Hoping for BFP in May

Sorry to butt in everyone! I need someone to tell me if I'm insane. I'm only 9 or 10dpo but I gave in and tested this morning. I can see something but my partner can't?! What do you all think?

@FlyOnTheWall89 thank you. I remember your username too. Where are you up to in your cycle? X

@3rdtimelucky2022 so sorry to hear what you've been through. I'm on second cycle since mmc now, my first one was really messed up and we had been told to wait 2 cycles to try again because I had the op. My first cycle after mmc was 33 days which is long for me, by my 2nd cycle I had was 27 days so I'm hopeful I might catch on this time if things have righted themselves! It's just such a stressful time my mind is thinking constantly about conceiving I don't think I can deal with more disappointment😭 good luck this cycle!!

Oh @Curlywurly3 how devastating. I think I remember your handle from other threads. So sorry you've had such a tough time. Best of luck x

@3rdtimelucky2022 luckily I've had some negative tests since my miscarriage - I was positive for 6+ weeks after so had quite a few trips to the EPU! But negative for 2 - 3 weeks before this test 😬

@mummyofrb I’m on my first cycle after a late missed miscarriage. I’m on day 14 and still not ovulated! Got a flashing smiley on CB ovulation test today so hopefully it’ll be this week.

@ElleBelleLou i tentatively think I see something! You said you had a miscarriage in May though? Mine stayed positive for 3 weeks after my miscarriage so it may be leftover bHCG. Really hope it’s a new positive! Test again in the morning?

Hi all!

Hope you don't mind me joining. I conceived my first baby in February but sadly miscarried in May, I'm back to TTC now.

7DPO today according to my app, and took a test because I just can't stop myself even knowing how unlikely a positive test is this early on.

Me and my partner have major line eyes and wishful thinking and think we can see a tiny hint of something starting here - anyone else see anything? Don't worry if not - I know how unrealistic this is

@LemonZestDribbles I read your message about googling RHR and thought, 'Oh I should Google that too.' What are we like? I don't think I'll ever get through the TWW without overthinking absolutely everything. 😂

@RBSK1 AF got me too 😞

Next AF due 3 June, hopefully this is a luckier month 🤞🏻

@Hopefulprincess thank you for that, it just gets harder the longer we ttc and then you can't help but think things are wrong, hopefully May is the month it happens!

@RBSK1 I'm so sorry 😔 baby dust for next cycle xx

@RBSK1 😞 sorry. This has been a cruel month!

@LemonZestDribbles thankyou I'm over analysing everything lol. I inputted my period dates from first day of heavy bleeding but was spotting few days before so i think my ovulation was actually last week!! When do you track from?? We have been dtd every other day anyway so hopefully still have a chance! I had a bit of pink cm and ew cm the following day about the time I think I actually ovulated so that could be it!! I ignored it bc I didn't think id be ovulating until a few days later! So I've been stressing all week but I think ovulation already been🤞🤞 for us both!! Xxx

Hi @LemonZestDribbles still no sign of AF, will test tomorrow if nothing else happens in the meantime.

I feel different just can't put my finger on it.

Hopefully I have answers soon 🤞 x

@2023wish oh wow congratulations, that's made me feel a lot better that we won't be completely ruled out just got to give it a good go the next few days hopefully 😊 xx

Aaaaand AF has just arrived. See you all next month 😢

That sucks! There really should be a cheaper FRER competitor they would rake it in!

anyone else around 3dpo? No symptoms for me, but then I didn’t get any with my last pregnancy at this stage apart from extreme tearfulness around 7dpo.

@RBSK1 I'm so sorry :( that is absolutely rubbish

@allthingssparkly how are you getting on?

@2023wish congratulations!!!

@PeanuttyButter congratulations!!!

@Brunette1989 that sounds sore! Hope you're feeling a but better

@mummyofrb I don't tend to get any symptoms like pain or anything. Just increased cm. So sorry about your mmc ❤

@HeatherSnixx welcome! Sorry about your mc ❤

@Choc2022 welcome! I use one step ovulation tests, the app Flo (used femometer in the past) and I like Frer tests but they seem to have a lot of indents recently so beware:)

@Smcai I'm 3/4dpo and found myself googling rhr the other night at 2am when ds wouldn't sleep. I also said I wouldn't go symptom mental in tww 🤣🤣

@HansBanans my OH said maybe we have bad batch of tests. Can't afford to keep forking out £10+ on tests though!

Hopefully it will happen for us both soon xxx

@RBSK1 BFN for me too ☹️

Got a BFN on my CB early this morning. Gutted. Just not to be this month!

Can't believe I had two faint lines then this one has nothing on it

It's been so nice to see so many BFP's in the chat, congratulations to all of you and fingers crossed for everyone still waiting to find out.
I told myself earlier in this cycle that I wouldn't over analyze and just try to relax and see what happens. Well, that quickly went out of the window. Currently at 5DPO and a day of lower back pain and some mild cramping has sent my brain into overdrive trying to dissect symptoms. The TWW is always so hard, I wish we could just test already. How many DPO do you all normally start testing?

Hello All,

New to the forum. First time ttc, month 1 and no kids. Ive used some apps but am doubting how good they are ( I have only input data for one month though). A few days late but BFN on those £1 tests from Tesco. Any reccomdentations (or what I should avoid) on

1. Apps
2. Ovulation tests
3. Pregnancy tests?

Thanks in advance

@RBSK1 good luck for the morning 💖
soooooo I’m debating getting some of the pointless cheapie tests in just for my obsessive testing but then I don’t want false hope. For those not on previous threads I dipped 10 in water many came back + so my sinks pregnant clearly. But then also testing early means false hope regarding chemical pregnancies which are suuuuuuper common , and the indents on frer I’m not liking either as a line eyed test starer. Not sure which tests to try but I have to pee daily on one or atleast 5. Dilemmas I face at 2dpo 🤣

@HeatherSnixx good luck 😘