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I have done two tests today that say im pregnant (I think) and I am shocked to the core

136 replies

amIpregnant · 08/01/2008 13:50

we havent been trying per say and it is a shock a very very very big shock

as both other dc were difficult and lengthy to conceive

I will have 3 under 5 and I am scared

the tests are cheap predicter ones which I have found hard to read but I think they say pregnant very faintly

please advise me its silly but i am upset

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soamipregnant · 10/01/2008 10:33

Thanks honey

I asked her on the phone is there no way I can come today for this very reason and she was quite matter of fact saying 6 weeks is the earliest we will ever see anyone so tomorrow is the earliest we will see you so I guess I have to sit tight

I have a slightly uncomfy bloated tummy though with odd wee twinges nothing to write home about I cant remeber what is normal or not....its easy to be paranoid isnt it

I havent wiped again I wa so shocked when saw red blood this am really was as dh and i got excited for the first time last night

she said even tomorrow at 6 weeks they may not see anything

xx

soremummy · 10/01/2008 10:24

i would ring again and ask if any cancellation comes up before tomorrow can you have it just for peace of mind

soamipregnant · 10/01/2008 08:40

Hi I phoned and they cant see me until tomorrow am at 8.30 as im so early preg anyway x

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 10/01/2008 08:33

Have you got a scan today?

All is not lost, I've known people to have a fresh bleed and still go on to have a healthy baby. Stay positive xx

FoghornLeghorn · 10/01/2008 08:33

Do you have an appointment with EPU today ?

I had fresh bright red blood with DD1 at about 11 weeks am she is sitting on my knee now a very happy nd healthy 3 year old.
It's completely natural to worry but it doesn't necessarily mean the worst

soamipregnant · 10/01/2008 08:10

just been to the toilet

i am bleeding fresh red blood only a wipe full but not feeling all that well

soitlookslikeiampregthen · 10/01/2008 06:55

I am too embarrassed

After being a total emotional numpty

And unfort i have some real life pals on here who if they found out before family (we wont say till twelve weeks) might not be discreet ha ha!!

Husband has come round I gave him the pos tests to take up when he had a bath bless him as before then he kept saying I dont think youre pregnant

Then he said post bath, oh ok well we can manage then, bless him.

I am secretly excited now though i so will need mumsnet I think for support

chipmonkey · 10/01/2008 01:09

Congratulations!!!!!!! Now fess up and tell us who you are!

GreebosWhiskers · 09/01/2008 21:12

Just found this thread. Best of luck for tomorrow. fwiw I had cramping all the way through all 4 of my pgs around the time I would have been due my af & all 4 turned out fine so please try not to worry (I know - like that's even possible)

Fireflyfairy2 · 09/01/2008 20:54

Congratulations!!!!!!!

best of luck for tomorrow!!

foxythesnowman · 09/01/2008 19:34

Now will you change your name to Soiampregnant

I have had implant bleeding for each of mine BTW, so try not to worry

Congratulations to you. Having 3 close together is lovely.

soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 18:38

I will do

thanks ladies

is this the nuttiest thread youve read in a while can i ever admit who I really am

MIL here so i cant stay on, she is nosy and will come in and do pos(parent over shoulder ha ha) but ill be on later.....!!

belcantavinissima · 09/01/2008 18:15

yippeee! hope all goes well with your scan. let us know what you find out

soremummy · 09/01/2008 17:52

Congrats i hope all goes ok for you tomorrow

Egg · 09/01/2008 17:46

YAY! Great news soamipregnant! Good luck when you go for the early scan. After my brown spotting this time I went for early scan and found it was twins . Hehehee!

Piffle · 09/01/2008 17:31

if it appeared quickly then you're oregnant
I'm late and have been testing every day with cheap tests and have got nothing resembling a line so sounds liek you're def pregnant....
Good luck xxx

soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 17:29

just in

doc says im preg

dh very quiet

i have to phone early pref unit tomorrow am for an early scan to see whats going on
MIL here so sneaking on/
thanks ladies xxx

chipmonkey · 09/01/2008 15:10

soamipregnant, I had faint spotting all the way through my first trimester with ds3. He was prem for other reasons but is a perfectly healthy, bossy, 3 year old now!

Egg · 09/01/2008 15:07

I had brown spotting with both pregnancies at about 8 weeks. Also very crampy (very) with this one for the first few weeks. Both pregnancies have worked out fine (not given birth yet this time mind you).

I also had four negatives between four and six weeks with first pregnancy and never got a positive at all until 6 weeks.

Fingers crossed for you.

soremummy · 09/01/2008 14:51

np but if u need to chat im around, but do try and get your feet up if you can, will keep checkin back

belcantavinissima · 09/01/2008 14:50

soiampregnant,

poor you what a rollercoaster you've been on!

several yrs ago i had a positive result form a home test and a week later went to drs and it came back neg. i told her i wasnt sure that was right and after several days she tested me again and its was positive. so the drs test wasnt as sensitive as mine basically.

also i have had light spotting and sometimes slight pain at around 5/6 weeks with all 3 of my pgs. i had to go to EPU and be scanned but all was well. hope you are ok.

soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 14:49

thanks so much soremummy xx

feel so emotional shocked thought i was preg then i was told i wasnt now i think i am but i am bleeding a little arghhhhhh!

doc at 4pm will let you know what they say

soremummy · 09/01/2008 14:46

Best thing to do at the moment is to try to relax a little get your feet up I had some early spotting with my last baby hence was 4 1/2 months pregnant when I found out! But there again in an older mum think i should have known better!

Regarding looking after 3 under 3 well I did it and survived actually it was easier than just looking after this one! If you want to chat to someone I can give u my email and then I will forward my mobile to you.

StarlightMcKenzie · 09/01/2008 14:46

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soamipregnant · 09/01/2008 14:38

thanks honey I hav been lurking on the due sept 07 thread since you mentioned

porr DH he doesnt know if he is coming or going and neither do i!

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