one after work tomorrow MTW and see but im not being too hopeful as i dont want to be disappointed again iyswim
sorry AF got you BTW i posted on the 2ww thread but thought i would here too
xx ei xx

LuckyBucky · 14/01/2008 20:42

Just updating the list...

07mumstheword CD1 Cycle 10 TTC#2(CP July+Sept)
LittleSquirt CD3 Cycle 8 TTC #1 (MMC Jul 07 - Asherman's)
Neveronamonday CD3 Cycle 3 TTC#2
Mrsei25 CD3 cycle 3 TTC#2
ClairePO CD4 Cycle 4 TTC#1 Post MC Sept 07
GreenGlassGoblin CD4 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Anniemac CD9 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Madoldbird CD10 Cycle 6 TTC#3
Spink CD11 cycle 7 TTC#2
GryffinGirl CD11 cycle 13 TTC#1
Glastochick CD12 Cycle 4 TTC #1
Grinningbee CD12 Cycle 2 TTC #1 (MMC Oct 07)
Shreksmissus CD13 Cycle 14 (since mc nov. '06) TTC#2
MrsBish CD13 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Pistachio CD16 Cycle 3 TTC #2
LobstersLass CD17 Cycle 1 TTC#1
Hedgepig CD18 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Teeheelady CD18 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (mc Oct07)
toytownmum CD19 Cycle 7 TTC#3
dressedupandnowheretogo CD21 cycle 1 TTC#2
Fruitloop79 CD22 cycle 3 TTC#2
Musicgirl CD22 Cycle 2 TTC1
Sambrads CD23 Cycle 8 TTC#2
Cricri CD24 Cycle 4 TTC#1 (mc Sept '07)
MissusH CD25 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Mybabysinthegarden CD25 Cycle 3 TTC#2
Abbymeg CD25 Cycle 5 TTC#2
Fairysnuff CD26 Cycle 6 TTC#2
cbcb CD26 Cycle 4 TTC #3
Eleveld CD27 Cycle 1 TTC#1
Sandies CD27 Cycle 3 TTC#4
ScaryHairy CD28 Cycle 5 TTC#2
PicknMix CD28 Cycle 6 TTC#1 (mc Jan '07)
JollyBear CD34 Cycle 3 TTC#1
Emmsy CD36 cycle 3 MC3 TTC*4
Kate2179 CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#1 post mc Oct07
Mibbes CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#1
Colabottle CD38 Cycle ? TTC#2
theowlwhowasafraidofthedark CD46 Cycle 7 TTC#1

TTC GRADUATE LIST (we WILL be on it)
Sarahnh BFP 3-Dec [CD24 Cycle 11 TTC#2]
TwilightSurfer BFP 6-Dec [CD26 Cycle 1 TTC#2 (mc Nov 07)]
Foghornleghorn BFP 6-Dec [CD42 Cycle 2 TTC#3]
Holly78 BFP 11 Dec [CD? Cycle 1 TTC#3]
Pennybenjamin BFP 15 Dec [CD23 Cycle6 TTC#1]
Kiddiecare BFP 19 Dec
Nooneputsbabyinthecorner 25 Dec [CD?] Cycle ? TTC#?
Lockets 27 Dec [CD32 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Hopefully 28 Dec [CD27?] Cycle 1 TTC#1
Excitable 29 Dec [CD36 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Starlight 29 Dec [CD39 Cycle 2 TTC#2 (MC Oct 07)]
Kirstygem 29 Dec CD28 Cycle 4 TTC#2
Meglet 30 Dec [CD27 TTC#2 POST-MC:NOV07]
Biglips BFP 03 Jan (CD24 cycle 2 TTC~#2)
BabyFever BFP 12 Jan [CD31 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Becaroo BFP 12 Jan [CD30 Cycle1 Post-mc TTC#2]
Digitalgirl BFP 13 Jan [CD32 Cycle 4 TTC#1]

MrsEi25 · 14/01/2008 20:42

i dunno littlesquirt i didnt have this last time i was pg so i havent got any experince in this kinda symptom!! i kept having small gushes so i thought but when i was checking there was only a little tiny bit there(tmi sorry) i dont want to get my hopes up thinking it might be an implantation bleed or anythin like that but to be honest i remember the month before i got my BFP with DD i had a really light odd AF and was convinced i was pg but alas i wasnt but i was the following cycle weird esp as i was right on my dates aswell
xx ei xx

07mumstheword · 14/01/2008 20:40

kate ???? Don't be scared we wont tell a soul.

