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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Testing around 21st May

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thinkingoutloud2 · 07/05/2022 16:41

Hey lovely mumsnetters,

Anyone else starting their TWW and want to join this thread and hold internet hands with each other? x

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Tropicana1 · 12/05/2022 07:59

@ZazuMoon I agree! But this is surely too early for any real symptoms! Same again this morning opened the fridge and it smelled very "fridgey" 😂

ZazuMoon · 11/05/2022 22:00

@Tropicana1 Salad and cereal are not usually particularly heavily scented though 🤔 I’m encouraging the overthinking. I don’t know why I do it to myself!
Sorry to everyone else who has experienced pregnancy loss and let’s hope this thread brings some luck to some of us!
I too started out all breezy and ‘if it happens, it happens’ but now that it hasn’t happened I need to revert back to slightly obsessive tracking of my body throughout my cycle. It was only when I became more focused on tracking my ovulation properly that I conceived my first, which is the opposite of the ‘just relax’ guidance we usually hear. 🙄

LeftTheWashingOut · 11/05/2022 20:50

Hello all, after vowing not to become as obsessed and on these boards all the time, since we decided to try for number 2 I'm back! This will be the first cycle me and DH have been TTC number 2, our DS is 2. We sort of half arsed it this month - I started off all breezy and relaxed, and then as soon as I got closer to ovulation started obsessing again. In the end I don't quite think we timed it all that well as by the time I ovulated we had both come down with colds/DS wouldn't cooperate by being awake all evening...

I think I'm 2/3 DPO but haven't bought any tests yet, figured I'll just wait until AF is late who am I kidding that's obviously not how it's going to go

thinkingoutloud2 · 11/05/2022 20:42

And hello to everyone else here 👋

No symptoms for me yet, but I keep googling details on early sensitive tests like first response - even though I've never been able to get an early positive! Don't want to waste my money this time!

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thinkingoutloud2 · 11/05/2022 20:38

Hey @Rellington21 sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I miscarried last December. Found out at my 12 week scan too, having previously seen baby and heart beat at 7 weeks. Also ended up having D&C after failing to miscarry naturally, and with the pills. Such a rough experience.

This is my first time trying since all that happened. I have 2 children, this would be baby number 3 for me if I'm lucky.

x

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WednesdayStar4 · 11/05/2022 19:47

hey all, I’ll be testing towards the end of the month. On CD 17 but don’t don’t know if I have ovulated yet because my OPK readings show that I’ve had continued l
smaller peaks after my main peak and I can’t work out what it means. Very frustrating.

Anyway, I’m cycle 1 of TTC number 2. My DD is 9 in July. I had an ectopic pregnancy last month. Back in the TTC game. I’m reallly bad at getting obsessed 🤦🏻‍♀️

Rellington21 · 11/05/2022 15:17

@Tropicana1 & @ZazuMoon thank you both!

I will be in the same boat as you symptom spotting in the next few days 😂fingers crossed for you. These two weeks are the worst I’m so impatient

Tropicana1 · 11/05/2022 13:45

Hi @Rellington21 - sorry to hear about you MC

@ZazuMoon I'm also majorly symptom spotting 😂 4DPO and just opened the fridge and smelt a bag of salad in the bottom drawer - I had a really heightened sense of smell with number 1 so I'm probably just noticing smells more because I'm looking for it

ZazuMoon · 11/05/2022 13:21

Hello @Rellington21 . Sorry to hear about your MMC but it is so good that you keep feeling positive about it. I keep imagining I am having symptoms but at 5/6dpo that is unlikely. I did really feel that I could smell the wheat in my son’s breakfast cereal this morning though, but it is probably psychosomatic. Smell is how I found out with my son.
How is everyone doing and does anyone else have phantom symptoms?

Rellington21 · 11/05/2022 09:05

Hi guys, can I join - AF due 25th so slightly after you! TTC #1 cycle 10 with a MMC in October (was at the 12 week scan and stopped developing after 8 weeks) ended up having a D&C. Feeling positive about this cycle but I always am and then ends in BFN! My TWW technically starts tomorrow according to my app. How is everyone feeling?

thinkingoutloud2 · 07/05/2022 19:36

Great. Yes it's a very distracting time! I can't help wondering what's going on inside me - it's fascinating!

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ZazuMoon · 07/05/2022 18:51

I’m in. This is the first time I’ve acknowledged to anyone (other than DH of course!) that we are trying to conceive after a long time of tests and hoping in silence. Nothing obvious flagged up in blood tests or scans. Trying to conceive number 2. DS is getting on for 3. Does anyone else wonder if life is potentially all kicking off down there right now or is that just me? 😁

LizzeyBenett · 07/05/2022 17:42

Due to test on the 20th fingers crossed

Ellswells3 · 07/05/2022 17:23

Hey @thinkingoutloud2 I am due to test on the 23rd but planning to test on the 21st on 12dpo because I’m at a wedding that day and just can’t help myself (also may decide if I have a drink or not!!). I’m still in my fertile window so trying not to overthink it but know I’m going to find the 2ww so tough!!

Tropicana1 · 07/05/2022 17:21

Hey @thinkingoutloud2 I'll be testing around then too (or a few days before in all likelihood 😂) positive OPK yesterday so assuming today as ovulation day 😊
I tend to have a slightly shorter luteal phase I think so usually only around 11 days between ovulation and day 1 of my period

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