🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

@MooBugz congratulations that's wonderful news! I am trying to keep myself in check but it's hard not to hope, especially after putting in all that effort!!

Hey all just wanted to say my 3rd cycle after my but first time trying SMEP worked for me this month. It's not easy and I did miss out the last day they say to dtd so good luck to anyone trying it!

@calimc83 yeah I found it tough going as did DH. There was no romance or tenderness or even sexy vibes whatsoever by the last time.

Yep in the 2ww, 6dpo. Have you begun trying again?

@Cdoc so sorry for your loss. This is a great group for support and hope xx

@Passenger87 glad you are ok. Sorry for the BFN's..it's souls destroying. I've had a look at SMEP it sounds v hard core 😬..not sure DH could manage all that. Are u in the 2WW now?
@Cdoc so sorry for your loss. I'm pretty sure I ovulated after my MC just because of changes to cervical mucus. My consultant after the MC advised me to wait till after first AF as apparently that lets the uterine lining build back up again x

@calimc83 I'm ok. Still in the land of BFN

Tried smep this cycle and I am exhausted and going between super hopeful and thinking its not going to happen.

Hi @cdc I don't think I ovulated as I was testing positive for weeks after and my cycles were totally off but as you say everyone is different. It may help to track using opk after a month or so if like me you didn't know what was happening with your body

Hi everyone

So sorry for all your losses and so hopeful there is some positive news on here soon.

I had medical management for a mmc (first pregnancy) 2 weeks ago today, at 9 weeks.

Felt so bittersweet to be so desperate to see a negative test.

My husband doesn’t want to put pressure on trying again and wants to just see what happens. I’m desperate to be pregnant again though so have secretly bought ovulation sticks and will be tracking myself. Just wondered if it’s common to ovulate between a loss and your first period? I know everyone will be different but would be interested to hear everyone’s experiences.

xx

@Passenger87 it really does. Hope u are doing ok?
@bunnykins123 sad to be back but good to have everyone's support here 😘 I wouldn't say I'm a big drinker either but since my last MC I've had a fair amount of wine 🙈😫..it's needed at times for definite! Hope you're having a lovely holiday. I found being away definitely helped me x

@bunnykins123 thank you! Had bloods taken for prolactin, TSH and Thrombophilia screen. I'm not expecting any clear answers really, but it feels good to be proactive.

@pangolin84 oh poor you I started spotting just before my appointment it was just a really small amount so they said I was still able to have the surgery as planned. It's such a confusing and awful time. You're in my thoughts🤍🤍

@TheBirdintheCave oh no, I'm so sorry you've started to spot. Fingers crossed AF stays away 🤞 I'm just drinking through AF now and trying to just not think about the stress of ttc too much whilst away.

@theblueflowers good luck for your bloods today! Which ones did you get taken?

@MooBugz great line for 9dpo, congratulations!

@youngiesophie thank you! The consultant didn't really say too much, only advise what vitamins I should be taking. I have to book some tests when I'm back which I expected anyway. Ive also registered to see Dr Shehata as I'm totally done with not knowing why this keeps happening!

@calimc83 I'm so sorry to see you back on this group. It just seems so incredibly unfair and sad. I've taken to drinking whilst away. I don't usually drink that much but feel it's totally warranted given the circumstances. Im counter balancing that by being the only one at the breakfast buffet eating just eggs and grapefruit whilst everyone else is having the best time eating fry ups and hash browns. Le sigh.

@pangolin84 Have been thinking about you all day🥺 Hopefully it passes naturally and I’m so sorry for what you are going through ☹️ Xxx

@calimc83 so sorry, this journey sucks at times.

xxx

@youngiesophie Oh my goodness that sounds incredibly traumatic, I’m sorry you had to go through that ☹️ Thanks for sharing your experience - it has definitely put me off that option!
I had a little bit of brown blood and small clots this morning before we went to the EPAU. They scanned me again and confirmed the missed miscarriage. We’d pretty much decided to go for surgical management when we talked about it last night, but this bleeding starting has really thrown me and now going to wait it out for a day or two to see what happens.

@TheBirdintheCave thank you lovely, will be ok. What doesn't kill u makes u stronger eh? 😘 sorry to hear about the spotting. Enjoy your beach day xx

@calimc83 So sorry you’re going through that again :(

@MooBugz Congrats! A lovely line for 9dpo :)

@bunnykins123 Unfortunately I started spotting last night so it looks like AF will be coming as usual on Thursday. Hoping to fit our beach day in tomorrow before it gets here though! (and in between rain days 🤦🏻‍♀️)

@Skl2021 thank you it's well and truly needed 😘 xx

@Skl2021 here's hoping! 😆😆🙈 xx

@LuckyMoonstone thank you ☺️ xxx

@calimc83 I’m so sorry to hear your news :( hope you are able to get through it and stay strong xx

@pangolin84 I chose medical and it was awful. So painful was throwing up and coming out both ends sorry tmi but just being honest with my experience. I was in excruciating pain my mum had to call 111 to see if it was normal and in the end I just passed out from the pain. Woke up fine but then weeks later started bleeding a lot of massive clots and was in so much pain, went to hospital and my preg test was positive so I had to have surgical anyway to get all the leftover product out. I had a very negative experience sorry to say lol x

@pangolin84 thinking of you tomorrow. It'll be over before u know it. I went for it on the Gas and Air, didn't feel a thing and can barely remember anything xx

@theblueflowers hey, I remember you 😊 how are u doing? gosh we do have super similar stories. I feel really traumatised about scans now..I'm patiently waiting for AF to show and then I think we'll go again. I feel exactly the same as you did though, TTC has taken over my life these past few months. I'm really reluctant to let this happen again..but I'm an anxious person 😬argh the dreaded 2WW..good luck!!! Hate it with a passion x
@Skl2021 hey lovely, nice to hear from u. Hope all is ok with u? Xx