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1DPO - Please join!

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MrsRosaline · 14/03/2022 15:28

Anyone else at a similar stage or also in the 2WW? First month trying again after miscarriage so would love to chat it through with others and have some company!

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MrsRosaline · 17/03/2022 18:45

Yeah I tested on Friday night and it was still the flashing smiley and I was so tired so we didn't do anything. But Saturday morning was peak. We did it twice (AM/PM) on sat and then PM on sun. Also did it PM on Monday to be safe 🤦🏻‍♀️ @RMS0209 hopefully we caught the egg!! 🤞🏻

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RMS0209 · 17/03/2022 18:43

@NorseKiwi hello!
@MrsRosaline yes luckily I managed Monday & Tuesday.. so trying to say semi optimistic. Sunday nights test at 7pm was something silly like 0.26
Did you manage Sat & Sun?

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MrsRosaline · 17/03/2022 17:49

Hey @NorseKiwi good luck to you this cycle!

Did you manage to get some in on Monday or Tuesday though @RMS0209 !?

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RMS0209 · 17/03/2022 08:04

@MrsRosaline I didn't DTD Sunday because was so low and thought no point... low and behold peak Monday!

NorseKiwi · 17/03/2022 03:37

I think today is my O Day, so Friday is 1DPO..... its nice to wait with others too

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MrsRosaline · 17/03/2022 00:04

Peaked on CD15 @MrsGrealish which I'm ok about. It's a day or two later than I'd like, but I was ovulating later before (day 19/20 sometimes) so I'm hoping the supplements I'm taking have regulated things a bit better 🤞🏻

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MrsGrealish · 16/03/2022 23:59

@MrsRosaline thank you! I'm in a good place now xx What cycle day did you peak? Mine was 3 days later coz of the chemical and possibly covid.

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MrsRosaline · 16/03/2022 23:43

I didn't DTD on Friday because I was fed up and hadn't seen peak yet. Low and behold it was peak on Saturday morning 🤦🏻‍♀️ @RMS0209

🤞🏻 for you @MrsGrealish. Once you see those two lines it's hard to let go...

Welcome @QueenBee22

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QueenBee22 · 16/03/2022 23:06

Hoping I can join I'm 1 DPO today roughly. Let the 2WW begin!

RMS0209 · 16/03/2022 22:30

@MrsGrealish what a story 😔 sending you all the luck for March. X

MrsGrealish · 16/03/2022 20:45

A bit of my story.
Im 39 (40 in a few months)
Have 2DS (20,19) and 1DD (15)
Thought I was done but had an unexpected pregnancy in March and miscarried at 8 weeks. Absolutely gutted like cried for weeks. Managed to convince DH to try again only to end up with a chemical in January and February.
I feel like this will be the last try because it's truly heartbreaking and exhausting.
Sending love to everyone with losses ❤️ and 🤞for this cycle xx

RMS0209 · 16/03/2022 20:05

@MrsRosaline

Yes I used OvuSense for 8 months but I didn't like inserting it after sex as I felt it tampered with the sperm. It was very good at pinpointing ovulation. I stopped tracking my temp in January as I found it was increasing my anxiety! *@RMS0209*
I was getting anxious this cycle, CD13/14 line was pretty much 0 then I got that sudden peak on Monday but I spent my weekend deflated!
RMS0209 · 16/03/2022 19:33

@MrsRosaline

Yes I used OvuSense for 8 months but I didn't like inserting it after sex as I felt it tampered with the sperm. It was very good at pinpointing ovulation. I stopped tracking my temp in January as I found it was increasing my anxiety! *@RMS0209*
My comment may have posted twice - sorry if it did!! X
CherylPorter350 · 16/03/2022 18:57

Well, I'm 4dpo...had some weird cramps today...I swear I'm not symptom spotting 🤣🤣

It's only our first cycle...after the reversal...a bfp would be a miracle but I'm trying to keep a positive mindset

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MrsRosaline · 16/03/2022 18:18

Yes I used OvuSense for 8 months but I didn't like inserting it after sex as I felt it tampered with the sperm. It was very good at pinpointing ovulation. I stopped tracking my temp in January as I found it was increasing my anxiety! @RMS0209

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RMS0209 · 16/03/2022 17:55

@MrsRosaline I hear you, sending big hugs.
Hopefully this is your month though 🌟
Have you looked at those Ava bracelets or the ovusense? If AF arrives at the end of the month I am thinking of getting one.
It's just frustrating isn't it, I wish it was as easy as it is in the movies.
Try to say zen... nearly the weekend!

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MrsRosaline · 16/03/2022 17:30

I am only 3DPO and struggling. In my heart I feel like we won't be successful this month, and another month of failure will just break me. Trying to stay "zen" and "good vibes" but it's hard today.@RMS0209

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RMS0209 · 16/03/2022 17:21

@MrsRosaline yes I am! I told her on Monday I had my "peak" clear blue and she was still happy to see me.
She's been very good, she also would like me to go for some blood tests at the doctor just to get a better idea, so that's a job for tomorrow to try get that booked.
What DPO are you? I think you should go.. aslong as you mention x

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MrsRosaline · 16/03/2022 17:00

Are you having it in the 2WW @RMS0209 l? I'm undecided what to do.

Sorry @PeanuttyButter it's just awful. So cruel. I really hope you get your sticky bean soon 🤞🏻So many things have to go right to get the BFP, and then to keep it, it's ridiculous.

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RMS0209 · 16/03/2022 16:21

[quote PeanuttyButter]@MrsRosaline unfortunately not. I have missed miscarriages so found out we had lost the first at a private scan at 9.5 weeks and then the second we found out at 9 weeks. We saw the heartbeat at 7 weeks with the second and on both cases didn't have any sign that the pregnancy hadn't advanced. Dye stealers, morning sickness the lot. No bleeding. So had surgical management of both. The third 15dpo so 5 days after my BFP, so a chemical.[/quote]
@PeanuttyButter I am so sorry to read this, hope you don't mind me jumping on. X

PeanuttyButter · 16/03/2022 15:45

@MrsRosaline unfortunately not. I have missed miscarriages so found out we had lost the first at a private scan at 9.5 weeks and then the second we found out at 9 weeks. We saw the heartbeat at 7 weeks with the second and on both cases didn't have any sign that the pregnancy hadn't advanced. Dye stealers, morning sickness the lot. No bleeding. So had surgical management of both. The third 15dpo so 5 days after my BFP, so a chemical.

RMS0209 · 16/03/2022 14:22

Hi Ladies! :)

Officially 1DPO today... let the 2 week fun begin!

@MrsRosaline Go you with the reflexology, I have booked in every Monday for the next 6 weeks so I'm feeling hopeful. She was really nice gave me lots of TTC info and wants me to temp..not great for somebody who doesnt sleep a long period of time but I'll give it a try anyway.

Sorry to hear the stories of non sticky beans but I hope everybody gets sticky beans this month.. all deserved! x

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MrsRosaline · 16/03/2022 13:25

Welcome @MrsGrealish

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MrsRosaline · 16/03/2022 13:25

So then do you lose them soon after @PeanuttyButter? The first one I lost two weeks after positive test at 12DPO. The second one I lost 2 days after positive test at 11DPO. Something stops them sticking and I have no idea what!

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MrsGrealish · 16/03/2022 12:02

Hi ladies ok if I join?
4dpo and time has stood still 🙄