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1DPO - Please join!

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MrsRosaline · 14/03/2022 15:28

Anyone else at a similar stage or also in the 2WW? First month trying again after miscarriage so would love to chat it through with others and have some company!

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Hello47 · 23/03/2022 08:24

@PeanuttyButter eeee there’s a line!! That’s so exciting. I really hope it’s a sticky one for you ✨ xxx

PeanuttyButter · 22/03/2022 16:24

@Cheeeeeeeks I just started taking it again. Spotting hasn't gotten any worse so I'm taking it as a positive. If AF stays away tonight and I get a positive again tomorrow I will call the consultant and see what they suggest. I was supposed to be having some sort of anticoagulants so we will see

Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 16:08

@PeanuttyButter my fingers are crossed for a sticky bean for you. Have you started up your progesterone again now tho? Or is it not as simple as that?

PeanuttyButter · 22/03/2022 16:04

@MrsGrealish @Cheeeeeeeks 12dpo or 13 days after my static on purple clear blue opk. I've always had my positives at 10dpo so was so shocked this morning. Hoping I can rescue any harm I might have done by stopping my progesterone 2 days ago. Ordered some FRERs for tomorrow but won't be able to use FMU. Just hope it sticks as I've been here 3 times before and it hasn't.

Cheeeeeeeks · 22/03/2022 15:03

@PeanuttyButter yes defo see it! Congratulations!!!!🎉🎉🎉

MrsGrealish · 22/03/2022 13:29

@PeanuttyButter yes lady! You have a line 😊 how many dpo?

RMS0209 · 22/03/2022 08:28

@PeanuttyButter

Helps if I add picture. Hope others can see it
I can see it! faint but can see it x
Coopsy92 · 22/03/2022 08:22

Hi everyone. I was feeling optimistic this month - as usual! Been having light period type pains for five days which happened when I got my BFP with my DD. But had some blood this morning. Has anyone had red implantation bleeding? I'm only 10/11 DPO, just been to the loo and had red blood when I wiped. My luteal phase is usually 14 days so this seems too early to be AF but as the blood is red I'm not sure. I never had any bleeding at all with my first pregnancy. Feels like she is on her way but my cycle has never been this short - this would be 23 days. Our bodies love playing games on us don't they Confused

PeanuttyButter · 22/03/2022 07:37

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PeanuttyButter · 22/03/2022 07:36

Thought I was out at 10dpo so stopped my progesterone. BFN at 11dpo yesterday too.
AF wasn't here in full swing this morning just spotting so did an IC and got this. Probably end up a chemical though due to stopping the progesterone but least I know I ovulated. I've put a pessery in now and hoping it hold AF off and I can test with a FRER

ladybuggoldfinch · 21/03/2022 19:37

@Cheeeeeeeks oh my god I did exactly the same! I had cramps 4&5 dpo, felt like my period was coming. I'd just had acupuncture and not sure if that was the cause. I tested today 7dpo and obviously negative.

MrsRosaline · 21/03/2022 18:36

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you @Cheeeeeeeks 🤞🏻

I keep telling myself I'll wait until Saturday when my period is due. I'm only 8DPO today and I know by the time I get to 10 I'll be itching to test!!!

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Cheeeeeeeks · 21/03/2022 17:55

@MrsRosaline that gives me so much hope, thank you! I was getting period like cramping yesterday and then a little bit today so was thinking hmmm could be implantation? And I couldn't stop myself from testing knowing it's too early. I said to myself I will now wait until day of missed period, but I know if I start getting anymore symptoms I will be quick to test again lol

MrsRosaline · 21/03/2022 17:51

@Hello47 as gutting as a BFN is, there's always the hope that comes with a new cycle, which I quite like. Also, remember that CD1 is counted as the first week of pregnancy if you conceived 😌 Will probably way my words when my own period comes at the weekend.

No real symptoms... bit of a backache, but that's it.

