🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

Well, looks like AF has turned up super early on CD26, but at least that gives us another shot in May….

I feel a bit deflated as we gave it a really good shot this month (school holidays and annual leave meant more opportunities/less tiredness for action!), BUT on the other hand I never caught a positive OPK so not that surprising that this cycle has turned out a bit weird. On the positive side at least I can enjoy the wine flight at the posh restaurant we’ve got booked later this month!

@Avdd Oh I’m guessing it is the same thing as they test when you’re ovulating I think so should test your bloods on same day x chemical pregnancy I always miscarry before week 6 ♥️ I really hope you don’t give up because you never know when it could happen for you x

@Sassy144 Thank you but I’m not testing and not taking my vitamins or anything anymore because I feel like if I don’t test then I won’t know if miscarried anymore lol xx

hi thank you reply! yes gp did bloods but have a app with fertility clinic next week so unless they do it differently? didnt want to go down that route but made app months ago so will go and have us both tested as feel as women we always think something wrong with us first. what do you mean when say 4 cP? x

hi thanks for your reply, yes using the EPO which did help but at the wrong time of cycle I'm 30 day cycle and has the cm after period then went away. using concieve plus now this cycle, I seen the cups in boots today first time was unsure but I will get one if doesnt happen this cycle. sorry to hear about your mc it's not easy I did some councilling it did help but find some days can just burst into tears still a year later! I think after this month maybe I will stop with the Opks! I have an app with fertility clinic next week to speak to a consultant just to put mind at ease been waiting for months for appointment so will give this a go and see what they say.

how do you mean retained retained products how long you wait?

@Indianna2006 thank you yes I'm over the moon but also scared. Just got to take each day as it comes!

@Sassy144 congratulations! You must be so pleased. But also anxious. Xx

@avdd. No don’t give up. I fell on cycle 11 for this baby would be dc2. I have a 4 year old dd and worry about the gap.
but unfortunately I lost it. And the mc is still ongoing. Retained products and more medical management hasn’t caused anymore bleeding so I’m stuck in limbo what to do.
also concerned how long it will take to ttc again and wanted to avoid surgery.
but how long do I wait with retained products?!

it’s all so stressful. But if it took you a while before May just be norm for you. Have you tried all the supplements etc to improve EWCM and eggs etc. and a conception cup? I used that cycle I got pregnant finally xx

@youngiesophie thank you, I'm glad I wasn't going mad! I hope you get yours very soon ❤️

I tried aspirin this time when I miscarried which I think helped bc I didn’t have a lot of bleeding with this mc and I did push for progestorone from ovulation but my doctor was quite crap and told me to come off aspirin which I will not lol. 🤣🤣

guys thank u so much this group has made me feel way better like I have people I can talk to :)

@Sassy144 i knew you were from all your symptoms and it’s so easy to feel like your imagining symptoms but when you know you know 🎉🎉 congratulations and good luck ♥️♥️💋💋

@Avdd I would say to not to give up!! I have been trying over a yr w 4 cp so I know how u feel it is draining lol have you been to see your doctor for a blood test for when you’re ovulating as I think they can test your progesterone? Xx

hi everyone this is my first time on a chat like this. I had MC a year next month, and still have not been able to concieve, it was with the help of medical pills and I am convinced something still isnt right? I have had pelvic scan only since saying everything looked ok, I am still doubting though.

Have not seen any EWCM in a long time, postive opk last two months (only)Has anyone taken over a year to concieve again? really soul destroying and becomes an obsession with opks and tests I wonder after this month should I just give it up. The stress of it all!. I have one amazing 6 year old so maybe I should just accept that it is just the 3 of us and get on with life. We had been trying for over a year before the MC.

33 this year ttc 11 cycles

@Sassy144 big congratulations!! 🤞 for your sticky bean ❤️

@buntywindermere really pleased for you, did you do the digital test in the end?

Girls I’m struggling to hold off testing! I’m 9DPO and keep saying to myself stop thinking about it 🤣🤣 I just want to know but I know if I test now there’s a real chance it could be way too early for a BFP anyway 🤦‍♀️ I’m feeling things but I felt things last month so I’m trying not to get my hopes up. It doesn’t help I woke up feeling sick, then this morning I felt sick, still have sore teeth, been very tired and getting twinges in boobs/lower stomach. I’ve said to myself I’ll wait until Wednesday lol

@Sassy144 did you do anything differently this time lovely? Stupid question but I want to do everything I can this month!

@Sassy144 oooh what are you on about woman, that is no squinter!! Congratulations and please try not to be too anxious over the next few days and weeks xxx

@peachiekeen thank you!! 🤞 I hope you do too xx

@Sassy144 oh my goodness!! I'm so pleased for you! I've got everything crossed that this is a sticky bean! I so hope I join you this month 🤞🏼

I'm just like you. Our baby should have been due 8th November and I had the lovely vision in my head of its first Christmas this year 😢xx

So sorry to hear this. How long have you been testing positive for? Xx

@Lottie2267 @bunnykins123 thank you!! 🥰 I'm so pleased (and terrified), and glad I wasn't just imagining symptoms as I was starting to think I was going mad 😂 xx

@Sassy144 omg CONGRATULATIONS!!! That isn't even a squinters! I'm so so happy for you 💕💕 how are you feeling?! X

OMG!!!!! Congratulations @Sassy144 so so pleased for you! I’ve stayed off this thread this month but just saw your post and had to say congratulations ❤️ Xxx

I think I took that before the 3 mins was up I was too excited, it got clearer

I'm shaking...! 11dpo, it's a bit of a squinter but it's definitely a line right? The cramps two days ago must have been implantation!

@bunnykins123 thank you, I just want to know either way! I've been having mild cramping and bloating throughout the tww, plus I've been more tired than usual - I fell asleep in the garden today and I never nap. But don't know whether it's just af messing with me! How are you?

@bumpy22 I'm so sorry you're going through this. With my first pregnancy (mmc) my HCG didn't go undetectable until 3 months post operation. I think I was an unusual case. FRER did pick up an insanely low amount of HCG and I was still getting faint lines at 5. I was ovulating and getting periods throughout al this. You're best bet is to test in a few days to see if it gets darker as that's really the only way to know whether it's a new pregnancy or not 💕

@buntywindermere oh wow tentative congratulations! That certainly looks very positive! Keep us updated 🤞

@AKM89 id say that's all sounding really positive. I have some months here I get globs of the good stuff and still get the blank circle. I would keep bding just in case.

@Indianna2006 oh no I'm so sorry to hear that! It's stressful enough without having to worry about retainer products. Here's hoping the medication works 🤞

@youngiesophie have you tried aspirin and/or progesterone?

@Sassy144 well done for not testing. Give it a bit longer to at least give you a clear answer either way! Really hoping it's your month 🤞 I literally forget every morning so maybe it's a good thing she's hidden it 😂 do you have any remarkable symptoms?!

I MC on the 6th april and was still getting positive tests at 3 weeks on…. so was sent to hospital yesterday. They did a 25mlU sensitive test and it was stark negative.
They then did bloods and hCG levels showed 8.2. The lady said as ive had unprotected sex twice since my MC, it could be a new pregnancy, and the tests I’m using at home are positive because they detect from 6.5mlU of HCG. They’ve told me to test again in a week…. I’m getting cramping in my lower back, mood swings, tender breast and going to the bathroom more frequently but really trying not to get my hopes up.
If the hormone is still in my system can I even have a period yet??
Has anyone had this before or going through it now?