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Hoping for BFP in May

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Catred4 · 08/04/2022 07:16

CD1 here, starting a new thread for those who are hoping to get a BFP in May for a January/February baby 🥰

This is my cycle 3 trying for #2. I've got an 18mo old son.

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salia12345678910 · 21/04/2022 13:51

@Skylark1990 I was thinking that too but it was just 4dpo, from what I've read online implantation occurs atleast 6-7 days after? Feeling rather confused 😕

LemonZestDribbles · 21/04/2022 13:49

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing not a fraud at all. We all want that bfp as much as if we have no kids or 9. 12 months is really rough. I can't even imagine. Could you try your gp? I know you've got kids but a year is a long time

@Skylark1990 @elsbells98 think my next af is due May 16th. Feels ages away 🤣

@Skylark1990 he was born at the end of September but I was in the Early October and October 2020 boards as he was early. For ttc I was in the Crazy Gang as we were indeed crazy. I've name changed since then though.

thebloodycatwontstopmeowing · 21/04/2022 13:14

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Skylark1990 · 21/04/2022 12:41

Morning everyone. Sorry to hear of the BFNs! I hope they change soon or AF arrives so it can be on to the next cycle <3

@Hjudge56 it may be that implantation started on 7dpo but didn't finish, so you got a bit of blood but it properly implanted by day 8 - and it can take a while for hcg to rise, it doubles every 48 hours approx so can take 4 or 5 days before a positive result - even on a FRER sometimes! My fingers are crossed for you.

@salia12345678910 sometimes a dip in BBT indicates implantation. Which dpo did it happen?

@elsbells98 and @LemonZestDribbles I am also CD 5 so hopefully we can all test around the same time... how long are your cycles normally?

Also that's cool you have a 19mo @LemonZestDribbles ! Yes perhaps we were on the same ttc and pregnancy boards haha. When is your baby's birthday?

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing I'm sorry you're feeling so fed up, can so totally understand that. We conceived our DD first cycle but since starting to try for no2 in Dec have had 2 early losses/chemicals :( very sad. I'm hoping it's just been a tough few months and the losses are due to being a bit run down. Part of me thinks I should press pause this cycle and start again next month but equally I don't know what the point in doing that would be really... just one less month where a bfp is possible!

thebloodycatwontstopmeowing · 21/04/2022 12:08

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LemonZestDribbles · 21/04/2022 11:41

@Hjudge56 I'm of the view that you're still in until AF comes. Hopefully it doesn't especially with your 7dpo feelings of implantation. Our bodies can be really cruel

Hjudge56 · 21/04/2022 11:25

@LemonZestDribbles ah okay! I thought it takes 2 days so if I had implanted at 7DPO I thought 10DPO would have definitely shown!

LemonZestDribbles · 21/04/2022 10:55

@LemonZestDribbles sorry I meant hcg levels if you've caught an egg so might still be too early for a positive test :)

Hjudge56 · 21/04/2022 10:48

@LemonZestDribbles thanks lovely! What do you mean with the doubling from 7dpo? Sorry I’m a bit lost with what you meant with 7dpo and 10DPO this time?

LemonZestDribbles · 21/04/2022 10:44

@salia12345678910 maybe just a little off day for you or a blip ❤

salia12345678910 · 21/04/2022 09:32

@LemonZestDribbles it's looking abit all over the place, it's risen back to the previous high temps, really unsure what yesterdays dip was! I checked bbt throughout the day yday and it was constantly low x

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LemonZestDribbles · 21/04/2022 09:10

@salia12345678910 how did your temp look this morning?

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing you're not doing anything wrong ❤ ttc just sucks. How long have you been trying now?

@elsbells98 welcome! I'm cd5 so we'll be close together this cycle. Good luck 🤞🤞🤞

@Hjudge56 sorry about the bfn. You're not out until af shows. It can be so frustrating when it feels you should be though. If it was 7dpo and 10dpo that's this time as it only doubles every 48 to 36 hours iirc? Hope you're okay

@Harriet669 hope you get that peak soon!

Harriet669 · 21/04/2022 08:54

Morning all, jumped on earlier and went quiet as I've been sat waiting for a peak on OPK's, CD 12 and I'm sure they're getting lighter 🧐 sorry about the BFN's, still not out till AF shows 🤞🏼

Hjudge56 · 21/04/2022 08:17

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowingI had a BFN on both FRER and CB ultra early this morning..

im feeling quite sad to be honest as I have generally short cycles and could have sworn I had implantation bleeding on 7DPO. At 10DPO today I would have built up enough hcg hormone if I had implanted 3 days ago so it’s thrown me off. I have got the sorest nipples, so fatigued, cramping on one side, bloated etc.

I got a BFP last year on 11DPO so If tomorrow morning shows nothing I think I’m out!

elsbells98 · 21/04/2022 01:57

Hi, hope you don't mind me jumping on the wagon! This is my first ever mumsnet post!

Currently on cycle 1 of ttc our 1st. Currently CD6 and hoping to test around may 10th.

Best of luck ladies, I hope we see a good few BFPs!💜

thebloodycatwontstopmeowing · 20/04/2022 23:25

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thebloodycatwontstopmeowing · 20/04/2022 23:24

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salia12345678910 · 20/04/2022 18:52

@LemonZestDribbles I have no idea, this is my first cycle on letrozole after 2 failed clomid cycles, & only my second month of tracking bbt, last cycle my temps were all over the place whereas this cycle they've been abit more consistent and almost textbook standard up until today morning, unsure if lack of sleep or room temperature has played a part to it but looking forward to seeing the reading will be tomorrow morning 🥺

Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 18:46

good luck for the morning @thebloodycatwontstopmeowing !! Sending lots of baby dust! Will update on here of result!

and thank you very much @LemonZestDribbles !!

LemonZestDribbles · 20/04/2022 18:41

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing and @Hjudge56 got my fingers crossed for your next tests. It's very frustrating not knowing so feel for you both ❤

@salia12345678910 did your body maybe try to ovulate but failed so did it a few days later?

thebloodycatwontstopmeowing · 20/04/2022 18:17

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Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 18:11

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing That’s so interesting that evenings would give you a stronger reading! I’m going to test tomorrow AM too on FRER so we can update each other 🥰!

when is your AF due?

thebloodycatwontstopmeowing · 20/04/2022 17:07

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Hjudge56 · 20/04/2022 16:56

@thebloodycatwontstopmeowing ah yes I can see on the one posted on the test checker app a very very very slight line!

will you be testing in the morning?