@Cheeeeeeeks I was negative at 9/10DPO with DD. Got a positive at 12DPO.

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anibendod · 21/03/2022 17:38

@CherylPorter350

Well, I'm 4dpo...had some weird cramps today...I swear I'm not symptom spotting 🤣🤣

It's only our first cycle...after the reversal...a bfp would be a miracle but I'm trying to keep a positive mindset

@CherylPorter350 I've just come here to search exactly the same thing!

CD20, 4DPO

period / ovulation style cramps started on my way home from work and have continued for the past hour, along with a feeling of fullness down stairs.

I'm trying not to symptom spot as it's only our first month of NTNP and conditions weren't optimal this month for various reasons so I'm not expecting to catch 1st time round. Just hard not to get your hopes up.

Cheeeeeeeks · 21/03/2022 13:05

@Hello47 I'm secretly still hopeful to get a BFP but I know I'm only going to be disappointed when it's a bfn. Everything points to AF coming but I'm trying to stay positive 😂 not sure how I'm gna react when AF comes. Remember we aren't out until AF comes!

Hello47 · 21/03/2022 12:54

Hi,

Thanks guys. @RMS0209 yes definitely still trying next month, really don’t mind what date the due date is!!

Sorry @PeanuttyButter it’s so hard isn’t it 😢 fingers crossed for us next month

@Cheeeeeeeks it is early but think by 11dpo most people get a positive. Of course everyone is different but by this time in all my other pregnancies I’ve had a strong positive by now, so going taking that all in to account I’m pretty confident I’m out.

x

Cheeeeeeeks · 21/03/2022 10:15

@Hello47 we haven't found a place to move out to yet but I'm hoping we do and out by the end of the year. Sorry to hear about your bfn but 11dpo is still a bit early to test no? I tested last night (just turned 9dpo after midnight) and couldn't help myself after I found a bunch of IC's I forgot I put away. BFN. I sat there in sadness for a while. Will be testing again in a few days time

RMS0209 · 21/03/2022 08:47

@PeanuttyButter i hear you! that is lovely, I have everything crossed for you.
not feeling to hopeful so least I can tag on and bug you for April 💗 x

PeanuttyButter · 21/03/2022 08:44

@RMS0209 bfn 11dpo so that's me definitely out.
Yes I will be trying again next month, been trying all this time I can't afford not to. Plus if i get my BFP this next cycle my due date will be Xmas day which is the same day as the due date from my first miscarriage. It didn't bother me last time x

RMS0209 · 21/03/2022 08:34

@Hello47 @PeanuttyButter sending you both big hugs.

Are you both trying in April? I have seen a few people not trying as they don't want late Dec/early Jan babies.
I'll be trying until my little one is here! X

Hello47 · 21/03/2022 08:26

@PeanuttyButter sorry for the bfn.

I got a very negative test today so I’m out too. Little bit heartbroken to be honest, taken it really badly this month. There’s always next month I guess

How are the rest of your getting on? x

PeanuttyButter · 20/03/2022 08:26

@Hello47 10dpo and BFN for me. Fingers crossed on the faint positive though!

I'm gonna stop taking my progesterone today now and just wait for AF to come.

MrsRosaline · 20/03/2022 08:07

You could always buy the clearblue "6 day early one". They are the same sensitivity as FRER but there's no line reading involved 😂 @Hello47

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Hello47 · 20/03/2022 08:02

@PeanuttyButter sorry for the bfn yesterday, I hate this part the most. I think next time I’m going to really try and wait it out. How did you get on this morning?

@Cheeeeeeeks that must be so hard. Really exciting about the move though, you looking forward to it?

@MrsRosaline not long now! I find chemicals really hard so think I’m going to change my testing habits next month. But I always say that 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’ve got a super faint line this morning with an FRER but it’s really stressed me out because I’ve got some really convincing evaps recently and I really don’t want to get my hopes up. Gaaaaah

Xx