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I have done two tests today that say im pregnant (I think) and I am shocked to the core

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amIpregnant · 08/01/2008 13:50

we havent been trying per say and it is a shock a very very very big shock

as both other dc were difficult and lengthy to conceive

I will have 3 under 5 and I am scared

the tests are cheap predicter ones which I have found hard to read but I think they say pregnant very faintly

please advise me its silly but i am upset

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StarlightMcKenzie · 09/01/2008 14:30

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soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 14:22

im scared that im bleeding

as i have two kids and didnt with the other two and i do feel crampy

I dont know if its normal

thats it really

tho dh will get a huge shock at the pos tests again today

we both found yesterday a hard day

StarlightMcKenzie · 09/01/2008 14:19

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soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 14:13

aw thanks

Im just shocked as I resolved myself to not being preg after yesterdays shananigans

i did the sec test there with lunchtime pee and it is a faint but visible cross too

i just cant understand the blood

I am being paranoid prob

I have made a doc app for 4 o clock too and nurse should be ringing me back though whether they do i dont know as i have a doc appt now

am shocked again as wasnt expecting a pos

i am quite frankly scared!!!

StarlightMcKenzie · 09/01/2008 14:08

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soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 13:54

not yet - waiting by the phone

i can maybe get down once my hub is home to the doc as i would love them to test me to see as i still have some of my morning urine same one thats said i am preg

i cant beleive this how bizarre eh

roller coaster to say the least

waiting here house is a pit but im in a bit of a state as do not want to be preg and then miscarry or have an ectopic or something and it looks like something is going on eh though maybe a wee bit of bleeding is normal

i just dont know!

Fireflyfairy2 · 09/01/2008 13:47

Did the nurse call you back?

soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 13:45

thanks ladies I am just all a whirl again as all the tests were neg and doc made me feel stupid re the faint lines on the predicter tests

i now want to e preg but Im scared about this wee bit of bleeding well brown stuff really and that wee patch of tiny red i had a few days ago

I am so glad i can come on here

tho I am betting youre all sick of my stupid saga!!!

soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 13:43

I have had about 1 pennies worth of red blood a few days ago on a pad - very little

I am just shocked again as I took the sample but havent had time to do the test till I got ds to nursery just now as was convinced i wasnt preg anyway and am tired of taking tests quite honestly!

I am a wee bit crampy and am now wondering if this is a miscarriage beginning or something????

I looked up according to my last period date and i would be six weeks preg tomorrow - is this normal then?

I dont have any RL pals to talk to right now about this

I am just so shocked its showing positive as the test was neg at the docs and I did three more last night too and they wereneg too

Though I havent dont a clear blue one until today and I trust them the most

lulumama · 09/01/2008 13:40

you are pregnant

you must have got a false negative at the docs, especially as it was very dilute wee and in the afternoon, test might not have been sensitive enough to pick up HcG

brown spotting not neccesarily sinister, as has been said, but keep an eye on things, maybe call doc to update them, and keep hold of the test just in case

Buda · 09/01/2008 13:39

My sis had this. No AF. Lots of tests. Some faint positives. Some negatives. Doc said no. Doc said wait and see.

He is nearly 4!

GreenGlassGoblin · 09/01/2008 13:38

I don't think brown spotting is sinister, because brown is old blood. I think it's red you have to watch out for. And if a CB says pg, you're pg. Hope you're ok and the drs/nurse are a bit more use this time...

soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 13:34

Hi all, this is my update last night I have had some brown spotting and a little brown spotting when i wipe but the test this am , a clear blue def says I AM pregnant - a def cross - but now i am wondering what on earth is going on and my doc poo pood me yesterday.

I have phoned the nurse.

I used the morning urine.

is this bleeding sinister????

please advise - I am upset again

Dropdeadfred · 08/01/2008 19:35

If you haven't come on in the next day or two it may be orth testing again (like I know you will not be able to resist testing first thing on the morning!!!! )

Be kind to yourself, you had a shock and then a disappointment today.

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amIpregnant · 08/01/2008 19:33

has anyone ever had posotives in the am and negative tests later in the day - is that actually what can happen or one of those pregnancy myths x

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amIpregnant · 08/01/2008 19:32

Indeed you have helped me alot arent I silly to be upset

but I am

I will go for that bath!

I did wonder that dropdeadfred but doc said it would have showed by now regardless as my last period start day was nov29th and this would be long enough? so I am presuming it is neg

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TheDuchessOfNorksBride · 08/01/2008 19:29

Oh I am sorry. On the plus side, you've decided that you do want another child and we've reassured you that having a hatful of small children all at once is perfectly manageable.

So best of luck for no. 3!

lulumama · 08/01/2008 19:28

not stupid in the slightest

now go and do the bath , you will feel better x

Dropdeadfred · 08/01/2008 19:28

I don't want to add to your uncertainty but the test your doc did could have shown neg as it was done late in the afternoon....?

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amIpregnant · 08/01/2008 19:26

yeah I agree

I am hoping that its cos my urine was so dilute (it was dead clear) when I tested in the afternoon today and that tomorrow am I might still get pos tests

I have some more tests

stupid I know

but now I want that 3rd baby I thought for a few hours I was having!

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lulumama · 08/01/2008 19:23

have a hot bath and a bit of time to yourself, and get a good nights sleep, hope you will feel better tomorrow. maybe now is a good time to talk to DH about more children?

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amIpregnant · 08/01/2008 19:21

yes i was secretly excited so when dos said it was neg I was shocked again and still am if im honest

what an emotional upsetting day

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amIpregnant · 08/01/2008 19:20

though she did say the two tests did look like they were saying preg for some reason but as she said they could well be evaporation lines

thanks ladies for all kind words x

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lulumama · 08/01/2008 19:20

you can get a false negative, but not a false positive, but i guess you have to presume that the test the doc did was accurate. now do you feel like you do want number 3? what an emotional rollercoaster

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