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🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

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Skl2021 · 28/03/2022 17:44

New thread ladies 🌈✨💕

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LuckyMoonstone · 26/05/2022 08:09

Temp has risen for the 2nd time in a row so that’s good. Not a sharp spike just a steady rise. Am I meant to be looking for 3 in a row?

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2022 22:56

@Chellooo my AF arrived bang on 4 weeks from my miscarriage

Chellooo · 25/05/2022 19:14

Indianna2006 · 25/05/2022 18:42

@Chellooo yes I think it’s diff whether you want to wait for a period or not.

I didn’t wait as such. But I stopped bleeding week after surgical management for retained tissue and pretty much ovulated the next day. But it was 3 weeks from medical management where I passed most of it.
so we had just dtd close by. I am now 10dpo. So will have my first period in 3/4 days turn up. As unlikely I’ll of conceived but guess you never know!

sorry for your loss. It’s really hard and the up and down of hormones doesn’t help. I only had my surgery beginning of May so it’s only been 3 weeks ish for me too really but 5/6 weeks since main event xx

Oh that's helpful to know, it was a mmc so the surgery was to get everything. That was at the start of May and I bled for about a week, but only today got a negative pregnancy test.

Were you checking pregnancy tests?

My backs been in bits today so don't even know how to start tracking symptoms 😑

Indianna2006 · 25/05/2022 18:42

@Chellooo yes I think it’s diff whether you want to wait for a period or not.

I didn’t wait as such. But I stopped bleeding week after surgical management for retained tissue and pretty much ovulated the next day. But it was 3 weeks from medical management where I passed most of it.
so we had just dtd close by. I am now 10dpo. So will have my first period in 3/4 days turn up. As unlikely I’ll of conceived but guess you never know!

sorry for your loss. It’s really hard and the up and down of hormones doesn’t help. I only had my surgery beginning of May so it’s only been 3 weeks ish for me too really but 5/6 weeks since main event xx

youngiesophie · 25/05/2022 17:30

@bunnykins123 thats always the way isn’t it- so many symptoms then af!! 🤣 yess had another positive on a digital this morning now going to not test until the weekend 🤞♥️Yeah I’ve read about pelvic pain being normal thank god xx

bunnykins123 · 25/05/2022 16:33

@youngiesophie how are you doing today? Have you retested again? The pain could be stretching of everything so I wouldn't worry too much about that. I agree, just enjoy the moment for where you are right now 💕 I'm 4dpo. I'm not symptom spotting as last month I had probably the most symptoms I've ever ever had and nope - AF arrived band on schedule 😂

@LuckyMoonstone a increase is a increase! Sounds like you might have o'd and you're now in the TWW! 👏

@Chellooo I'm so sorry for your loss 😢 I think everyone is different, some want to wait, others want to crack on - I don't think there is any right or wrong. Just do what you feel is right and ready for 💕

Chellooo · 25/05/2022 14:13

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2022 14:00

Hi I had my first period last week after my miscarriage and have started testing today for ovulation.

Best of luck 🤞🤞🤞 hoping mine isn't a very long drawn out time waiting for the period

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2022 14:00

Chellooo · 25/05/2022 11:01

Hi Ladies, I've been a lurker for a while but tentatively hoping to join after ^finally getting a negative test 3.5 weeks after surgical management of miscarriage at 10 weeks... emotions and hormones have been all over the show....

Just trying to get my head around it all... so now that I'm negative should I start testing for ovulation, or am I best waiting until AF.... its such a minefield

Hi I had my first period last week after my miscarriage and have started testing today for ovulation.

Chellooo · 25/05/2022 11:01

Hi Ladies, I've been a lurker for a while but tentatively hoping to join after ^finally getting a negative test 3.5 weeks after surgical management of miscarriage at 10 weeks... emotions and hormones have been all over the show....

