Hoping for BFP in May

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing yes we can!!

my FRER was the same this morning and I also did a one step cheapie which was BFN for me! I can’t see a line on your Cheapie but it may just be my eyes! I think FMU at this early stage is the best bet! I have made the mistake before of testing before 12DPO in the afternoon and I think it just heightens the chances of a BFN on a test at that time!

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing i think we are both the same DPO! I did the same in testing today and BFN!!! I’m 9DPO is that the same for you?

hoping the next few days we start to get a faint line at leasT!!

I've had a dip in bbt 4 days after a dip in bbt and 3 consistent high temps 🥺 any thoughts on what's going on?

@QueenBee22 i hope so as I’ve done an FRER too and it’s BFN!!

I've had a dip in bbt 4 days after a dip in bbt and 3 consistent high temps 🥺 any thoughts on what's going on?

@Hjudge56 best of luck for tomorrow. It might just be too early to show positive yet.

Just done a test at 9DPO & BFN! It’s mad because I am so sure I’m pregnant from my symptoms and I’ve got this twinge and dull ache but keep worrying AF is going to come early! Due next Tuesday so I feel like If I was pregnant I should be getting a BFP in the next couple days. I did use a Cb ultra early and wasn’t my first morning wee.

Will use FRER tomorrow morning hoping 10DPO is the one!

@LemonZestDribbles Fingers crossed it was a sucessful ovulation, I did have some mild lower abdo cramping this morning too! Seems to have subsided now though 👍

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing sorry about the negative. It's so hard when you want something so bad :(

@allthingssparkly ooh rise sounds like ovulation. I can't really remember bbt charts so can't remember if it stays up or not

@TeddyBeans glad the opks are moving. My luteal phase used to be 7 days. Makes the tww fast but freaked me out about ttc

@Skylark1990 I have a DS who is nearly 19 months. We were probably both on MN the last time we were ttc/preggers too 🤣. On the ttc this month I'd go for it as you've got to be hopeful that if you did catch it wouldn't be another mc. It's very hard though ❤

Cd4 here and having a really heavy and sore period. Getting central heating installed too atm so the anxiety of that isn't helping. Hoping to be more zen by fertile time

Thanks all for the kind words re chemicals. I am definitely pretty confused and sad about them. We conceived DD so quickly, and I just wasn't expecting it. I'm really hoping it's just been a couple of bouts of bad luck.

@LemonZestDribbles DD is 19 months 🙂 do you have any children yet?

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing I did a FRER at 9dpo (it may have actually been 8dpo) and it was negative, but got a positive two days later, so don't lose hope! Of course sadly that pregnancy ended a week later. But often 9 dpo is just too early!

I've got a huge work event the week my period is due in May I've just realised. I'm now wondering if we should even try this month. If I had an early MC again I'd not be able to be there for it 😣 and I can't miss it really, well it would not good at all... Not sure what to do! What do people think?

Your OPK's are similar to mime @TeddyBeans it appears I got my positive OPK yesterday afternoon 😬😬😬

Good luck to you 🤍

Morning all 😘 finally getting some movement on the OPKs! It's all a bit weird though, if I haven't ovulated yet then my 25 day cycles mean my luteal phase is really short...

@misstime my friend was in your situation. She had one CP on the first cycle they tried and had a successful pregnancy the second cycle so it may happen sooner than you think 🤞✨

@LemonZestDribbles BBT has risen this morning after the peak OPK yesterday afternoon 😬😬 I'm hoping this is a good sign? Does it need to stay elevated?

Hi all, looking to join for May. I'm 10dpo today but bfn this morning so pretty sure I'm out this month and just waiting for AF now.
We're TTC baby #2 but I have a history of recurrent miscarriage so it may take a while!

I will update once I've done it tomorrow @LemonZestDribbles ☺️

Hopefully 🤞🤞

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing I'd wait until at least the morning fmu to get the longest hold if you can. You're only early so it might be too soon 🤞

@allthingssparkly be interesting to see what the temp says in the morning. At least you've did through the window so if you have already ovulate you're in with a good chance 🤞

@LemonZestDribbles I have done another OPK this evening which has gone back to a low reading but it's altered the above test to 'Peak' from 'High' so maybe I have a rapid surge and ovulate the same day, I have heard of that happening rather than ovulating 12-36 hours after the positive opk if that makes sense 🙈 Doesn't give me much time does it if that's the case 🤣 Have DTD though during my FW so we shall see. Will also be able to tell once I've done my temp in the morning hopefully! x

Hey @LemonZestDribbles I got a 'High' OPK reading earlier on, I'm not sure whether I need to test again tonight to see if I get a 'Peak' reading or wait till tomorrow morning?

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing found the pic to show you the difference. The middle is the cheap one step ones I had that you get with the ovulation tests. So it could be worth trying a different test just to see ❤