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🌈 Ttc after miscarriage thread 7 🌈💕🤞✨

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Skl2021 · 28/03/2022 17:44

New thread ladies 🌈✨💕

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LuckyMoonstone · 10/05/2022 20:42

@peachiekeen fingers crossed it is really ovulation coming🤞 I’ll do an OPK in the morning and see what my temps look like. Plenty of ewcm now so it’s picking up a bit 👍 haha 😂

My2boysaremyworld · 10/05/2022 20:40

@LuckyMoonstone 🤣🤣

LuckyMoonstone · 10/05/2022 20:39

@My2boysaremyworld I think we’re gonna use the home insemination trick tonight 😆 hopefully tomorrow or Thursday I’ll feel well enough to do it properly!

My2boysaremyworld · 10/05/2022 19:48

@LuckyMoonstone oh no hope you manage to DTD x

peachiekeen · 10/05/2022 19:39

@LuckyMoonstone yay for ovulation!! Sucks about the pain. I felt like my back was collapsing when I ovulated so that was fun. 'Try not to move me!' 🤣

LuckyMoonstone · 10/05/2022 19:16

@My2boysaremyworld I think I have a lymph node infection 😫haha I’ll have to!

My2boysaremyworld · 10/05/2022 18:29

LuckyMoonstone · 10/05/2022 17:47

Ewcm started this afternoon! Which means I have to DTD tonight but I feel awful 😆 might have to take loads of painkillers and just lie there 😂

🤣🤣 oh no what's wrong with you?
Lie back and think of England 🤣🤣

LuckyMoonstone · 10/05/2022 17:47

Ewcm started this afternoon! Which means I have to DTD tonight but I feel awful 😆 might have to take loads of painkillers and just lie there 😂

LuckyMoonstone · 10/05/2022 11:44

@Indianna2006 thank you that sounds good. Wish I had some half decent pics to upload!

LuckyMoonstone · 10/05/2022 11:42

@peachiekeen well I had a quick look on Google earlier and couldn’t get a definitive answer, just forums of other people asking the same question. I’ve gone from 36.4 to 36.17. If I had loads of ewcm as well I’d be feeling hopeful but there’s barely any and I normally have a fair bit before and during ov.

TheBirdintheCave · 10/05/2022 11:35

@Indianna2006 Mine was about a week and a half after the negative I think.

peachiekeen · 10/05/2022 10:51

@Indianna2006 unfortunately it's how long is a piece of string? I think it's different for everyone and then for every time. Try to tune into your body and look for cues and keep testing 🤞🏼

peachiekeen · 10/05/2022 10:51

@LuckyMoonstone I thought temp was supposed to dip just before ovulation? I might be wrong though. I can't do my temps as I get too hot overnight in bed

LuckyMoonstone · 10/05/2022 09:33

Well I’m seeing a tiny bit of stretchy cm but it’s still too thick and dry to be proper ewcm. Opks still neg. Temp has been steady the last couple of days but dropped overnight. Not sure what this means, shouldn’t I be looking for it to keep going up? I am unwell at the moment, hope that doesn’t affect readings!

Indianna2006 · 10/05/2022 09:01

@LuckyMoonstone I used pre mom before for the taking photos of opks and comparing and it giving you the readings. I found it really good and was pretty accurate. Was never any mistaking it on mine. An the numbers and readings made it clear so deff give it a download 🙂

Indianna2006 · 10/05/2022 08:59

@TheBirdintheCave sorry to hear that. Just think it’s fresh new cycle.

i tested two days ago an still had quite a bold positive. And then tested yesterday and it was so so faint. I got excited as think in couple days if I test tomo it might be negative.

when can I hope to expect ovulation ladies by experience? Once you get the negative?

my mc 5 years ago. It seemed to come a week after my negative. Can it be any sooner than that? I wanna make sure I catch it if I can. Ready to try straight away.

i have normal OPKs to use but wondering if I should get the clear blue ones with dual hormones. Or maybe my hormones will be too scoo whiff to pick it up this time.

TheBirdintheCave · 10/05/2022 08:56

Welcome @mupten426132 , sorry for your loss :(

I'm out I think. I've just got my usual AF approaching signs. I may use a cheapie at 12dpo (I think) tomorrow just to completely rule it out.

I'm ok with it I guess, at least this means I can have a glass of wine on holiday in Italy :D

LuckyMoonstone · 09/05/2022 18:38

@mupten426132 so sorry for your loss, I was 16/17 weeks as well, it’s a terrible club to join but you’ll find lots of comfort and support here.
You can try again as soon as you feel ready, there’s no right answer. We started trying again right away. I’ve been waiting for post mortem results since beginning of Jan and only had the results of the body/organ tests back last month (no findings). Still waiting for the results of chromosomal tests and placenta tests.

mupten426132 · 09/05/2022 16:53

Hi 👋🏻

I’m new to this thread, I had a missed miscarriage in Feb and am just coming round to the idea of ttc again- has anyone any advice?
We had a post mortem done as I was 16 weeks pregnant when we found out about the loss so I don’t know whether to wait for the results of that or just go for it? I probably won’t get the results back till June and I’ve read lots of people on here never got an answer anyway? Please help!

Many thanks

theblueflowers · 09/05/2022 16:26

@peachiekeen great to have a cycle buddy! Here's hoping it goes quickly and we have some positivity at the end! 🤞🏻 I'm going to try holding off testing till the weekend after next, but with my last two pregnancies I was getting obvious symptoms by the second week!

@ElleBelleLou so sorry x

peachiekeen · 09/05/2022 16:18

@ElleBelleLou I'm so sorry lovely

peachiekeen · 09/05/2022 16:18

@theblueflowers I feel so relieved because this is the first time since the mc that I've had a really high reading and earlier on in the cycle too! I'm 2 dpo. We can be there for each other through the 2ww! 🤞🏼

theblueflowers · 09/05/2022 16:13

1 dpo today finally after an unsuccessful surge last week. My temps are rising and I'm hoping ovusense will confirm in the next few days. We gave it our best shot with timings!
I'm already mentally exhausted by what lies ahead...

theblueflowers · 09/05/2022 16:03

@peachiekeen you have some amazing positives!

youngiesophie · 09/05/2022 14:24

@ElleBelleLou oh ffs I’m sorry was hoping it was good news for you ☹️ Happens to me every month too get positives on every test then bleed a few days after period was due I’m fed up xxx