Just trying to get my head around it all... so now that I'm negative should I start testing for ovulation, or am I best waiting until AF.... its such a minefield

LuckyMoonstone · 25/05/2022 07:30

Temp is up a bit, only 0.1 of a degree but hopefully it’ll just gradually climb

youngiesophie · 24/05/2022 22:24

@Cegbee Oh that’s crap but at least if you do have af you won’t have to call epu xx

Cegbee · 24/05/2022 21:41

@youngiesophie thank you. Feeling pretty crampy today so not very optimistic. 🤞

youngiesophie · 24/05/2022 21:33

@Cegbee Sorry to hear about your mmc 🥺Hopefully you get a positive before af 🤞♥️ Xx

Cegbee · 24/05/2022 18:50

Today is the date the EPU gave me for the latest date I 'should' have a period. They told me to call them if I hadn't had one by today, however my bhcg was positive until 6 weeks post surgical management and I'm pretty sure (based on symptoms and OPK) that I ovulated (finally!) last week, which would make me around 8DPO today by my calculations. So I think I'll wait another week and call them next week if I haven't had AF or a positive bhcg by then. Loads of symptom spotting going on but not feeling much at all, slightly nauseous this morning but I think it's because I skipped breakfast and that's not uncommon at all for me. Dreading my first AF post miscarriage. Also will be a relief to have one as it's been so long wondering what the hell is going on. I found out about my MMC on the 22nd March!

youngiesophie · 24/05/2022 17:14

How many dpo are u now @bunnykins123 and do u have any symptoms xx

youngiesophie · 24/05/2022 17:12

@bunnykins123 yess could have ovulated any time as the last two cycles were chemical! I’m not sure I’m just confused because I’ve used all the same tests and they were positive then negative then now positive again so maybe hook effect or eptopic idk I’ve had bad vagina pain like a uti 🤷🏻‍♀️ Hoping not another chemical I don’t think I could handle it if I’m honest☹️ Gonna just try and leave it as long as possible then do another clearblue weeks bc there’s no point in stressing I’m gonna just try to be happy I’m pregnant for as long as my body will allow x Thank u for always being there ♥️ Xx

LuckyMoonstone · 24/05/2022 16:39

@bunnykins123 god I hope so, it’s day bloody 32 🙈

bunnykins123 · 24/05/2022 16:30

@LuckyMoonstone mine dropped the day before O and then O was confirmed for the next day. So you may find you'll get an increase tomorrow 🤞 looks promising though!!

@youngiesophie I know you haven't been tracking but is there any way you could have ovulated later? Maybe take another FRER to see if the line is there again. If you really are 14dpo then I suspect it could be another chemical but as you didn't track, it could be that you O'd later and this is the beginning of a bfp. I'd test again with a FRER tomorrow to see if it progresses 🤞 we are all here to support you regardless of the outcome 💕

youngiesophie · 24/05/2022 16:28

Meant to tag @ElleBelleLou sorry I always forget🤦🏻‍♀️

youngiesophie · 24/05/2022 16:27

They r horrible hope ur okay xx

My2boysaremyworld · 24/05/2022 16:13

ElleBelleLou · 24/05/2022 15:54

@My2boysaremyworld It's a very very early miscarriage, it happens before 5 weeks. many people wouldn't even know they had them and think it's a normal period etc if they haven't tested early but i knew from testing early and my symptoms x

Sending love xx

ElleBelleLou · 24/05/2022 15:54

@My2boysaremyworld It's a very very early miscarriage, it happens before 5 weeks. many people wouldn't even know they had them and think it's a normal period etc if they haven't tested early but i knew from testing early and my symptoms x

youngiesophie · 24/05/2022 11:10

Re downloaded flo and it says I’m 14 days past ovulation

youngiesophie · 24/05/2022 11:06

@bunnykins123 no I used FRER and they were proper pink lines then turned lighter and used the same Superdrug test as in the pic I posted before and that was basically negative so I took a clearblue digital the next morning and said not pregnant :/ Now this happened lol! I’m not sure because I had two chemicals two cycles in a row (this would be third) so I deleted all my apps and promised myself not to track or test but I think I’d be 2 nearly 3 weeks since ovulation. I swear this group is the only thing that keeps me sane lol

My2boysaremyworld · 24/05/2022 09:04

@ElleBelleLou thank you. Sorry to hear about your chemical pregnancy. What is a chemical pregnancy if you don't mind me asking? Xx