07mumstheword · 14/01/2008 20:38

Mrsei Do you think it would be a good idea to test? It sounds very strange considering you usual heavy periods. I would have to test just to make sure.

Thanks Littlesquirt Very good luck to you too hope all the operations are a success and you can get on with TTC again.

LittleSquirt · 14/01/2008 20:36

ei are you sure this was AF? Could it be implantation bleeding?

MrsEi25 · 14/01/2008 20:35

OMG KATE does that mean what i think it means???
xx ei xx

LittleSquirt · 14/01/2008 20:33

Oooh Kate, that's sooo exciting!!

Thank you so much for your kind wishes mibbes! When are you testing? Sounds like you could be joining the Graduates list soon!! I hope so!

MTW - good luck to you this month. With the help of your new Persona monitor, this month could well be your month! Fingers crossed!

MrsEi25 · 14/01/2008 20:33

hi girls
hope all goes well for your op next week littlesquirt
welcome to eleveld
hi to everyone else god you lot can talk!! we are already onto the second page and its only been open for buisness on this lovely new thread for 2 days
ok so a quick question...
i started spotting on late friday night so my official CD1 was saturday. i have however only had a v light AF and it has all dried up[sorry tmi!!] now and i usually have medium to heavy periods that last between 3 and 5 days (they are so heavy that i usually use a whole pack of super plus tampons and a large pack of night time always pads)
and this time i have only used the light ultra pads as i was waitin for af to arrive with bells on but she hasnt and now AF has gone awol again!!
anyone know about or have experience with this kind of problem???
i am a bit peeved with it all TBH cos if shes not goin to make her presence known properly then she should just pee off and leave me in peace
we are planning to start our BD-athon from tonight to get in the practice as we havent 'done it' for over a week as i have been so tired!! i am goin to see my GP onb thursday so i might meantion it to him and see what he says.
ah well
sorry bout the super long post i am such a waffler!!
xx ei xx

07mumstheword · 14/01/2008 20:31

I can't stand the suspense, who's tested and who hasn't

kate2179 · 14/01/2008 20:27

mibbes that means you have to test too!

kate2179 · 14/01/2008 20:25

Hello ladies...ummm.... you know what you were just saying fruitloop about this being a very lucky thread ...

Not saying anything . Can't cos I haven't even told DH yet!

Am quite with myself for even testing only 11 DPO, though mostly just terrified!!!!

mibbes · 14/01/2008 20:20

Good stuff MTW get all your weaponry ready to take on the next cycle This time you will beat AF !
Welcome back littlesquirt, all the best to you.
Fruitloop are you opking/charting to try and see what is happening in there or just bd'ing loads in the hope you get lucky ? Hope this is a less epic cycle for you.
DG good to see you are still hanging around and helping the ladies in their quest
Hi Kate sorry you are feeling . Any twinges atall..? I am definitely waiting as dp too scared to test. still no AF or any signs. Just fell asleep on the sofa so am clearly tired, also still thirsty and achy boobs sometimes.

07mumstheword · 14/01/2008 19:59

Evening all. It takes so long to catch up in here.

Mylittleeloise Lovely to see you back and hope you don't have to wait too long for a sticky BFP.

Well I collected the Clearblue Fertility monitor and it turned out to be a Persona Monitor! I went back to Boots and they were happy to exchange my CB sticks for Persona ones thank God or that would have been another £20 down the drain! It looks very complicated but will set it up ready

Lobsterlass Fruitloop Claire mibbes and anyone else I've missed, thank you so much for your kind words and support. It really helps me to stay positive.