🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

I wouldn’t worry about the exact peak @Lizm1990 I’d just assume it was nearly there but you just missed it when peeing on that particular stick….looks like the app also makes that assumption.

10dpo now but I don't want to test, because if it'd negative I'll be crushed, even though a neg at 10dpo is normal. I'd rather wait until AF is due.
Having some mild cramps, sometimes my boobs ache, and occasionally some nausea but that might be because I'm doing slimfast and not eating much in the day 😆

@curliegirlie im tracking using easy at home tests and I’m a bit perplexed or worried or god knows as I don’t know if my change in LH is normal…

Has anybody had one cycle get 1.7 on the peak like the first pic and then the next cycle get 0.85 as the peak? Seems really low compared to last month, and yesterday I think I could feel ovulation pain as it felt the same as last month. Just worried a peak under 1 is not right, we have dtd enough I think anyway but I was hoping my cycle would be similar so I know how future cycles would be.

Just place marking my place. Mmc at 6 weeks should of been 10 weeks. I had medical management few days ago and seems all was done last night.
now down to just normal period bleeding so hoping that was it.

hoping to ttc again straight away. Took us 11 cycles to get this pregnancy. And my DD is now already 4 😫 so much bigger gap than anticipated. But just want that second child and a chance to do it again.

anyway I had a Mc prior to my DD and my ovulation took 4 weeks and period 6 weeks to return. But I was 13 weeks then no measuring 6 weeks. So unsure if this might be quicker 🤞🏼

i guess I shall use a pregnancy test in a couple of weeks after bleeding stops and see if I get a negative.

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@curliegirlie you will get there. This was actually a rare 14 day ovulation for me as I normally have very short cycles. Luckily I flew back into the country just in time to catch it with hubby the day after my peak, but sadly I'm here so it didn't work out. Got everything crossed for next time! Keep tracking and if you need to give yourself a break, ovulation happens 12-36 hours after a peak so plenty of time to get going again if you see another rise xx

Thanks for the reassurance @FfayeN! I guess I’m also a bit peeved that I can’t have a standard 28 day cycle, ovulating on CD14, just for once, as we’ve had a lot of action over the Easter holidays 🤣 Not sure it’s sustainable for another week or so!

@curliegirlie this is my last tracked cycle where I got a BFP. The bottom of the photo is just where I started to rise for my peak. X

@curliegirlie mine have always fluctuated between nothing and 0.3 and back down again before eventually rising to peak. I think it's normal to go up and down. Fingers crossed you get your peak soon x

I hope everyone’s doing ok - I know I have a lot of cycle buddies on this thread!

Agh, starting to get a touch frustrated with OPKs, even though I know that patience is the key. On CDs 11 and 12, it looked like things were going in a decent direction, but in the days since the lines have been barely visible. Last cycle, if I ovulated it was likely to have been on CD17, and when previously TTC I ovulated between CD16 and 25. Is it just likely to be too early to see things starting to work up towards the peak yet and it’ll all be a bit random until the day before ov day, when suddenly things will fall into place and I’ll see a very quick, obvious surge? Sorry, it’s been over 4 years since I last did these….

P.S it won't let me tag for some reason 🤷🏽‍♀️

Thanks guys - I'm alright now (ish). I just feel like I have two people in charge of my brain and they tag in and out minute by minute. I'm OK and accepting one minute and know that the in grand scheme of things it's not been that long and I feel vaguely positive and can think of things to be grateful for or to look forward to but then quite literally a minute later I'm fuming and angry at the world and wondering whether I'll ever feel normal and feel like the next month is going to be an uphill battle. I can't control who's going to be at the helm any given moment 🙈

@peachiekeen I'm sorry AF came 😞 xx

@peachiekeen I'm really sorry 😞 two days late is just cruel. I'm the same, some months I can take it on the chin and others it crushes me. Do something nice for yourself today and take it easy 💛

AF came today 2 days late - which is really kind of her 🙄. I don't know why I bother testing because if it's blank I still manage to convince myself that maybe I'm pregnant and refuse to truly believe it until Af arrives. I really thought I was this month and I've taken the hit quite badly today. When does this rollercoaster end? Sometimes I'm absolutely fine with it and other times it's all consuming. I feel like I going mad!

@My2boysaremyworld @Lizzieee2727 I'm so sorry you both find yourselves here. It's a horrible thing to go through but this group is so supportive

@My2boysaremyworld that sounds like a really traumatising experience, I'm really sorry you went through that. Take time to rest and take care of yourself ❤️

@Lizzieee2727 I'm really sorry you found out while on holiday, that must have been awful. Good luck to you and your husband on trying again xx

Hi everyone, sorry to see so many of us on this sad state.

I'm lucky to have a 2 year old ball of chaotic energy but sadly recently we lost a baby at 12 weeks. Found out on holiday in Lanzarote when I was spotting that baby had stopped growing at 7+5 😢 got home and tried medical management which didn't work at all, just excruciating (SPD and 3 days of contractions was nothing compared to it) so then needed surgery under local.
I've done a cheapy test this morning (3 weeks and a day since surgery) which has come up as negative and I'm lucky enough that I think my period has just finished and based on last 2 pregnancies ovulation is imminent - did ovulation tests and I ovulate 2-3 days post period. Husbeast and I feel ready to try again so here's hoping. X

Whoops posted too soon… the three other times I’ve been pregnant 😂

8dpo now. I have no cm at all, I don’t know if that’s good or bad or unimportant! Genuinely can’t remember if I had much cm the three

Hi can I jump on this for when I'm able to start TTC again. Had a miscarriage on Sunday, should of been 10 weeks but baby was only measuring 5 weeks 6 days. I started naturally at home and it escalated very quickly. It took my boyfriend over an hour to get me out the house and into the car to get to hospital. On arrival they examined me and removed clots and got me set up for some intravenous paracetamol. That bag flushed through me and it hadn't touched me. I was then given some codeine and a hour passed and still no relief. I was thrh given morphine and that didn't touch me either. They then tried examining me and couldn't get past my cervix. They then scanned me and saw baby was stuck in my cervix. I was prepped for theatre to remove baby. I was in agony for over 8 hours with no break from the pain. I'm good with pain and at times I felt like I was going to pass out. At one point I screamed to my boyfriend please kill me 😢
I'm home now recovering but feeling very low and tender. Iv got 2 young boys and haven't told them as feel they wouldn't understand it they might worry. I pray we get our rainbow baby one day

@TheBirdintheCave have you tried your GP? I know it differs from place to place but mine was really shocked when I recently told them I received no aftercare or support from EPU, and I wished I had contacted my GP at the time instead as they were much more understanding.